Well, they arrived here on Sept. 1999. Victoria and I were glad to be together. The boy was a big problem from the start. There is no need to go into detail of all the problems he caused. However the biggest problem we had was his lack of respect for our marriage. He got what he wanted, I sent them back to Cali in Oct. of 1999. Why?
1. They weren't happy!
2. I couldn't help them understand that there are bills to pay..They wanted to spend and spend.
3. Lack of language understanding and she wasn't trying to learn English. I tried to get her to teach me spanish also. But, she never had time,,,
4. Our personalities didn't match...we both wanted to be the boss.
So, I filed for divorce in December and it was granted in Feb. 2000. I decided I wouldn't go back to Cali and that i didn't know enough of the language,,,,so i bought a computer and a friend that i had met in cali encouraged me to sign up for Icq and we would both look into the MOB scene in the Philippines. I made many mistakes in Cali, I was told many lies, but overall I learned a lot from the culture and even looking back thru all the bad times,,I still wanted a foreign wife. American women can have what they are seeking and finding.....more and more men turn away from there hositility.
Part VI will continue on the asian board.
Thanks!
