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Brothers,

Remember the post I did about the girl that broke my heart very badly?

Well, she just called me up about 2 minutes ago.  She told me, "Hilton, Mike and I have decided to get back together".  I'm saying to myself, 'what the h*ll is this girl thinking.  he disrespects her, makes her cry, and this whole thing with them is long distance(900 miles); and here I am being very nice, respectful, and considerate towards her and her needs and wants, and she's telling me(after telling me that she would never get back with her old boyfriend) that after her and mike talked things out and got things out in the open that she's going back to him now!'.

SHE DECIDED TO GET BACK WITH her old boyfriend!

I told her to never call me, don't look at me, don't email me, and don't even dream about me.  I told her that the biggest lesson I have learned is to never give my heart to another american women.

Fellas, on that note, sure there are some colombian women who will do to you that this no-good-for-nothing wench did to me; but I truly believe that the numbers are so low, especially the ones that join the agency, that it almost doesn't count!

That phone call only made me that much more calus toward american women and giving my heart away to another american girl.

This is the first time that something, of this magnitude, has ever happened to me.  

But, it will be that last!!!!!!!!

(one tear falling down on my face)

hilton

... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

Hilton,
I'm glad you told her to get lost.You would always be playing second fiddle to a jerk with this woman.Whats strange is the other guy may have nothing going for him except he doesn't give a d---.She wants what she can't have even if it makes no sence.
I hear your attitude that you have had it with AM.I don't think you will be carrying this woman around in your head
when you get to Colombia.I don't have to know anthing about her to tell you you can do 10 times better down south.
You will just laugh when you think of her.She screwed up and you got someone alot better.
Immagine yourself at a party with about 10 attractive women trying to get your attention.Are you going to be missing this lady?I don't think so.
I hope you can go soon.There is nothing like the experience to rejuvenate your ego and outlook.It puts a smile on your face that is hard to get rid of.

Pete

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by Pete E on Dec 6, 2001

I'm pushing 60 and have been smiling for two and one half years. It really pis-es the AW's off. Can I change my handle to shallow hal? JIM C
PS I'm going down so I'm not grumpy.

... in response to Re: Re: Brothers...remember the post I d..., posted by jim c on Dec 7, 2001

Jim,
Immagine if this site caught on with married guys.Then the AW would really be p----d.Do you want old and fat or young and beautifull?It might strain a few marriages.
Actually I think I was single so long because there was something better waiting for me.

Pete

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by Pete E on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

...don't go to Cali walking wounded. If you carry pain and suffering with you, then you may be vulnerable in a sea of gorgous women with the most feminine charm. Hilton, I'm just trying to put you down to what to expect on a deeper level.  

As a rule of thumb, never under-estimate the intuition of a Latina. Since in Latin culture, feelings are given equal weight for decision making and thinking (as opposed to other cultures), many Latinas are very intuitive about a person's emotions.

The minute you reveal that you're hurting and suffering behind a past break up with an American woman, the snakes will pick that up, and come on to you strong. And being in a vulnerable state, any positive attention will feel good, and you will be less inclined to preceive the true motives of the women you come across.

Now, some guys might not believe what I just wrote, thinking that it's something unusual, supernatural, or foolish, but it is true. However, guy's who have been in serious relationships with Latinas, or have close friendships with Latinas will all tell you that it is amazing how the women who they're so close with can preceive and explain what they feel, even before they actually talk about their feelings. All that needs to be done to do this is to look in the person's eyes, read their body language, and listen closely, which is psychology at work.

Before, you go, get that American girl out of your head. The very thought of her will interfer with meeting misses right.

Aaron

... in response to OK, I understand what you mean, but........, posted by Aaron on Dec 6, 2001


Listen up Hilton,

Probaly the most important thing you HAVE TO DO. Is to make sure you are going down south with the proper frame of mind. The ladies are VERY intuitive. If you are pissed off, IT WILL SHOW. If you are soo sad, that a rock will cry, IT WILL SHOW! Before you go, drop them shady queens like a bad habit!!! I'm telling you bro, I've seen some knuckle-heads who wasted awhole lotta time & money, because of the baggage they brought with them. Don't make me come over there & beat 'em out of your head....lol

Peace...Hoda

... in response to Bravo Aaron, BRAAAAAVO!, posted by Hoda on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to OK, I understand what you mean, but........, posted by Aaron on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

Study Spanish every day then get thee to Colombia. In the mean time investigate every thing Colombian. Ignore and forget, in fact don't even relate tragic Karma gringa stories. Asi Grasshopper you will know yourself and your media naranja will find you.

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by Cali vet on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

MUCK IT!!! Bro you still have your health & your wits about you. Many of us here, have been where you're at. No doubt it hurts. If it didn't hurt, you must be dead or a pimp! Don't beat yourself up over it, learn from it & move on! Forget the bitter of love. Stay focused on the positive things in your life. Hilton, I feel ya bro! Once the right woman steps into your life. You'll look back & laugh your ass off. When those chicken-heads, see the new Hilton with his life-mate. They will feel the dagger in their heart, that they thought was going to stay in yours....

Trust me...Hoda

... in response to Two tears in a bucket...., posted by Hoda on Dec 6, 2001

chicken heads!! Thats great Hoda. Almost as good as houndog's cows eating cabbage. JIM C

... in response to Re: Two tears in a bucket...., posted by jim c on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

I must be in a good mood. I just thought of getting a Shallow Hal t-shirt. Thats what we are called for going south. Revel in it!  Just because there is no such thing as a shallow harriet. Only women who find insecurity exciting and love to spend their lives being a victim.
  We do not have a corner on the market. Look in the agencies at how many single mothers there are who have never been married. Who do think those unfaithful men go out with?. Hopefully they have learned. Good luck shopping. JIM C

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by jim c on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

Hi Hilton,

I think you did the right thing by asking/telling her to never call you, email you, etc ever again. It may take you a year or so to get over the tormenting thoughts about memories of this girl, but hopefully it will not be so bad for you God willing.

Many women have a perverted dark side which attracts them to evil types of abusive men which fulfils some sick twisted desires they get off on but don't let others know about. Don't even try to understand the reasons why they like it, its like trying to understand why so many other people like other types of perversions that exist.

Let them go to their evil men, and don't try to drag them away to save them from these types of men because they don't want to be taken from them really (they enjoy it in a strange twisted way). Don't think it has anything to do with you though. Most likely you were just the backup man all along in the first place incase their freak didn't want them back. Its good in a way that you found out now, instead of later after you married her or something.

There are honorable woman left, as you mentioned, outside of the American TV culture it will be much easier for you to find them such as in places like Columbia, Africa, Asia.

Peace,
Gumbo.

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by Gumbo on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by Gumbo on Dec 6, 2001

Evil men? I resent that. I was a bad boy once and loved it. Possibly most of us were or still are depending on the woman in question and her point of view. Give me a break. We all have different attitudes during different stages in our lives. I don't agree that hilton did the right thing,if he really wanted her.  Keep the door open for her to return after she takes a beating. She is the confused one. As I said in a previous post Americans do not have a corner on the market in confusing interpersonal relationships. jim c

... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

Hey hilton
Be carefull, some Colombian women like bad boys too. At thirty you should be getting used to it. Just say to yourself: It wasn't me. It was her. She dosn't value herself like I valued her. Get it? It's her problem not yours. At least she called, because deep inside she knows you are more valuable. Don't be surprised if you get a call in the future. Thats my Dear Abby for the day. jim c

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by jim c on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Brothers...remember the post I did about..., posted by hilton on Dec 6, 2001

Hang in there Hilton, I just got out of a bad relationship to. She didn't leave me (although I wish she had at times) I left her. There were bad things coming staying with this girl. Did what was best for me.  

It seems to be that she was having her cake and eating it to.

... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by jDave on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Re: Brothers...remember the post I did a..., posted by jDave on Dec 6, 2001

Typical American woman and they wonder how come no men want to get married to them anymore. I see all the time how the men that treat women like garbage get respect but the men who are nice always get burned. AW today only want you around when they need you for something. They never give just take and take, I really never felt happy even dating one so that is why I decided to look abroad. My friends say that I'm to picky but I just tell them that I wouldn't lower my standards. Remember marriage should be a lifetime but in America it's more like a car lease you just change the model every few years at least that seems to be the case with AW.

... in response to Re: Re: Brothers...remember the post I d..., posted by stefang on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Re: Re: Brothers...remember the post I d..., posted by stefang on Dec 6, 2001

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... in response to Re: Re: Brothers...remember the post I d..., posted by stefang on Dec 6, 2001

"Remember marriage should be a lifetime but in America it's more like a car lease"

This is the truth.

Peace.
Gumbo.