trip report 2

[stezo]

So its Friday and Im waiting for the party that night when the owner of LE tells me that she wants to introduce me to her friend that she thinks would be perfect for me. I come to find out later that she gives this girl first crack on any guys she thinks she would be interested in because there such good friends.
 The girl comes over and we go out to lunch. There is an american guy that teaches english in Cali and he interepts for us for a free lunch. Now this girl "R" is incredibly fine. In the land of perfect butts she has the nicest one Ive ever seen. I find her really attractive but she didnt strike me as the sweet type which I am really looking for. After lunch she tells me to have a good time at the party and if after that I still want to know her better we should go out on Saturday. I had a whole list of questions to ask which I realized is pretty ridiculous and akward so I never used it in any meetings w/ ladies. I just kept in mind what I wanted to know and made sure to ask. For any guys thinking of bringing a book of prepared questions Id advised against it. Theres no need to make things akward as alot of the girls are big beleivers in "chemistry"
 So its time for the party. Its myself,the shy dude from Texas and the German guy. Theres about 12 women in the room and they all make a circle around us and ask questions. It was real weird. I thought I was supposed to do the interviewing!! The german guy has been to Cali many times and caught "kid in the candy store" disease. His reputation isnt great so he is not getting much attention. Fellas these ladies share info. The shy guy hasnt said 2 words so Im really feeling alot of focus on me. The surprising thing is there are only a couple of girls that I think are attractive and there wasnt any chemistry there. They didnt have any translators so it made it real tough for me. I knew from the jump that I wanted to focus on 2-3 girls that I felt had serious relationship potential so I didnt even bother pursuing anything with any girls at the party.
  I ended up going to a dance club w/ the LE secretary and a couple of her friends and that was real fun. Those colombians know how to kick it bro. There were people on tables just going buck wild. I came back that night a little dissapointed that I didnt meet anyone that I felt chemistry with given that there were so many women. I was starting to think my family was right Im just to picky and I should just get over trying to find the perfect situation. Oh well I had a date w/ a gorgeous woman the next day and they were having a bigger party the next night. (Alot of the girls work on saturday so they dont go out friday nights)So I went to bed eagerly anticipating the next day. THe vets were right there is no place like Cali...

[hilton]

... in response to trip report 2, posted by stezo on Nov 18, 2001

Stezo,

It sounds like you had a good time in Cali.  When I was talking with Adriana, from latinlove.net, I was telling her that I want to learn spanish really bad.  And, being that I create, develop, and design software for the internet, I was telling her that I didn't mind living in Cali for 5 months, while taking a spanish immersion course in Cali.

Well, to make a long story short, she told me that she would summon up some of her workers at her place of business, I would get a big discount if I stayed there to learn spanish, and all the while I would be meeting women left and right.  And, when I found my 'other half' I could still stay at her bed & breakfast house while being immersed in spanish for 2 to 3 hours a day(having a teacher teach me one-on-one).

So, here's my questions for you:

1) Did you find that the Cali women were upfront about their feelings for you(unlike most american women who just beats around the bush...)?

2) What was the biggest physical and emotional qualities that you found in Calinas versus american women?

3) Now, that you have been to Cali, how would you rank the women of Cali vs the women of america?

Thanks Stezo,

hilton

[stezo]

... in response to Stezo...I have some questions for you br..., posted by hilton on Nov 19, 2001

Those are all good questions brethern. That spanish thing if you can work it out sounds ideal. I think it would take care of the two biggest obstacles I had in Cali. One my spanish sucks and two I didnt have alot of time to really,really get to know people (i was there 11 days)I dont know you personally but the biggest problem you may come across being there so long is sticking with one girl and not trying to date everyone. Man if you can work down there and get paid american $$ go for it. If I had that type of job no doubt I would go live there for 2-3 months.
   I personally found that Cali women are Very upfront about there feelings and they appreciate when you are to. I didnt come across the same games played here. Alot wear there emotion on there sleeves which is good when there happy with you but bad when there not.
  To me there is no comparison between the emotional qualites that I am looking for between Calenas and AW. The women I know in the states talk and think like men. To me thats very unattractive. I like ultra feminine and sweet. You will find plenty of that in Cali. As for physical the women are very into appearance so they all make the most of there potential and as a whole Id say the average Calena is more attractive then AW. but man if you have been to Miami or LA u know that we are definelty representing in the US. I think the difference is fine women there are more down to earth and approchable.
 All that being said as much difference as there are between AW and Calenas women are women period. There are general rules we all know that still apply. Be a nice guy but dont be "Mr. Nice Guy" there were some there that were getting taken advantage of just like they do in the states. The hotter the women is the bigger pain in the arse. The incredibly hot women in Cali you will probaly find more similarties then differences between them and AW. I really suggest you look for someone who would make a good WIFE not a good GIRLFRIEND. It was really tough but I went after a beautiful girl that I thought a relationship would work not just the hottest one i could "get". I hope this helps. If you have more questions Ill give you my private email and you can hit me up. Man go for it I know your anxious but no matter what happens you are going to be glad you did. Later

[TG]

... in response to Re: Stezo...I have some questions for yo..., posted by stezo on Nov 19, 2001

My dad told me a long time ago to choose a wife that is presentable but not striking as the real beauties are usually a pain in the ass....

Seems to me that olf dad was proven right time and time again as I march through life!

[hilton]

... in response to Re: Stezo...I have some questions for yo..., posted by stezo on Nov 19, 2001

Stezo,

Send me your email as soon as possible.  We got some talking to do friend.

hilton

[stezo]

... in response to Stezo, shoot me your private email..., posted by hilton on Nov 19, 2001

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