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After several trips to Colombia, it is not allways easy to keep a clear head against the intoxicating beauty of Colombian women.  I was just listening to the audio of "The Millionaires Mind" by Thomas Stanley and he was listing the qualities of long time spouses of successful millionaires.  Here they are:  Virtuous, unselfish, honest, patient, understanding, and forgiving.  Additional qualities listed included responsible, disciplined, supportive, capable, and similar interests. He noted they have an uncanny ability to avoid the red flags or early warning signals and an intuition to select women with these desirable qualities. Thought this may be helpful.

... in response to Desirable Qualities, posted by Landover on Oct 3, 2001

I just wanted to say to all you guys on here.  I know a woman who is single, honest, trustworthy, caring, understanding, funny, independant, smart, passionate and by far one of the most beautiful women I've ever known.  She is truly beautiful both inside and out.  The funny thing is, she doesn't even know how she affects the men who come in contact with her.  I've noticed that most men seem to be intimidated by her beauty, and those who aren't take for granted that because she's pretty that couldn't possibly have a brain.  Well, let me assure you she's smart too.  What I've found to be her biggest fault is the fact that she really cares for others.  I know, most all of us say we care, but really guys how many people have you met in your life time that really give a darn about the people that cross into their lives?  It's a safe bet, not many.  However, I found her...She lives in Little Rock, Arkansas, she's divorced.  Been divorced since 1994.  She works two jobs, she has a 6 year old little girl.  She is a God fearing - Christian woman, she is honest to a fault.
She's about 5.7, 130 pounds, auburn hair, green eyes.  She's built like a playboy centerfold, she's educated, has a beautiful home, nice car.......Oh, and get this she enjoys off-roading, reading, and renovating her home.  She actually does the renovation work herself....it's unbelievable......I have not been able to find a single thing she could do or teach herself to do.

What's sad about it all is I know she believes in the fairytale (as she puts it) and she doesn't want to just settle for some guy just to keep from being loney, she wants to be in love with the man she marries, I know she hasn't been on a date in several years.  Mind you, it's not because she doesn't get asked.  She says she wants to meet a man who would love her mind first.  A guy that would accept and love her daughter.  A man who isn't looking for his mommy...I think you can get the picture.
She says she is attracted to smart, education, family oriented men.  She claims she can see into a persons heart, and that looks are not what's important to her, it's the heart......I guess by now your wondering why I do not try to date her.  Well, I 'll sure admit that I would really appriciate her, I would love to make this womans dreams come true....but I can't.......She's my wife's sister.  And even, I 'm ashamed to admit it, if my wife and I divorced....it could never happen..........This gentle, loving woman would never dishonor her sister to do such a thing.    So I came here in hopes of finding her a husband, for at least if I cannot have her I might could help to find the man of her dreams........let me know

... in response to Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by Stafford on Oct 4, 2001

Stafford,
I think I've heard this story a few times. Let me get this straight, She wants to meet a guy but she hasn't been on a date in 2 years!! How does one fall in love if you don't even go out on a date. She wants someone to love her for her mind.So whats a guy suppose to do, close his eyes to meet her?? I fell in love with everything that my wife is including her looks. Sounds to me like a typical A/W that doesn't need a relationship or is to afraid of something.

My perspective,
H2-Oh

... in response to Re: Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by H2-Oh on Oct 4, 2001

H2-OH,
What you didn't seem to get from my post is that although she wants the fairy tale, she is not looking.  And yes she is afaird. Afraid of another man  who will tell her all that she longs to hear yet never actually seeing who she is on the inside.  So that when things get tough the guy will just move on.  This is a woman who wants to give all of her heart to on man, but this is too much for most men.  Why do you think the divorce rate is so high?  What better person to look for good qualities in another man than a man.  Please get real........

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by Stafford on Oct 4, 2001

I hope your friend finds what she is looking for. I think today some people get love mixed up with a feeling. Love is an action, a commitment. Marriage as a fairy tale, does not last for long. It quickly become the hardest and best thing you will ever do in life. Maybe she should begin to get into a relationship and give all her heart  to a special guy and love will find her as she commits herself.remember there are no guarentees!! There is no formula to fall in love.

H2-Oh

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by H2-Oh on Oct 4, 2001

Yeah,

There's no formula for love, but there are things that a person should do and should not do.

There are sensible ways to court and marry, and definitly FOOLISH ways to court and marry.

There are sensible people to select for potential partners, and definitly people to avoid.

H20, with all your experience, I'm sure you can relate to this.

Just .02.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by Aaron on Oct 4, 2001

I agree with you, but you can't get to the finish line unless you get into the race. There are always excuses why we can't. I hope this lady will look for reasons why she can. Remember, We always get what we want, whether we like it or not.

H2-Oh

... in response to Re: Desirable Qualities, posted by Stafford on Oct 4, 2001

LOL

... in response to Marrying close relatives is illegal in A..., posted by NW Jim on Oct 4, 2001

Yes, marrying close relatives is illegal in most places.  I am not pursuing this woman.  I am exactly were I am supposed to be.  You see, you insensitive fool, I am one of the few men who has ever really gotten to know her and because of this I appriciate who she is and where she has been.  If circumstances were different I'd probably be chasing her around simply because of how beautiful she is.  But because of the circumstances, I've had an opportunity that most men never achieve, simply because they're too busy looking around to see what else they might be missing.  If you had really understood what I was trying to say you would have seen that I trying to give one lucky guy a "heads up" on someone very special.

... in response to Marrying close relatives is illegal in A..., posted by NW Jim on Oct 4, 2001

hehe