Update and more.....

[Mark H]

Hey,
Is it me or are there alot of marriage guys around here lately? Excellent, they have the best insight to the finished product.

Update: I graduated and moved, settled into my new place and all the while....no phone or internet access for a few days. No biggie, had the cell phone. I didn't call the Russian girl for the few days. Now it's been about 5 days and I haven't called her at all. She hasn't written me or called me either. I called her en route but haven't called since. She's either been killed by her ex or she's met another guy? Hmmmmm.

I'm not going to initiate contact but it is quite amusing how I went from "You are so wonderful Mark" to .....nothing. To the guys who voted SCAMMER!  I salute you!

Mark H.

[KenC]

... in response to Update and more....., posted by Mark H on May 22, 2002

Mark,
There may be a simple answer to your question of where she went.  She may have had her computer and cell phone cut off by soon to be ex-hubby.  Man, I don't know about you, but I would call her just to see.  Have fun with it, if nothing else.
Glad to hear you made it through your schooling.  Just remember what I said about where you are moving to when you go to watch the Amish cut ice for excitement this winter!  LOL.
KenC

[juio99]

... in response to Update and more....., posted by Mark H on May 22, 2002

She has not contacted you, so you salute those who called her a scammer!!!  Wouldn't a scammer keep up the contact until the 'score' was made??

[Mark H]

... in response to I am missing the logic??, posted by juio99 on May 22, 2002

Greetings,
I don't recognize your username, are you new? Anyway, not sure what your experiences are with scammers and the whole process but typically when scammers realize they aren't going to get the prize, they disappear.

Mark H.

[juio99]

... in response to Re: I am missing the logic??, posted by Mark H on May 23, 2002

Mark, Some of my info is in my profile.  I also posted some info about recent experiences in answer to 'thesearch' below under 'Red Flag.'

JR

[thesearch]

... in response to Update and more....., posted by Mark H on May 22, 2002

Mark,

You said you called her on route - what does that mean and what was the upshot of that call and how long ago was that?

Could she be waiting to hear from you? I think you need to probe a little deeper. This seems only like a yellow flag to me from what you have posted.

[Mark H]

... in response to Re: Update and more....., posted by thesearch on May 22, 2002

Greg,
I called her while driving to my new place. We chit chatted as usual and then nothing. No, I don't expect the girl to call or chase me but she had written every day and called every day and then......nothing. As I told Mark, I've been suspecting things and my gut was telling me to split. We'll see. I'm sure she'll write soon.

Mark H.

[MarkInTx]

... in response to Update and more....., posted by Mark H on May 22, 2002

I must be confused...

Are you saying that you are going to sit around and wait for the woman to initiate things and call you?

And if she doesn't... she is a scammer...

[Mark H]

... in response to Doesn't the man usually call?, posted by MarkInTx on May 22, 2002

Mark,
She wrote me emails every day and called me every day. Now, she's just gone? I guess I could call but I was starting to get a little weary anyway. Call it a hunch but I'm seasoned enough at this to trust my hunches.!

Mark H.

[MarkInTx]

... in response to Re: Doesn't the man usually call?, posted by Mark H on May 23, 2002

Always trust your hunches!