To Hoda......

[Chris F]

Hoda,

With all due respect, I really dont understand your mindset that I am "dissing women" when I am only ackknowledgeing a fact that insincere women can be found anywhere.

Hoda....think about it?

Oh...and by the way you posted "where does Pete say Cali is more Gringo saturated?"

Maybe you need to read again the first line of his post on 12/18/04...

[Hoda]

... in response to To Hoda......, posted by Chris F on Dec 22, 2004

You need to read Pete's clarification on his "saturation comment" Chris....now on to the rest of ill-advised statements!

Your words:
3. Large number of young,immature, uneducated girls....not the best situation to bring here for a wife.

- THIS IS NOT A DISS?!! Men don't/shouldn't look for "girls" to marry....they should be looking for "women". The situation you mentioned can be found throughout ALL of SA. BTW, Mature & educated women can be found in Cali. I dunno, for some reason they didn't seem to find you in Cali.

4.Yes....insincere women can be found in every city in South America.....but Cali seems to be Number 1 in this area...always.

- THIS IS NOT A DISS?!!! Then you're SOS!!

5. Men have contributed to the problem by going to Cali and using the marriage agencies for a sex vacation..women who were once sincere about this process are no longer because of being jaded by American men.

- What agencies? Who are these "men" you speak of? Are they friends of yours? You sure don't give the Women of Cali much credit, for being able to sift through the the few bastards that make their way down there.

If I were to never marry and wanted a playboy life style...I would probably move to Cali.

- THIS IS NOT A DISS?!!!....to those of us, who have married SINCERE women from Cali. This is not a diss to those women of Cali, who have sincere intentions!

"Wife material" to bring to the states however...Cali would be the last place I look.

- THIS IS NOT A DISS?!!!!! I have never said anything negative about women from any other part of the world, if they didn't match what I was looking for. There are a few places that I wouldn't touch...but what I wouldn't touch, another man would surly embrace!

You've found your love in Peru....No need to trash another country, nor it's women because of your lack of success there!

[Chris F]

... in response to Get it right Chris, posted by Hoda on Dec 23, 2004

Oh Hoda!!!

Dont get this upset from this my friend.....however I have to say once again by reading your post that you are very sensitive about Cali...

I will say once again that sincere women of quality can be found in Cali...you find yours and others have found them as well.

I am sorry if you have a hard time accepting the fact that Cali does have a larger percentage of younger uneducated women in the 18 -22 year old category. This age range....no matter what country they are from.....is not the best situation for a wife because they are still girls who are growing up.

In my opinion....a women who is a little older (25 plus) and has been going to school or has been working for some time is a better situation for a wife....this can be found in Cali....but is more available in cities such as Bogota.

You might think Hoda that because I found success in Peru that I would only be loyal to this city for wife material....this is the farthest thing from the truth.

As I have said before....success is where you find it in South America...my opinions and experiences concerning Cali have mirrored others here....but not everyone of course feels this way....they....like yourself and Dallassteve have had success in Cali.......

Happy Holidays to you Hoda and your family.....

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Get it right Chris...to Hoda, posted by Chris F on Dec 23, 2004


I've taken guys to task before, when they were making similar comments about women from other parts of SA, not just Cali. Guys should be (but many cases, they're not) wary of taking on immature & uneducated 18-22 year olds for marriage material. You're absolutely correct in stating that Bogota, has a higher number of educated women...there's never been an argument about that! I only have a "hard time" with some of your remarks directed at women from Cali. It just seemed to me, that you were putting too many women of Cali, in a negative light....

May you & yours also have a very special holiday & a great new year!