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For the members that attempted to ban me from this site due to my contradictory opinions: well, try and trace this address.:) I've only been in Cebu a few days but already I've seen all kinds of fat, old americans with their teenage wives. I would laugh if it didn't just make me feel sick inside. Absolutely pathetic. Hoever, I suppose everyone is entitled to their own happiness, wherever they may find it, so who am I to judge? Just remeber; when I am 50 and try and date your teenage daughter, please don't tell me to  get lost, as if it was good enough for you, then don't place a double standard outside of the Philippines. Later....

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

So you're saying that by the time you hit 50, your wife to be will have run off with an old, fat, rich American? I doubt if she could stand your conceited self that long. You didn't have any problems asking the old fat Americans on Mag- for advice did you?

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

Hey, you’re petty smart. So you finally figured out how to get around Patrick’s registration system, but you had to travel 10,000 miles to do it? A regular super-hacker! ROFL!

I guess you haven’t found any women over there because apparently you don’t have anything better to do but look at fat American bellies and try to start flame wars on the board. Yes, it must be really frustrating to see all those nasty old Americans with nice looking young women and you’re left out in the cold. Maybe if you sew an American flag on your backpack you’ll have better luck… ROTFLMAO!

Enjoy your vacation…:-)

Ray

... in response to Oh, the Lonely Life of a Troll..., posted by Ray on Mar 19, 2001

PIMP (Pissing In My Pants)

Dave H.

... in response to Oh, the Lonely Life of a Troll..., posted by Ray on Mar 19, 2001

Stephen and I were in San Diego last weekend. We did'nt call you because we knew you're busy cleaning the house before Migs gets here.

We had so much fun strolling aroung Old Town, San Diego Zoo, Harbor Village. Gaslamp area was pretty busy because of St. Patrick's Day.

We cancelled the Tijuana trip. Maybe next time when you and Migs will be available. And also Let us know when you're coming to Disneyland. I haven't been there, were planning to go there this summer.

Happy 1st Wedding Anniversary to you & Migs.

Best Regards,

Tess & Stephen

... in response to Hey Ray....., posted by Stephen on Mar 19, 2001

Thanks guys!

Yeah, I didn't get that much cleaning done over the weekend. I had to repair 2 toilets that went out at the same time and then my stupid cat got sicker than a dog so I had to spend most of a day at the vet.

I haven't been to Mexico in over 15 years. It's just too easy to get into trouble down there and I got tired of the cops asking for bribes all the time. I hear it's a lot better now, but I'll probably wait another 15 years before I go back there :-)

Ray

... in response to Re: Hey Ray....., posted by Ray on Mar 20, 2001

...Ray,

Fix the toilets? Come on now. Just put a bucket of water and a ladle next to the toilets and make her feel at home. ;o))

Dave H.

... in response to Ray...Ray...Ray..., posted by Dave H on Mar 20, 2001

…she has flush toilets at home in Surigao City. But because of the low water pressure during the day, if you want to use the 3rd floor toilet, you have to carry a bucket of water up from the 1st floor and fill the tank first.

OBTW, that ladle is called a “tabo”. Make sure you have one in each CR before she arrives because it’s used for more than just flushing the john :-)

Ray

... in response to Actually..., posted by Ray on Mar 20, 2001

Ray,

She has flush toilets and a 3-story house? What did you do, marry into one of the Philippine Royal families? Was her last name Marcos or Estrada? ;o)))

That tabo works real well to scratch your backside. I suppose that is taboo, but no one saw me...I think. ;o)

Dave H.

... in response to The Multipurpose Tabo, posted by Dave H on Mar 20, 2001

I hear alot of alusions, but I can't take a hint worth a d*mn. I just dense that way. ughh me am not smart :)

... in response to What exactly is a Tabo, and what is it u..., posted by logan_jiang on Mar 21, 2001

Hi Logan Jiang,

It is a multipurpose bathroom tool. It looks like a small pot (pan) with a long handle. I have seen plastic and metal. They are probably made out of natural materials too. Like Ray said, one use is to bath. It is dipped into a barrel or bucket of water, then poured over one's self. It is also used to flush toilets that are not automatic, by pouring water down the drain. Kevin kept managing to get his feet wet when he tabo "flushed." ROFLMAO What else Ray knows about it...I'm afraid to ask! I have a feeling it is taboo. :o)) I am new to using the tabo. With Ray's experience, he is probably a Grand Master by now.

Dave H.

... in response to Tabo Beginner, posted by Dave H on Mar 21, 2001

hmmmmm..... Sally never told me all the purposes of this multipurpose bathroom instrument.  All she said was "baathing".  I'll make an inquiry tonight.

Jim

... in response to Re: Tabo Beginner, posted by Jim H on Mar 21, 2001

Seems there should be three tabos in the bathroom....

(and that's all I have to say about that)

Jim

... in response to Tabo Beginner, posted by Dave H on Mar 21, 2001

:-)

... in response to No Dave, it's a Girl thing.....ROTFLMAO, posted by Ray on Mar 21, 2001

Gee Ray,

I was at the sari sari store today. After I went to pay for my items, a light bulb came on in my head. I asked the man if he had any tabos. I sudden grin came over his face and he giggled "no." I said that it was a very handy thing to have around. He smiled and managed to get out a "yes." I could tell he was trying so hard not to laugh, that tears were forming in the corners of his eyes and his face was turning red. At this point I new that I had been had by Mr. RAY!!! Thanks Ray! Now I will have to drive 150 miles to the next closest sari sari store or wait in the car while Marife goes in. I was going to go back next week for more halo halo too. You TGYUTGYGUIHGIY%#!!! ;o)))))))))

... in response to Thanks A Lot RAY!!!!, posted by Dave H on Mar 21, 2001

:-)

... in response to Thanks A Lot RAY!!!!, posted by Dave H on Mar 21, 2001

Thankfully, I didn't drink out of it! ;o))

Dave H.

... in response to What exactly is a Tabo, and what is it u..., posted by logan_jiang on Mar 21, 2001

It's a bathroom utensil used to wash.....

I think I better let one of the ladies explain this one.

Ray

... in response to Re: What exactly is a Tabo, and what is ..., posted by Ray on Mar 21, 2001

You have explained it as discreetly as one could ever get....*s*...as you said,  (and I quote)....."it's a girl thing....a bathroom utensil used to wash....".

I think all you, gentlemen can already get the picture.  *s*
*s

... in response to The Multipurpose Tabo, posted by Dave H on Mar 20, 2001

i have one here in California. I don't think a Filipina can live without it.

Dave H. get one for Marife before she gets here.

Tess Brittain

... in response to well, speaking of tabo....tess, posted by Stephen on Mar 20, 2001

Hi Tess,

Thanks. I will look in the sari-sari store tomorrow. Did you get yours in the US? Marife has used one her whole life.

Dave H.

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

Mike,

You can't run away from yourself!

I just had another birthday recently. So...you know what that means. I'm another year older than my fiancee, for now. ;o)

I have no problem with you dating my daughter, as long as I can date yours. Welcome back! Things were getting boring. I for one, missed you. :o))

Dave H.

... in response to Hi! :o)), posted by Dave H on Mar 19, 2001


Once you have too many, you're gone with the wind.

- Kevin

... in response to Birthdays are like beans., posted by kevin on Mar 19, 2001

N/T

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

You don't know the age of those women.  Many of them are probably in their 20s or even 30s.  Why don't you take a survey?  On second thought, don't bother - no one would believe you.

Jim

... in response to Typical Troll pseudo-hyperbole, posted by Jim H on Mar 19, 2001

Jim,

Is it all right to date outside one's own species? Mike talks a lot about age differences, but he fails to mention the fact that he is not human. :o))

It is nice to see that he took the time to post to us. I guess that means he really does love us. He reminds me of my dog. No matter how bad I punish him, he keeps coming back with his tail wagging and licks me on the hand. ;o)

I hope Shadow and Mike have fun at the beach. :o))

Dave H.

... in response to Tail Wagger, posted by Dave H on Mar 19, 2001

So he really DOES live under a bridge!!!!!!

Jim :o)

... in response to ...not human!, posted by Jim H on Mar 19, 2001

...maybe in a subterranean tunnel. 8oO= Arrrrggghhh!!!

Dave H.

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

Mike,

 How can a member ban you?  I think you are getting paranoid here.  That's Patrick job description.  :)

 Confidentially I personally felt uncomfortable going more than about 5 years younger when writing pen pals but if two people want to marry with a 100 year difference that's their business not mine.   I think most people are smart enough to know the problems/risks involved with large age differences and make a choice on their own.   Maybe not though, I can see how a guys judgement could be clouded when suddenly he has a chance to marry some beautiful exotic young woman far younger than he ever dreamed of....

                                     SteveG

... in response to Re: Hello again, posted by SteveG on Mar 19, 2001

When it is God's will, it works. No matter the ages.
Carl

... in response to Re: Re: Hello again, posted by Carl on Mar 20, 2001

P.S.

and for some of us......GOD decides WHEN that TRUE LOVE will come....and all we have to do is wait...maybe...the time is not yet right.  *s*

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Hello again, posted by may10 on Mar 21, 2001

I waited for his time. He did not do it at my time, but
his way sure was right. Good luck, God bless
Carl

... in response to Re: Re: Hello again, posted by Carl on Mar 20, 2001

Carl,

You are right! I have seen it happen with friends and family members. I don't believe that I chose my fiancee, God did. Unlike my other relationships. I tried to hard to fight it, but it was no use. I knew that things would be very difficult. When seemingly insurmountable problems came up, simple (although not always easy) solutions appeared. Due to concerns over my children's care, I didn't know if I was going to be able to go to the Philippines. It wasn't until the airplane was over the Pacific Ocean, that I was certain, that I was on my way.

Dave H.

... in response to God's Will, posted by Dave H on Mar 20, 2001

My wife and I probably make a record of the widest age difference. Exactly to the day of 47.5 years. We have been married over a year now. I still live in amazement how she can love me so much. We are proof when it is God's will and plan, it is wonderful. We get along fantastic and she does not pay any attention to ones she is around when they say something against her being married to such an old man.
Sometimes, I am concerned she may come home some day and tell me she is in love with a younger man. But,I know our marriage was made by God and just leave it up to him.
She is happy, bubbly and shows real love everyday. What a wonder when one has God in their heart.
Thanks to SteveG and DaveH for your comments.
Carl

... in response to Re: God's Will, posted by Carl on Mar 21, 2001

Carl,

You're old enough to be her husband. ;o)

You beat my friend. He and his Filipina wife have about a 40 year age difference. They are a great couple, with a very happy marriage! I have never doubted their love for each other.

Dave H.

... in response to Re: God's Will, posted by Carl on Mar 21, 2001


Your wife is a wonderful person.  I really enjoyed talking to her the other night and had some good laughs.

- Kevin

... in response to Re: Re: God's Will, posted by kevin on Mar 21, 2001

Thanks guys for your compliments of my wife.
I certainly think she is wonderful. Bill Gates could offer
me all his assets for her, I would turn him down promptly.
Carl

... in response to Re: Re: Hello again, posted by Carl on Mar 20, 2001

Carl,

 I agree.   The last thing I want to do is condemn someone elses marriage based on something as subjective as an age difference that appears large based on perceptions of American society.   Us guys and gals who take this route seeking a spouse have to listen to enough criticism from the outside, we should try to be supportive of each other and not nitpick why "my" marriage is better than "yours" because _____________ (fill in the blank with your reason of choice).  :)

 
                                        SteveG

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

Shadow is in Cebu too and he's looking for you ! lol

... in response to Hello again, posted by Mike on Mar 19, 2001

Shadow is looking for you be careful!   lol  Did he kick sand in your face at thr beach? ROFLMAO