This is a post I did in response to another on Latin Womwen List.I thought I would post it here also.
Pete
Doug,
I think guys are going south to find an attractive lady.They also would like to find a person who is "beautifull inside".The "beauty inside" they could find here if they were willing to give up the "beauty outside"
My theory why people are not in a relationship is they can't have what they want and don't want what they can have.There were women here I know wanted a relationship with me,but I just couldn't do it because they did not fit what I wanted in term of attractiveness.Some of them were very nice people with lots of what you could call "inner beauty",and good jobs where they would add to the resources of the relationship,but they didn't fit my desires,I couldn't do it.I would take one look at them and think that I did not even want to know what they looked like with their clothes off.
I admit that I like many men have not adjusted my expectations as I got older.I still want a beautifull woman,not grandma.I know guys who can get past this and have very nice wives who I find very unattractive.I guess I am just a very visual person.
Not all american women have a bad attitude,but it seems much more likely in the good looking ones,the ones I was interested in.They just get very picky.Hey I can understand,I am too,so I went where I was told I could find what I wanted.They told me right.In Colombia I found very attractive women interested in me,and married one.She is a good person and has lots of "inner beauty".It is much more difficult of course than marrying someone here.There was alot of expense involved.She has to learn the language.Communication can be difficult.She won't be as employable for years as ladies I could have had here.But its worth it too me,I got what I wanted,a beautifull woman with a good attitude who is also a fine person.
Pete
