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Title: Jessica Post by: nealt on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Jessica has been back home now for 3 weeks she has not been home for 5 years she said Cebu has changed allot, more like the usa lots of us restaurants and shops and ac in stores plus her diet has changed since she is back home lots of fish and rice she has lost 15 pounds which is fine with me,she is suppose to stay until Oct 15 but i lost another one of my sons last week my youngest this time 19 some of you remember my first lost my oldest 4 years ago 22 so she wants to come home now i told her no to stay it might be along time before she gets to go back did i do the right thing
tneal Title: Re: Jessica Post by: Febtember on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
I'm very much sorry Tneal.Our deepest symphaty.Raquel,Greg,Matthew "We cannot stay here forever were pilgims on our way".But one thing I'm really sure your love for your son will always stay. Title: Re: Jessica Post by: nealt on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
You are both right,i call her when i have my bad times she is goeing to stay there just to much invested to come home now there is not much she can do anyway besides i have 2 more sons here and they are alot of comfort along with my mother and 3 brothers and sister and lots of friends,the funeral was over 2 miles long and that say;s alot about Mitch that i can't tneal Title: Re: Jessica Post by: Jay on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
Hi Tom, I'm very sorry for your loss. How terrible. My prayers are with you. For what its worth, I think you did the right thing. Since Jessica is there just call her alot to let her know whats happening and that you miss her. Let her have her trip. Unless she insists or it all becomes too much for you, then by all means, let her come home early. Take care, Title: Re: Re: Jessica Post by: Ray on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Jessica, posted by Jay on Aug 19, 2003
I agree with you Jay. I think Tom did the right thing. Actually, I thought that both Tom & Jessica were being very unselfish. After waiting for 5 years to go home, she wanted to cut her trip short and come back immediately to be with her husband when he needed her most. Knowing how much this trip meant to her, he chose to grieve alone so that she could finish her long-awaited vacation. Now that sounds like true love! Ray Title: I Agree Also! VeryTrue! (n/t) Post by: Dave H on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Title: Re: Jessica Post by: SteveG on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
Tom and Jessica, I know there is nothing that can be said at a time like this except that I am very sorry to hear about this happening again to your family. SteveG Title: my prayers are with you ,Tom Post by: joemc on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Title: Re: Jessica Post by: david hagar on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
You and your family will be in my prayer's and that of my church. Beattledog Title: Condolences Tom Post by: Jimbo on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Title: Re: Jessica Post by: SteveB on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
May God be with you and we will have you guys in our prayers! Steveb and julietb Title: Re: Jessica Post by: Stephen on August 19, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
Tom: I'm so very sorry to hear about your son. This is a very devastating thing. Tess and I send you our best wishes in these times. Stephen & Tess Title: Re: Jessica Post by: Windmill Boy on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
Tom I am sorry to hear about your recent loss. May God ease your sorrow, reunite you with Jessica, and give you tranquility now. Windy Title: Jessica Post by: Humabdos on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Title: Very sorry to hear that Tom Post by: Jeff S on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM Title: Re: Jessica Post by: Bear on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
i think you should let her come home. She's hurting too and if she thinks you don't need her at a time like this it could be worse. Sorry for your loss. I am sitting here hold AJ and I can't inagine him not being here. So its hard to understand your loss other than I know it must hurt. No parent should have to out live their child. Bear, Honey and AJ Title: Our Condolences Post by: Dave H on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
Hi Tom, We are very sad to hear about your loss. Dave H. Title: So sorry! Post by: Ray on August 18, 2003, 04:00:00 AM ... in response to Jessica, posted by nealt on Aug 18, 2003
You have my deepest sympathies on your loss Tom. That’s terrible news! Yes, I remember your tragic loss 4 years ago. You must be devastated. I don’t even want to think about what that must be like to lose 2 children like that. We’ll remember you guys in our prayers... Ray |