I said... (Ray and all)

[greg]

... in response to I said... (Ray and all), posted by Howard on Nov 20, 2001

Howard ask yourself if your better with or without her. So far You already answered your question. Looking back what did she do for You? Remember she only wanted to sit around on the sofa and watch that MTV crap. Every penny she earned working was to send to her family, she didn't use a penny to help with your joint expenses, didn't want to give you her hubby sex. We seek a Foreigner for something better than we can find in the States, not something worst or the same. I'm very much afraid to bring someone over here, you don't really know what you got until it's too late. The risk is too great money wise and heart break. Many Pinays has destroyed the Guys, made him lose everything. Don't blame Yourself, what happened to you is more common than you may believe, but the Guys don't Post about it. Pinays can act nice and sweet in the Philippines, but it's a gamble how she's going to act here.

[Taliman]

... in response to Re: I said... (Ray and all), posted by greg on Nov 20, 2001

Greg, your generalizing. Kanos can act nice and sweet in the PI then do a reversal once their wife is here.
It can and DOES happen both ways.
Cheers
Taliman

[Taliman]

... in response to I said... (Ray and all), posted by Howard on Nov 20, 2001

Yep you have waited very long.
Question is DO YOU or Will you ever know the REAL reason she is not happy with U?
Maybe it just doens't matter in the end.
Good luck to you.

PS. You're still young!

[Dave H]

... in response to I said... (Ray and all), posted by Howard on Nov 20, 2001

Hey H,

You've gotta do what you gotta do! You know what is right in your mind and heart. I think you made your mind up a while ago, but just continued to give it your best shot. I would have to agree, that there hasn't been any significant overtures of commitment to the marriage on her part for a he11 of a long time.

Good Luck! Keep the faith...your dream will come true!

Dave H.

[Ray]

... in response to I said... (Ray and all), posted by Howard on Nov 20, 2001

n/t

[Mars]

... in response to I said... (Ray and all), posted by Howard on Nov 20, 2001

Enuff said.....

[HappyIdiot]

... in response to The Man Has Spoken........, posted by Mars on Nov 20, 2001

I can't help but wonder what personal decision it would validate if they divorced without ever trying to reconsile.

What would it mean to you personally, if you read that they (Howard and his wife), had both decided to work on their personal and marital issues, in spite of the difficulty, and improved and repaired the damage that has been done to their relationship?

[Mars]

... in response to What would it mean to you personally?, posted by HappyIdiot on Nov 20, 2001

Hey....more power them. I hope they do but it seems highly unlikely to me. Usually when someone acts like his wife has demonstrated, they will do it again....and again...and again. A generalization but a useful one in this particular situation and in my opinion. And who wants to deal with that kind or problem? Not me.