my novia is keeping me hostage

[mck]

My novia just arrived yestersday to live with me for 6 months. I had to fly down to Guadalajara to pick her up. She was able to get 6 months on her tourist visa after being questioned for 30 minutes from INS. I am glad we got threw that with no problems. Houston is indeed a tough airport for Mexicans coming in on tourist visas. As soon as she got to my house she found some cards and momentos from my ex-girlfriend and threw them all in the trash. Then she threw out all the beer and junk-food in the refrigrator and told me I was going to be eating healthy from now on. I quit smoking about 3 months ago but have since occasionally started smoking again. Last night I told her I was going to my car for a minute and I tried sneaking a smoke. I turn around and she gives me the most evil stare and said "Mike, what are you doing? with a heavy mexican accent. I told you you were not aloud to smoke". I quickly threw the cigarettes in the garbage and she pulled out a belt and said "Do I need to punish you?" I quickly said it would not happen again and she said "I am just looking out for your well being my love" I was like "ummm ok" Anyway I don't think I am going to have much freedom from now on but I can tell you one thing, the sex is absolutely incredible and she does cook and clean for me and everything else but she is also very protective and very motherly towards me and she says all these changes are for my own good, so I am really not complaining. I am having alot of fun with her even though she is kind of strict on me with the smoking, drinking and eating junk food but I can understand why. Ill give you more info as things progress.

[A1A]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

Remember, that whatever you promised her in Mexico, she is
going to hold you to it.  I hope it works out.  I'll be back down in Mexico City a week from Saturday.
A1A

[greg]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

How can You find the freedom to Use the Internet with her all over You???

[mck]

... in response to Hi Mike, posted by greg on Jun 4, 2002

lol at work

[stefang]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

Sounds like to me your little brain is saying this is wonderful but over time like a couple of months or years of forced prison you might start to second guess? Don't let her get too much control you will be sorry.

[Pete E]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

If your not just putting us on I would be afraid to go to sleep with that chick in the house.

Pete

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by Pete E on Jun 4, 2002

I knew a guy one time who got mixed up with a weird girl.He wound up a pile of dismembered body parts.
This guy was a karate expert and  could take about anybody  when he was awake.Asleep a wack on the head was all it took.
She was supposed to be hot in bed also.He left his wife for her.
When your head hits that pillow you better know who you got in the house with you.You could wind up Bobbitized or worse.

Pete

[mck]

... in response to Re: my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by Pete E on Jun 4, 2002

No,I am not putting you on. I do have a few bad habits I need to break. She is alot of fun. Yes, it is a turn on when a hot latina pulls out a belt and threatens to punish you lol. Maybe I just like a different kind of woman then most of the guys on this board. So far, I have been having the time of my life with her. My house is totally spotless now and her cooking is awesome. She really has not gotten home sick at all. This girl is 2 years older then me with raging hormones, and I can hardly keep up with her. Life could be alot worse lol.

the infamous,
MCK

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

I guess your having fun but seriously things you have said about her would worry me.
If we don't see any more MCK posts we better send the cops.

Pete

[Hamlet]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

Mck,

I can see why the sex is wonderful if she is pulling out a belt and threatening to use it on you.  Next time, let her get in a few licks.  The aftermath will be glowing.

Hamlet

[Jeff S]

... in response to my novia is keeping me hostage, posted by mck on Jun 4, 2002

Don't roll over too much or she'll think you're a doormat. It's always good to draw a line in the sand so everyone knows where the limits are. Just my experience - your mileage may vary. Good luck and keep us posted. As one of my good Mexican friends says: "Es un parte de la aventura"

-- Jeff S

[Evan]

... in response to Just a suggestion, posted by Jeff S on Jun 4, 2002

Jeff S. made a good point there. She`s got to learn she is coming into "your" world and everything can`t be as she wants it. Lay the law down a little and see what happens. They tend to have more respect for you if they see you are standing up to them. As far as caring for you and cooking and what not, most are like this and don`t complain. It`s a good thing. Had the same trouble with my chew too, but she`s not going to be at work with you so sneak a few then. Good luck !!