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http://www.latindest.com/latinusa.htm

Notice how on this website the 25 years olds only want a man 30 to 35 !!!  (even the ones 28 want only a man to 35)

But yet on all the other Colombian based agency websites a 20-25 year old chica says a 40-45 year old is OK.

I guess Junfan was right.

PS- there are some bad apples on this website, two I personally have meet
at a Colombian agency years ago.  But I won't get into the details.

... in response to Junfan was right,    Latin women in the ..., posted by bogota vet on Apr 1, 2003

Dear Vet

I remember when I met my Colombian ex-wife in 1999 her bio said she was looking for a man in the range of 25-35.  She was 21.  I was 42.  Against better judgement I wrote her anyway and one thing led to another.  

Suffice to say that (JunFan notwithstanding) not many men in the range of 25-35 ever arrive at a Colombian marriage agency.  Therefore, she had to take what she could get.  Until she arrived in the US where there were plenty of men in the 25-35 range waiting for her with baited breath.

Steve

... in response to Re: Junfan was right,    Latin women in ..., posted by DallasSteve2 on Apr 1, 2003

Steve,

    If your ex-wife is again joining an agency,she is most likely not doing as well in the dating market with the caliber of men she wants in the U.S. There is probably a lot of competition (contrary to what some think) for the successful good-looking young men who can have his choice of any hot woman. Latin or otherwise.

   She is realizing that the average AM is not as easy to manipulate as she thought. What sense does it make for a woman presently living in the United States to advertise in an agency with American men in search of latinas?. She should have all the men in her area drooling and dying to get a chance to take her out. But it is not happening.I think she just got a reality check .

... in response to Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Latin women..., posted by Mark33 on Apr 2, 2003

I'm a latina already living here, n' there's a lot of reasons why we prefer agencies rather than just date local guys, men in agencies usually are ready for something serious, realationship, most of latinas don't like to be "playing around" with men, you know what I mean, just the way we were raised, n' yes we prefer older men, 'cause we like to feel secure in all the aspects, including financial. They're more experinced, secure of themselves,know what they want. There's no way we can have all that with a younger one, comprende?.
Plus, in agencies u can find gringos serching for latinas, that makes agencies the perfect place to find this kind of men, we like the way gringos treat us, sooooo diferent than the "machos" from our countries, plus u guys are such a good looking.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Latin w..., posted by DuskLady on Apr 2, 2003

Hilton is that you ?

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Latin w..., posted by DuskLady on Apr 2, 2003

Dusklady,

        If you like older men and are presently living in the United States,how hard is it to find one here?  There are tons and tons of older men here who are just dying to date younger women. Also, most men (especially older) rarely have a "type'.
  I like all types,as long as she shows interest and respct.My fiance is Filippina,though I was not specifically looking for that. If a woman is young and hot and interested ,she can catch the interest of any man. So do not look for men just interested in latinas,or just in agencies.I think you would do better on match.com or tons of other dating services in the U.S. where many people are seriously looking.
   

 
   

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Lat..., posted by Mark33 on Apr 2, 2003

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... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Lat..., posted by Mark33 on Apr 2, 2003

I got the clasic latina looks, petite, long hair n' taned skin, so I don't have any problems w men hitting on me all the times, but I'm divorced n' that's a no-no for latinas at least for the old fashion latinas, born n' raised in latin America, so, I need to be extra careful choosing. No more divorces for me, I want to stay w my man for the rest of my life.
I'm not the type of latina that all the she wants is someone that takes her out of her country n'support her family after the wedding, they ain't got no choice, they have to take whatever comes along to get out of there, even the family is agree, they see their daughter as a tool, as soon u meet the family n' left the country, they immediately get sick or lose their jobs n'start asking u for money(mucho ojo con esto), I come from a whealty family,but I'm kind of proud, so I don't ask them for money, I'm doing quite well here in the States, so I can take my time getting to know diferent men, I consider myself a very smart woman so I'm looking for the same, he doesn't have to be perfect, nobody is !!, but at least his defects have to be tolerable to me, 'cause there's some things that I just can't stand n' the same problems are just OK for some other women, so to make this short, I don't want QUANTITY, I want QUALITY, n' that my friend is so hard to find these days, a man sweet enough to spoil u n' take care of u if u ever get sick, but at the same time, tough enough to protect u n' make u feel secure. Hard to find!.
So until I find him, I'll be holding all my sweetness n' love, to devote completely to him in all aspects, that's one of the many virtues that we latinas have, we're very loyal n' faithful, of course, only to the man we love.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,   ..., posted by DuskLady on Apr 3, 2003

Wow! You sound too good to be true. Sound like you really have it figured out pretty well. Ladies like you are hard to find, too.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right..., posted by Z on Apr 14, 2003

Thank u sooooooooo much !!!! u too sound like a nice person.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right,   ..., posted by DuskLady on Apr 3, 2003

hilton is that you ?

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was right..., posted by jim c on Apr 6, 2003

OK, I am not Hilton, now can you please tell me who Hilton is ?

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan was r..., posted by DuskLady on Apr 6, 2003

An inside joke pertaining to people who may not be who or what they say they are. I am sure the old timers know what I mean. Tell us more about yourself, where you are from and how you learned your english style. JIM C

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan w..., posted by jim c on Apr 7, 2003

I'll be more than glad to tell u more about me,but not here, I prefer to remain anonimous, all I can say is that I am not colombian n' of course I learn my modest english from a gringo, if you want further details drop me a few lines, you know my e-mail address.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Junfan w..., posted by jim c on Apr 7, 2003

How's everything? Fine, I hope. Shoot me an e-mail. I would like to talk with you. My e-mail address is: VCultist@aol.com. Later.

... in response to Re: Re: Junfan was right,    Latin women..., posted by Mark33 on Apr 2, 2003

I wondered about that as well.  She always has attractive, young men chasing her here in Dallas, but maybe she's fishing for someone with more cash.  Still it seems like Match.com would be a better choice since she is already here.

The only other reasons I can see for posting on foreign bride agencies are:

1 - She's familiar with the agencies so she went back there.

2 - She wants an American specifically looking for a Latina.

3 - She's had immigration problems and she needs a citizen to close the deal.

Until I hear different I suspect it's numero tres.  I never signed off on her unconditional residency and I don't know that her solo attempt was successful.

Steve

... in response to Re: Junfan was right,    Latin women in ..., posted by DallasSteve2 on Apr 1, 2003

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