When I found my now wife, I had written 5 women-she was the only Russian.
It was not until the 2 month that I was actually becoming-connected.
Let me use some logic here-again.
American Dating scene-meet at church, laundry, grocery, bar...
date for 1,2,3....years, get married or not.............get divorced 1/2 the time or more.
FSU dating scene (my story)
write a girl (in my case 6 months) talk on the phone, meet her (if you HAVE FOUND THAT IN 6 MONTHS OF COMMUNICATIONS that you have connections)set paper in motion, talk daily, meet again to see how things have gone and that you still feel the same and that it was not just a fantastic journey, if things are still 'connected' she comes over on a 90 days marriage visa-
this whole process takes a year................if you cannot tell after a year of talking withsome on a regular basis if you are good for each other.................then what can I say.
The heathen way-
have sex with a girl for 3 months-10 years, when you feel threatened that she may find someone else or you feel that you may not-get married.
Remember when a man and woman dated and did not do the deed until they are 'committed'. Well I have some bad news to the naysayers-this is as close to old fashoin love as anything you will find today. It is much more conservative and musch more intimate-and much more romantic.
So all of you guys who have all the answers to 'illusions' of this type of mating ritual..................why are you still alone.
A wise Indian told me once-if you want to know how to fly-ask the Eagle-not the worm!
Joe
ps another joeism
