The idea of celibacy on a trip to Russia was mentioned. It's true, I don't think it's right to sleep with Russian lady, unless true intent is to make her your fiance. If a woman only wants a good time, that's OK, but I'm not interested in spending time on a good time girl.

I had lunch with a friend (she is female) recently. She is in her late 30's, unmarried. She is saddened by the fact that men here still profess interest in love, sleep with the lady, and then disappear. Among educated, classy women, getting bonked and then deserted isn't high on their wish list. I respect women, so I could never manipulate a woman into sex. To me, it's a really lousy thing to do to a good girl.

Among my group of AW friends, they want a boyfriend. I don't want to be a boyfriend, 'cause I don't want to get too close a gal in her late 30's, who's never been married. I'm also gettin gcloser with my lady in Russia, and it's bad mojo to be speaking with forked tongue. So, I am great friends with these women, but I'm not doing the hokey pokey. I go to Russia, and out of respect, won't be doing Russian hokey pokey, most likely, if she's not "the one."

I know priests in my community getting more action than me.  

I look forward to being married again. My wife won't leave the bedroom for three months. I'll send for food. )

... in response to Chip NO ONE LIKES it..., posted by MarkInTx on Feb 11, 2002

One of the secretaries at work (great body, by the way) came in my office recently, and asked me if I'd like to try "naked popcorn" at her home. I said, "Uhh, what's naked popcorn?"  You watch TV, eat popcorn, naked. Not a bad idea.

I declined. I appreciated the offer, though. Dipping the pen in company ink problem...oh, well.

... in response to The feminazi...., posted by BarryM on Feb 11, 2002

A feminazi is by definition a woman who gets angry when another woman is convinced to not have an abortion.

Chip's secretary could be labeled a sl#t, skank, hussy, trollop, or future company VP.  But the mere fact that she wants to get into an intimate situation with a male means she is nowhere near the gender gestapo camp. 8-)

... in response to Why I don't like Celibacy, posted by ChipShot on Feb 10, 2002

If I were to bring over a woman on a K-1 I would not be allowed to sleep with her prior to the wedding if I wanted to have an Orthodox wedding. The Church is pretty strict about no hanky-panky before a wedding. Luckily, I can announce the engagement to the church shortly before the wedding so I just will have to wait only a week or two.

That comes to another matter. There are some church girls who aren't going to fool around before marriage. It's rare, but there are some out there. Since my target search focuses on areas that are more devout Orthodox Christian, I may encounter some of these girls. Most girls who "save themselves for marriage" tend to marry very young and I have a minimum age of 25 for my criteria so it is very unlikely I'll be dating any "virgins".

I don't think you should pressure any woman for sex. As a matter of fact, "not" having sex with them could be a good character test of the women. Many of these women consider sleeping around with many men the norm and that may call into question their fidelity to you in marriage. Why would you want a woman who would consider having a lover on the side?

-blm

... in response to Re: Some things to consider..., posted by KenC on Feb 11, 2002

I'm glad he is taking the high road when it comes to women. I'm getting advice from a couple of older Orthodox Christian RW about "good" and "bad" Russian girls.

-blm

... in response to I was being more general in my response...., posted by BarryM on Feb 11, 2002

You mean to tell me with all your words on this board you have not even been to the FSU area?  Why don't you just sit back and listen instead of putting your nose up Jacks.......

Ryan

... in response to then there are those who have gone and h..., posted by KenC on Feb 11, 2002

Russian woman bolts on you...  Your such an prick that it should not be long now.  She is probably cheating on you already your just too stupid to know about it...  She gives you that smile then when you turn around she wipps you the bird...  Seen it before, nothing new.
Ryan

Kmart owes you money...ROFLOL  your so full of it.....

... in response to Re: I was being more general in my respo..., posted by Ryan on Feb 11, 2002

Welcome back Ryan, I, for one, have missed your stupid reports and comments!