Question for those with fair amount of experi

This is my answer to thesearch's post down lower. My lady from Volgograd and I had a lot of discussions about RW/RM and their differences from CW/CM. I underwent some fairly intensive training in the last year on how to please an RW. The most important thing that I learned is that I know almost nothing about RW. Everyday is a great learning experience for me. My experience is limited to a lot with one woman and a little with a few others.

None of the ladies I know say they are interested in the "bad boy" type. But what I saw in Russia showed that some will still go for them. I guess that's normal. How often do people really practice the ideologies they spout? My lady's siter was good for that. She's only 18 but she can attract the men! There were a couple of times when I literally had to grab her arm and the guy's arm and pull them apart to take her home. She is almost the sweetest girl I've ever met. But she needs to learn to stay away from that kind of guy. She's young and fascinated by the strong, dangerous type. I think Russians respect strength above all else.

My girlfriend on the other hand wanted a combination of somebody who was as strong and ruthless as the "bad boys" and yet tender and loving on the side. I heard lots of, "a Russian man has no fear. A Russian man takes what he wants." And I also heard lots of, "A Russian woman does not want money. She wants strong man who is like a wall that will protect her from everything." And, "The man is the boss. A woman must obey what he says." But before the woman will obey you have to prove that you are strong enough to be worthy.

Now you need to realize that my girlfriend is the strongest and possibly most difficult woman I know. She taught me about the Russian concept of never surrender. I forget the exact term in Russian. But I will never forget the lesson. Be careful boys! Some of these women are tigresses not little kittens. The first time that I proved to her I was really a strong man was when I blew my temper and tried to knock over a concrete wall with my bare hands. I will not hit a woman unless my life depends on it. To me losing my temper is a very bad thing. To her it showed that I wasn't scared to show emotion.

These women want a guy who knows exactly what he's doing and how to do it. They don't like procrastination or being wishy-washy. When they ask a question they want a quick decisive answer.

I hope this helps somebody. Honestly I'm still struggling with the concept of the ladies want from me. But I am a lot more assertive and forceful after my time in Russia.