R/W letters concerning $ problems

[Ryan]

... in response to R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by deatchef on Jan 17, 2002

And yes some will tell you I have done everything in the book wrong but that is yet to be a big for sure....

But from my 2 year search....
This is probably a scam many women from the FSU do not complain about things.  The good ones keep it to themselves that is what you want right.  If anything tell her to look outside the agency for the lesions, they will probably be better quality and less expensive.  She is probably either going for the scam or has been told to write that by the agency.  Now that is important to me "She could be told my the agency to be writing this or she will be droped etc."

The first thing you should be working on before the lesions and anything else is get her away from the agency and write separate if she is really serious she will make that happen.  Then you have to make sure she is real buy following the entire steps that are always posted on this board.  Then you have to meet her and then you can deal with the language issue.  It is really not that big a deal this language issue.  That is my opinion yes I have had a real problem with misunderstanding with the language issue and the body language but for the most part the first meet with an interpreture etc. see is there is cemistry and go from there...
Good luck,
Ryan

[KenB]

... in response to R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by deatchef on Jan 17, 2002

Drop that one like a hot potato. It has been stated over and over again that ANY SELF RESPECTING UKRAINIAN OR RUSSIAN WOMEN WOULD NEVER ASK FOR MONEY PERIOD. This one is doing so indirectly and trying to be coy about it. Indirect or direct if they ask you know right then that they're scamming. Let's see now, she is hoping you will send her money that she would not be able to earn in 6 months for two months of lessons. Makes alot of sense. Unfortunately I fear that some of the other men she most likely is writing to will fall for this.

[tim360z]

... in response to Re: R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by KenB on Jan 17, 2002

they have worked...time and again...over and over...next sucker please.  Please bend over!!!And don't worry about "her",  as I am sure there is some horny moroon out there right now--- running to the nearest Western Union Office and you will be amazed as this "girl" will know more about Western Union than you do.

[tim360z]

... in response to R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by deatchef on Jan 17, 2002

Plain and simple and an often used techinque.  First,  you get quicky hooked on the bait and now...its time for the dough.  Time to reel you in,  quickly before you even have a chance to think about it.  Now,  one could take the tack that this is genuine ( Ho, Ho, Ho)!!!...anyway,  that would be alot of money for good English lessons,  determinent upon just what city she lives in.  But quite high anyway and probably of very dubious quality.

Also,  from my little experience a high-quality RW/UW will not ask for any money...period.  The only possible thing she might ask you to help with MIGHT be for a few bucks to help in her communication expenses.  And I am talking $10 or $20 bucks...and that will only be usually after a couple months of communication.  After a couple weeks and askin' "you to be so kind as to help....".  You are probably dealing with a scammer.

[SingleDad318]

... in response to R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by deatchef on Jan 17, 2002

John! Dude!!!!!!

1 Word? RED FLAG!!!!

*******
"After your letter, I decided to start learning English seriously.
(wow! you must have made a very impressive letter for her to start to consider taking english!, your the MAN!!!)

Your opinion is very important for me, dear John. I believe that one day we will see each other eye to eye and I want to make an impression on you (and your wallet). So, I decided to take courses of English.
(its easier to understand the american money market that way also)

I made up my mind to search for help in our club, as the prices here are very reasonable.
(reasonable for you but not for her)

And I found out that the two month course costs 270$. I was very much upset, dear John! I want to learn English properly, as I want to make impression on you. But I have no such a lot of money! It's a pity.(cry me a freakin river)
(pity=typical scam word)

And I'm very much disappointed, I must tell you. I don't know what to do,(Righhhhhht!!!!!)
I'm at a loss...(Righhhhhhhht!!!!!)

I hope my letter won't be boring for you, dear.
(she doesnt want to put you to sleep with sadness and pity)

I'll be waiting for your reply, dear John.

With the warmer thoughts, your Lyuba.

Editors Note:

In my experience with numerous letters with the word Dear, XXXXX are typically form letters and fill in the XXXXXXX with suckers name.

[deatchef]

... in response to Re: R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by SingleDad318 on Jan 17, 2002

nt

[Ryan]

... in response to Re: R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by SingleDad318 on Jan 17, 2002

of these things.

My Dearest XXXXXX (Love that one after two letters)

My thinking is that the good ones will keep it at just friend and not talk the love carp.  I have two like this now we only talk as friends and just chit chat etc.  Yes we love to get each others letters  and we want to meet each other as soon as possible for the most part friends is the place to be.  "In my opinion..."
Ryan

[hockeybrain]

... in response to Re: R/W letters concerning $ problems, posted by SingleDad318 on Jan 17, 2002

I could not have written it any better.