... in response to Marina and Katya have been here, posted by Stan B on Dec 2, 2001Good luck Stan,
Remember that even though things may be seemingly going well now with adjustment, I have been told by many that it takes a while to really adjust. I would not doubt if the two of them will find the time that they really miss snow and other things from the land that they are used to.
Personally, I think that this is the most challenging part of all of this, not finding her etc but the transition period. Now realize that I say this without having yet to go through it. I think that it is best to have this attitude as it is harder for us to appreciate because we are not the ones going through it.
This is why I personally think that budgeting for trips back to the FSU immediately is so important. I also sense that it is important that one's lady know that you are doing this and for her to actually see the savings grow that are to be allocated for such trip. I would suspect that this would take some of the feeling of being isolated from home because a return is already in the making. Just IMHO.