Walking through the bookstore....

[Keith Smith]

... in response to Kool your jets, JUAN!!!....LOL, posted by Hoda on Feb 12, 2002

What I find disturbing when some men say that "we shouldn't bash women." However, it seems perfectly fine when women continue to bash men ("ALL MEN ARE PIGS, DOGS, ETC."). I'll stick with that foreign sister, thanks. Later.

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Walking through the bookstore...., posted by Bueller on Feb 12, 2002

Avarice isn't a strong enough term to describe the behavior of too many women here. You know Bueller, one of main reasons I went south, was this "avarice" badge of honor that many women now wear. I'm not naive to the importance of finances in a relationship. BUT DAYYUM!!!! The attitudes of the women I know from S.America & parts of Asia who are engaged and/or married to my friends, are like night & day, when compared to AW's.

Contrary to Nicole's narrow train of thought, theses ladies from the south are not living in trees, dancing in straw skirts & throwing rose petals at our feet, as we get off the plane...(lol)! In many respects they are very similiar to AW. But in the most important ones.....matters of the heart! The S.American & Asian women that I know, reside at the other end of the spectrum from their American counterparts!

To those on the quest to find & be found by love....I salute you!

Keep ya head up fellas...love is out there!

p.s. A couple of my ex girlfriends have remarked on how happy I look & feel, since Stivalis came into my life. They've asked what is she doing? What sets her apart? How can I be soo happy & committed to a woman, where there's so much time & distance between us? Tell us about the happiness you've found in Stivalis, that you couldn't find with us. I just smile & promise to talk about it, at another time (boy, does that p*ss them off...LOL)  

[yc]

... in response to LOL......, posted by Hoda on Feb 12, 2002

I bet you was just eatin' it up... WEREN'T YOU.... LOL!!!  LOVING EVERY MINUTE OF IT !!!

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: LOL......, posted by yc on Feb 12, 2002

Alright, alright....

Yeah, I was loving it...(lol)! But I did share some of the things that Stivalis brought into my life, that they didn't. I didn't lay all the blame at their feet. They told me, that I'm a different man now, then when we were together. I told them, that Stivalis is a different type of woman, which is the major reason why I'm different now. Finding & being found by real love, has that kind of effect on a guy....

keep ya head up....Hoda

[Pete E]

... in response to Shhhhhhh!!!!!, posted by Hoda on Feb 12, 2002

Howard,
There is something about being not available that makes a man attractive to women.Your value goes up alot if some other woman wants you.You are also not coming on to them at all,which may upset them even if they weren't interested when you did before.
I used to notice this in restaurants.If I was out with a woman and there were single ladies sitting in the same room I would see them paying attention to me.I could come back the next night by myself and not get any attention at all.
Bill Cosby did a comedy routine years ago when he first became famous.These women were saying damm,I sold Cosby when he was $50 and nows he's 50 million.

Pete

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Shhhhhhh!!!!!, posted by Pete E on Feb 13, 2002

Pete,

  I think, it's some kind of sick game women play. If a guys alone in a club/restaurant, ignore his azz. If he's alone, he ain't worth the time. Let him return to the same establishment with a lady on his arm & she's smiling while in his company. NOW....HE'S SOMETHING SPECIAL! SOMEONE WORTHY OF THEIR ATTENTION!!!! Now you're with a lady, & THEY WANNA FLIRT....WTF!!!! I'll bet any guy who has asked a woman, any woman, why do they do that? You know what their answer wil be......

I DON'T KNOW.... then they're start giggling!

The guy alone, could have a wad of dough in his pocket, thick enough to choke a horse. The guy with the lady on his arm, might not be able to run two nickels together. But you know, who'll be getting the most attention from the women! I've sooooo happy, that I've stopped trying to figure out "the what" & "the why" of what motivates some AW. I've never been happier in regards to my love life. Now I let the women try to figure out "the what" & "the why"....ROTFLMAO!!!!

[Tai]

... in response to Ain't that the truth....., posted by Hoda on Feb 13, 2002

Hoda,

The data I have compiled on this..ahem..subject is as follows:

Most women like to believe that they are the most beautiful and desirable women in the place(even when they aren't).

When a guy walks in with a woman that is attractive/desireable(On Hit) AND who looks happy to be with him...

1) Many women take it as a personal challenge to prove to themselves and the woman that the guy is with, that they are MORE desirable and that they could have him if they wanted(even when in reality they have no shot).

2) The mere fact that the woman appears happy rankles MANY beautiful-but-bitter women, and they do it(flirt) to create "problems in paradise".
-This is also know as "sour grapes" syndrome(Hater-itis)

Women want you to want them, even when they can't have you.
Women want you to want them, even when they don't want you.
Women want you to want them, even when you can't have them.

It's all about that "desirable" thing.

just .02

Tai

ps - If the woman on the guy's arm is not attractive in "their" eyes, or appears unhappy with you...the "women in question" do not react the same, because their "universe" and #1 position is still in tact.
 

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Ain't that the truth....., posted by Tai on Feb 13, 2002

Exposed by Dr.Tai...

You know what's funny, during my last stay at the old "Palace". Me & Stivalis are sitting in the Parlor near the front entrance. This one woman must have walked by atleast 8 times in ten minutes, trying to make small talk. Stivalis mentioned something about "No Class" & "wishful thinking". I fell out, Tai! Another kodak moment was  at Chippi-chappi (spelling?) we were waiting for our take out from Llenos & Carbon. Some ladies chose to sit at the table closest to us. Mind you now, they passed atleast 10 tables to sit within "Flirting range" of us. Stivalis is sitting back, taking all this in. She's concerned that if she leaves to go, to the bathroom. The barracuda's might attack me....ROTFLMAO!!!! My lady plants a PHAT ONE (a very nice kiss)ON ME. She turns around to face the barracuda's & WINKS AT THEM!!! It must have been some "secret female" message meaning...HE'S MINE, BACK OFF or YOU'LL NEVER GET THIS!!! I'm composed on the outside, but screaming on the inside... The ladies in question waved at somebody in the distance (likely ruse to exit gracefully..lol) & moved to another table shortly there after...

LMAO....Hoda

[Tai]

... in response to Finally!!!!! One of a women's best kept ..., posted by Hoda on Feb 13, 2002

Hoda,

The "Phat One" that Stivalis laid on you....that is called "marking her territory"...LOL

The "challengers" saw Stivalis smiling from across the room I bet, though I wouldn't doubt it if they had spotted you two outside of the restaurant somewhere.

In Colombia, the competition is FIERCE and most Colombianas are very conscious of other women vying for their man's attention.

Stivalis definitely knew/knows what time it is.

-Tai

[Aaron]

... in response to Finally!!!!! One of a women's best kept ..., posted by Hoda on Feb 13, 2002

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[stefang]

... in response to Finally!!!!! One of a women's best kept ..., posted by Hoda on Feb 13, 2002

Another difference between a LW and an AW is that a Latina is raised in a family who puts value into the family while an American independence. Most South Americans work and bring their money back to the family I know there are economic reasons for this but this shows already a dependence towards family. American women spend practically everything on themselves selfessly. How many AW are broke with tapped out credit cards from buying jewelry and clothes who suddenly want marriage to alleviate their situation. I know this is a generalization but I see a lot of my own friends who cannot control their own wives spending going into debt. American independence is great financially for us and has led to our economy being the greatest but it has cost us our families. Socially we lag a lot of countries in family life.