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Title: Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, other
Post by: greg on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
Latinas attend Church Service showing their belly buttons, part of the boobs, mini skirts, dressed to kill. I really don't think women should dress like that at church. Also, don't understand why she would find the need to continue dressing sexy in public after she already found her man. I understand Latinas dressing to kill in their native country becuz thats their culture, but them dressing, showing off their bodies in America isn't the norm unless it's hot and most other women are out there showing off their bodies. I would feel ashamed attending church services with my wife half naked lol. When your women dress to kill, it only tempt other men. If the Latinas are walking around dressed to kill without their Man, whats to keep Guys from trying to talk to her. Filipinas are very beautiful, same as Latinas...but It's rare that I ever see a Pinay walking around showing off her body here in America...I live among both Latinas and Asians, and I don't frequently see any Latinas walking around showing off their bodies. Don't get me wrong, I think highly of Latinas, and I 'm sure that there are plenty of godfearing Christian Latinas that don't find the need to walk around showing off her body.


Title: Latinas' sartorial customs
Post by: surfscum on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, o..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

The latin view of the body, female sexuality and beauty can seem so inverted to our own. My gilrfriend will wear outright sexy clothing when she is with me and she tells me she does it so that I'll be proud to be with her. (I think she also does it so that I won't look at other women.) I have tried to explain to her the differences between how women dress in the US and in Latin countries, but she doesn't understand and won't until she gets here.  By no means is she out trolling for another guy: her body language speaks volumes about how much she loves me. I think it was Iswote who said that women dress as much for each other as they do for men and I really believe that.

I have seen Mexicanas 50 lbs. overweight wearing tight fitting miniskirts with total self-confidence. I once pointed out a woman in a children's TV show that was dressed like a cheerleader: white lace-up knee-high vinyl boots, white hot pants and a halter top. I asked her why does she dress that way if she's working with children? She couldn't answer me on that so I think I may have made a point that time.

I made a sad discovery once when talking about beauty as I was praising my girlfriend's lovely brown skin. She didn't believe me and thought that I really wanted a white skinned woman. Even in Peru the advertising (and racist elements of spanish culture) holds up the light skinned woman as the pinnacle of beauty.

Another side to this is the rampant philandering of Latinos. I think women believe they have to be sexy to attract and keep a man, so they put a lot of emphasis on the outward appearance. While feminists would scream about making women sex objects and only valuing them for their beauty, the average Latina would say it's her role and she's content with it, as long as her man is faithful.



Title: Well be amazed them
Post by: lswote on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, o..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

I really don't think I can give you any satisfactory explanation, but I guarantee you she isn't trying to attract another man.

I do live in a part of the country where it is pretty hot and humid, but my wife is fairly cold blooded and often wears a jacket or sweater even in the Miami heat so that really isn't her reason.  I think wizard pretty much covered it.  She views sexuality and sensuality differently than most Americans.  She always dresses classy even if she shows her belly and cleavage. And she is somewhat apalled (though tolerant) of my constant wearing of shorts and t-shirts.  She thinks they show no taste.

I am not going to complain.  She actually thinks I am sexy (and it's been years since any other woman thought I was sexy).  She does crazy things that are sensual in the most offbeat and delightful ways.  As I have said repeatedly, things are only dirty if you decide they are dirty.  My wife is extremely devoted to me and another man is the last thing she wants.  She just likes to feel good about herself.

Oh and she only wears thongs (no pantie lines), is 33 years old and has the ass for them.



Title: Yeah, saw pictures of your wife
Post by: greg on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Well be amazed them, posted by lswote on May 21, 2003

very stunning woman, you lucky man. As I said, Latinas are the most beautiful women bar none. If peaceful men can find a Latina without temper tantrums thats great. I believe a Guy can do no Wrong in his choice of either Latina or Pinay, both are goooooooood women. If a Guy wanna be able to choose from countless beautiful women with great bodies, then go for Latinas..Guys that looking for a women with beautiful face, slim body..sweetness, then the Pinay's the one.


Title: P.S.
Post by: lswote on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Well be amazed them, posted by lswote on May 21, 2003

I am not looking for validation, I am happy with my choice, but as I said, you may be too conservative for a Latin women.  My wife wears pretty typical attire for an attractive Latin woman.


Title: Convervative for a Latina??? Come on Iswrote
Post by: greg on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to P.S., posted by lswote on May 21, 2003

such nonsense. There are countless Latinas to choose from that don't find the need to show off their bodies. Anyway, I would choose a non catholic christian latina. I doubt that those that really Love jesus go around showing alot of their flesh. My experience meeting both born again Latinas and Filipina Christians is that they have given up dressing bold. Bold is their word of dressing to kill(not talking about dressing in nice clothing).


Title: Re: Convervative for a Latina??? Come on Iswrote
Post by: Michael B on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Convervative for a Latina??? Come on Isw..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

Let's see now, you want a very consertive non-Catholic Born Again Christian who speaks English, doesn't show off her body and loves Jesus? Yes, sir! You want a side order of 'suberviant to the husband' with that? Then save your money, no need to travel abroad. The Glory Bound Full Gospel Friendship Haleluah Church in any small town in Oklahoma has exactaly what you're looking for (some of them can even read and write, just watch out for the snakes).


Title: Usted es un perdedor...
Post by: wizard on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, o..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

Greg,

I don't speak for Bruce (lswote) and I'll let him tear you a new one himself, but for someone who has never been to LA, doesn't speak the language and doesn't understand the culture, you sure speak like an expert... You're obviously speaking from your own perspective and you're trying to project your values and views onto others...

Until you have traveled to LA and understand the culture, you shouldn't make statements like this... Most of the latinas I know, including my wife, enjoy dressing in a sensual manner... Don't mistake this for promiscuity, teasing or flirting... Most latinas, including those that dress in a "sexy" manner are very conservative when it comes to relationships and what is the right / wrong thing to do... They are proud of their bodies and yes, they tend to seeth sexuality...

Just as you were raised wearing blue jeans and tennis shoes, they are raised wearing tight clothing and being sensual... It's part of the culture...

In case you haven't figured it out, it's not in good taste to attack another board member's wife... Stop while you're behind... Patrick has been known to ban people for less...

Mis dos centavos...



Title: Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating me on Latinas
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Usted es un perdedor..., posted by wizard on May 21, 2003

Your correct I don't know a damn thing about Latinas South of the Border, only the ones already here. If Iswrote felt that I was attacking his woman, then he would have told me. Talking about Latinas in general, not his wife. You have a habit of wishing for others to be banned..I've been on PL since 1999, so don't talk to me about "Banning". Iswrote if you feel that I attacked your wife, I apologize..Are you happy now Wizard of Oz??


Title: Well ...
Post by: lswote on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating me on..., posted by greg on May 22, 2003

[This message has been edited by lswote]

Actually I did think it was a bit questionable taste to start a new thread about the topic where it seems you are inviting people to comment on my wife.  I would have thought continuing your questions in the thread where I first mentioned how my wife dressed would have been adequate.   But I am secure in how my wife feels about me and what kind of woman she is so I figure you are just trying to get information to help you in your process of finding the right wife for you and you wanted to make sure I saw your question so you could get information, not that you were trying to insult my wife.

And I should note, while I originally responded to a thread where you commented about Latinas dressing to kill (showing off their bodies) perhaps you and I have different definitions of dressing to kill and showing off bodies.  I think dressing to kill means looking very nice and while my wife does show off her body, it isn't in an overtly sexual manner.  It is much more sensual than sexual.  And remember, women dress for other women just as much if not more than they dress for men, so there are other reasons they will dress hot than to attract another man. Finally I want to say that my wife always looks classy even when she shows skin, it is never cheap or tacky and I feel she is not dressed inappropriately when we go to church.



Title: Thanks Iswrote..I didn't
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Well ..., posted by lswote on May 22, 2003

mean to talk about your wife...You was talking about how she and other Latinas dress at Church Services, I didn't know that they show up at Church showing their navels, part of their boobs, mini skirts..thats new to me, still learning about Latinas. I don't feel discouraged with Latinas at all..I meet them at the Gyms all the time, they are real nice AWs, but the Latinas and Filipinas already in America seem to prefer sticking with their own race. Sooo older Guys have a better chance by going abroad in their search to find and be found by a Lady of another nationality. Again, thats great that Latinas want to dress to kill to please their man, just surprised that they dress like that at place of worship. Difficult for a Man at Church to keep his mind on Jesus seeing these attractive Calenas showing off their beauty especially if the Guy is stuck with an ungrateful fat AW for a wife.lol..I enjoy reading your informative posts, keep it up. thanks


Title: Re: Thanks Iswrote..I didn't
Post by: Peter Lee on May 24, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Thanks Iswrote..I didn't , posted by greg on May 22, 2003

Now we can guess what they can be praying for? LOL

You believe in the here after?
Then you know what I am here after!



Title: Re: Thanks Iswrote..I didn't
Post by: lswote on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Thanks Iswrote..I didn't , posted by greg on May 22, 2003

In case you didn't know, only women from Cali are called Calenas.  My wife is from Bogota and is not a calena.


Title: Yeah, Iswrote..been following your posts
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Thanks Iswrote..I didn't , posted by lswote on May 22, 2003

from top to bottom. I thought all ladies from Colombia are called Calenas, thanks for correcting me.


Title: Re: Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating me on Latinas
Post by: wizard on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating me on..., posted by greg on May 22, 2003

Greg,

I only wish for people to be civil... I read your post as an attack on latinas in general and particularly on lswotes wife...

I have noticed in the past that you seem to draw people into "flame battles" with your posts... That was not my intent..

The length of time you've been on PL has NO bearing whether you're being civil or not...

If wanted you to go away, I would just wave my magic wand and turn you into a troll...



Title: Don't Walk..But Run Fast
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating m..., posted by wizard on May 22, 2003

back to Oz..Lucky for others that our wonderful Wizard doesn't go around flamming and attacking other Posters. What??? You don't flame others??? Of course your Joking. Now be a good Wizard, take your magic wand and run along back to Oz. hehe...btw, loosen up..smell the Roses..ahhhhh what a refreshing smell..Have fun, your getting married, soooo be Happy. :o)))))))))


Title: Greg, Greg, Greg...
Post by: wizard on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Don't Walk..But Run Fast, posted by greg on May 22, 2003

[This message has been edited by wizard]

I call 'em like I see 'em greg...

If you have nothing better to do, I suggest community service instead of making off-color comments about subjects which you know nothing about...

Or crawl, no slither back under your rock...

Now that's an "official" flame...

If you feel that you have to have the last word, so be it... Take a parting shot at me after this post...

I have better things to do than to try and teach you good manners...



Title: Wizard of Oz
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Greg, Greg, Greg..., posted by wizard on May 22, 2003

I suguest you crawl back from the deep of the cave you crawled outta. I recommend that you use your time on your Calena instead of wasting your time sticking your looong Wizard nose into business that doesn't concern you..Iswrote and myself was doing just fine until you jumped in. I disagree with many of your long boring posts on the Latina board, but I've never flamed You. If you don't like a Poster, simply don't read his posts, got it?? I got plenty of time to teach you manners..If I was getting married, or was deeply in Love..I wouldn't even be here. Sooooo Why are You here??? Since your interested in Latinas...run along back to the Latina board where you belong or take your trip back to the land of Oz..My options are open to both Latinas and Filipinas, soooo I got a good reason for being on both boards. Btw, stoop making off color comments about stuff you know zerooo about..Your handle Wizard is a fake, your not that bright, bought you down to my level of intelligence. An intelligent person would simply ignore me, I'm used to your kinda Mess, doesn't bother me at all.hehehehe


Title: It's hard to ignore ignorance
Post by: wizard on May 23, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Wizard of Oz, posted by greg on May 22, 2003

"I disagree with many of your long boring posts on the Latina board"

This is a discussion forum... If you disagree with someone, you should make comment and stand behind your point of view...


"If I was getting married, or was deeply in Love..I wouldn't even be here. Sooooo Why are You here???"

Already married buffoon boy... Waiting on my wife's second interview at the US Embassy next week... BTW, if you had taken time to read my posts, you would know that I'm already married and no, my wife is not from Cali... Just shows you have the attention span of a gnat...


"Since your interested in Latinas...run along back to the Latina board where you belong "

I read all three forums as I'm waiting for my wife to arrive... Before I found my wife in LA, I was pursuing ladies from PI... What's your excuse, to stir up trouble...


"Btw, stoop making off color comments about stuff you know zerooo about"

My comments were not off-color, your's were... If lswote doesn't take offense to your comments, so be it... Personally, I did... I have met both lswote and his wife... The seem like a nice couple... Other than that, I only know them from this board... I took offense to your suggestion that his wife was "advertising" for other men... That's why I posted my views...


"Your handle Wizard is a fake"

And your name is really Greg??? Why don't you post your full name and ssn #... Those here that I want to know my name already know it...


"your not that bright, bought you down to my level of intelligence. An intelligent person would simply ignore me"

Your right, I took the time to respond to someone who should be ignored... My mistake... I don't function well when I have to deal with people at "your level"... Your words...

Ok greg... Here's another long boring post for you to wade through... If your attention span has allowed you to actually finish reading this, then you're brighter than I thought...

I was suprised when I read your profile... 48 with the mentality of a 13 year old girl... And something about spending time in PI and then going back to get your son's citizenship??? Just what is your story greggy???



Title: Re: It's hard to ignore ignorance
Post by: lswote on May 26, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to It's hard to ignore ignorance, posted by wizard on May 23, 2003

I met Mark (wizard) and Francy and they are wonderful people.  I have always enjoyed reading Mark's post since the time we met and I thank him that he would be insulted for me.  I have read enough of your posts greg to know you ask many questions trying to understand as much as you can, but not always with the greatest subtly, so I decided not to be insulted by your post, but I probably would have if I hadn't been familiar with you.

I am sorry you and Mark don't get along.  I have found it odd during the time I have been on the board, with the people who don't get along with each other.  I saw JunFan-Pete E problems, I have had problems with Craig, wizard and greg, and others I can't recall.  It strikes me funny at who doesn't get along and who does sometimes as it is almost just a chance event that starts a bad relationship as most long-term posters are considerate thoughtful people and it is only a misunderstanding that sometimes starts people getting at odds.



Title: U Ignorant
Post by: greg on May 24, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to It's hard to ignore ignorance, posted by wizard on May 23, 2003

Pitiful Foooooool. I agree 100% about what Your saying about Yourself. :o)


Title: Off to see the Wizard, the
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Wizard of Oz, thanks for educating me on..., posted by greg on May 22, 2003

wonderful Wizard of oz, hehe


Title: i know a few...
Post by: Bear on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, o..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

who try to convince all the filipinas here in Houston to wear thongs instead of regular panties.  tried to get Honey to do it right after she got here but she refused (shucks!).  quite a few of them didn't refuse though, particularly the younger unmarried ones.

Bear and Honey



Title: Excuse me..Thongs??? Sorry for my ignorant
Post by: greg on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to i know a few..., posted by Bear on May 21, 2003

Are thongs some kinda G string panties stuck between a lady's buns??? lol


Title: Re: Excuse me..Thongs??? Sorry for my ignorant
Post by: lswote on May 22, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Excuse me..Thongs??? Sorry for my ignora..., posted by greg on May 22, 2003

Yes, that is exactly what they are and if a woman has a body for them, they are very hot to look at, but if she doesn't ... 'nuff said.


Title: Re: thongs
Post by: Jimbo on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to i know a few..., posted by Bear on May 21, 2003

For some, it's a panty line issue.

And that's all I have to say about that.

Jim :o)



Title: btw, I like watching Marilyn on Divorce Court
Post by: greg on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Hi Iswrote, I'm amazed that your wife, o..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

she's a beautiful Latina Judge. I remember watching a show when she asked another Latina plantive to close the top of her blouse, becuz she was showing too much of her cleve(boobs) lol...that was real funny..Judge Marilyn is soooooo cute :o)


Title: Meant Marilyn on People's Court not Divorce
Post by: greg on May 21, 2003, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to btw, I like watching Marilyn on Divorce ..., posted by greg on May 21, 2003

Court. Red head Marilyn is a mighty fine Latina, very intelligent..with sexy eyes lol