... in response to Re: I'm the leading authority on Colombi..., posted by Wayne1 on Jul 19, 2002Hi Guys,
I think a guy would have to be lucky to find the right combination they are looking for in a short period of time. For one, the guy has to be what the lady is looking for too. I think the pressure to meet someone right away can be a bit dangerous, and the guy may ignore the "red flags" that everybody keeps talking about on this forum. These trips aren't inexpensive so an extended stay may be out of reach for some guys. But entering into a bad relationship can be even more expensive both from an emotional and financial standpoint.
As some of you know I live in Chile, and I have all the time I want to meet and know pretty young latinas. Even with that luxury, it is still difficult to find exactly what I am looking for also. I have dated several ladies recently and I am still dating two young chicas now.
It is easy to find a woman that you are attracted to that's not the problem down south, but to find one for an LTR is not easy in any culture. It is better to take your time and find someone who is compatible.
mike