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Title: Hey Greg.............. Post by: Aaron on November 22, 2001, 05:00:00 AM Happy Thanksgiving to you and your son. I took a couple of seconds to read your profile. I really admire what you are doing for the young boy. It shows allot of character!!!
And Merry Christmas (a little early for now, but sincerely), Aaron Title: Re: Hey Greg.............. Post by: greg on November 22, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Hey Greg.............., posted by Aaron on Nov 22, 2001
Thanks alot. You can read my Posts on the Asian board. To be honest with You, my Son is the only good thing to come out of my adventure to the Philippines. I was unlucky to get involved with a married woman(separated). I didn't find out until I got back to the states and started her Visa processing. Anyway I really find the Spainish women here to be very nice and beautiful, I decided on the Philippines becuz my ex girlfriend was a drop dead AW pinay. She was doing alot of hollering about the Philippines, so when we broke up I traveled to Philippines to meet my one Pen pal which is my Son's mother, staying two and half months with her, then I returned this year staying another 2 and half months to meet my baby, register him as an American and bring him home. I tried for a second time to get her here on a Visa, but she failed again. She needs to annulment her marriage to get her Visa. I decided that she should use her allowances to solve her annulment herself, since she does nothing to help with our Son and she does nothing in the Philippines but attend Church services and help her family. If she's serious about our Son and myself then she would make an effort to take care of her situation. In America we believe in our Woman going at least half way with us, so why should we do everything for those Foreigner women while she sit on her butt? Another thang it would cost me a large amount of dollars for her to solve her problems, she has shown me that she cannot be trusted handling money. Soo I hope that she make an effort to do something on her part. Today my Son and myself had a wonderful time at my Mother's house, my mother is trying to set me up with beautiful ladies from her Church, so she invited two hehehe. I don't know if I want to deal with the AWs at this point. Happy Thanksgiving to You too.. Have you ever considered visiting the Philippines? Those ladies are gorgeous...I was just unlucky to choose the first one, didn't have planet-love available to me at that time, now I know what to look out for. :o) greg Title: Re: Re: Hey Greg.............. Post by: El Diablo on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Hey Greg.............., posted by greg on Nov 22, 2001
This statement and your comments in general tick me off!!! You got the woman pregnant for God's sake. I don't want to sound like a total jerk but when you say you were unlucky in choosing her and blame her for a lot of the difficulties, it strikes me the wrong way. What about your responsibility in all of this? It was you who got her pregnant right? When we guys travel to foreign countries, it seems like it's OUR resposibility to understand their customs and to get to know the gals as best as possible. I've never heard a story to date, where a guy was lied to or scammed, where there weren't sufficient warning signs before. Usually the guy moves to quickly or ignores the signs, rationalizing them away because he's gotten caught up into the babe thing. El Diablo Title: Re: Re: Re: Hey Greg.............. Post by: greg on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Re: Hey Greg.............., posted by El Diablo on Nov 23, 2001
Yea, I notice from reading your Posts that it doesn't take much to Piss you off. Your welcomed to your opinion. Anyway I was Speaking to Bro Aaron. Title: Re: Hey Greg.............. Post by: El Diablo on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Re: Re: Hey Greg.............., posted by greg on Nov 23, 2001
Actually you're only the second guy who's ever made me mad on this board. I just believe that we are TOTALLY responsible for our own choices and when they go bad we have no one to blame but ourselves. I also think it's one thing to date a foreign woman but when you get her pregnant it's something entirely different. To be honest, it also strikes me as disrespectful to be writing about the mother of your child in the manner that you are. Only a couple of months ago you posted how you were continuing to work on getting her anulment so you could bring her to the States on a VISA. You complained about the money it was going to cost to hire a lawyer. (Yes, I sometimes read the Asian board) Now you're hinting about dating other women that your mother is trying to set you up with. Maybe I'm totally off base here but isn't it wrong to be thinking about new relationships when the outcome of one is still somewhat in doubt.... El Diablo Title: Re: Re: Hey Greg..............El Diablo Post by: greg on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Hey Greg.............., posted by El Diablo on Nov 23, 2001
defender of Women. Yeah, your a total nosy Jerk. Your statment that I'm the second person to make you mad is a bunch of crap. I read your Posts and your flamming posters ever which way. Whats up Aaron you posted for a reply from me, now you siding with this troublemaker? Did you get me to reply to your post so you can get someone like him on me? I got my own life to live, if you want a woman who continue to lie about serious matters just becuz theres a child involved then you go ahead and do it. I owe you no additional explainations about our situation and now I see why posters don't want to talk about their plms on a public forum, becuz of people like you that read what you want into posts then quick to beat the Guy down. I'm out of here go ahead and blabb your mouth. I'm not going to make anymore extra work for Patrick sooo Ciaos and I know Flamming and Attacking other posters give you a good rush. Your right about labling yourself as a meddling Jerk. greg Title: Re: Hey Greg..............El Diablo Post by: El Diablo on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Re: Hey Greg..............El Diablo, posted by greg on Nov 23, 2001
I must admit to being a bit of a cynic at times and I know that I need to be careful in this regard. I haven't read that many of your posts but somehow this particular one touched a nerve with me. You are right, it is your business but when you post parts of it on a public forum, to a certain extent you can expect guys to give their two cents. Maybe I gave a bucks worth and not the two cents I should have. (-: The way I look at it this whole adventure is ripe with risks. We are going outside the familiar and looking for a life partner in parts of the world we may not understand or fully appreciate. The adventure is expensive also and anyone who isn't prepared to dish out some big bucks is in for a surprise. Something I was struck with when I read your post is that we need to truly know these girls before we make life altering decisions like getting married or creating children. There is no excuse for discovering after the fact that someone is a lyer or a cheat. As a buddy just reminded me recently, people rarely change. I'm truly sorry for your difficulties. I hope you will be able to resolve them in a way that is best for your child and his mother back in the Philippines. El Diablo Title: Thank You El Diablo Post by: greg on November 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Hey Greg..............El Diablo, posted by El Diablo on Nov 23, 2001
Everything's Coooool. Sorry for blowing up. :o) Title: El Diablo, I think you're on to something here. Good Points!! Post by: Aaron on November 23, 2001, 05:00:00 AM |