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Well I'm STILL emotionally devastated but I'm going to start again. I'm NOT going to waste time. The way I look at it my next trip will be 3 - 4 months. I"ll run an ad & write a few. I think in 3 -4 months I SHOULD be much better & healing up.
Can anyone recommend 3 good agencies to write girls? I"m going to use Jacks once again to run my ad. I can't out of 60 ladies that wrote me I picked the THIS one!!!:-((

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Or is that what you're tryin' to do?
Put up a fight you believe to be right
And one day the sun will shine through.

Take off your hat, kick off your shoes.
You know you ain't goin' anywhere

...pick up your guitar and write some blues

But I know what you're wishing for.

Everybody's got a dream.

... in response to Throw down your gun, you might shoot you..., posted by T P Cornholio on Jun 15, 2005

Not sure what that means but I don't play the blues man. I'm just too happy to do that. I think Eddie Van Halen said the same thing. I DO enjoy QUITE a release playing though. I dropped off my wife last Thursday & Friday night I was having a blast on stage. I guess that's what keep me sane.

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Frank, this has nothing to do with Russian women, but simply with dating experience.  Before I met my boyfriend, I was the uncrowned queen of Lavalife.  For someone who is not "conventionally attractive," I was racking up dates like there was no tomorrow.  I had a number of short-term relationships, and every time one ended, I was right back on the system: new-and-improved profile, pictures, etc.  I was unstoppable.  I had no idea who I was or what I wanted anymore because I was just trying to run away from the pain of a connection that lasted all 4 years of college and never materialized.

Then, this past winter, I decided to take a break. I stopped and realized that I wasn't doing a lot of things that I used to enjoy before.  I wasn't me anymore.  I realized that I had gotten so caught in this wash-rince-repeat cycle, that I was so focused on choosing someone to meet my requirements, that I'd lost track of what I had to offer.  So I pulled back, and in a short while, I met my boyfriend.  Now I'm back on track with a lot of things, and he brings me so much joy, that everything else seems to go along with it.

I'm saying what the other guys seem to say.  Take a break, for yourself.  I know that your self esteem took a blow and that you're looking for a bandage.  But you need to put yourself together, stabilize yourself, or you'll end up going nuts like Scaught.  You need your friends and family, your pets, your hobbies.  I think you need you back.  And when you get that, you'll have a lot more insight into yourself and the dating process, and hopefully you'll zero in on a good woman ;)

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

NT

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

Sometimes we can keep "re-creating" the "same" problems over and over again and keep trying to "fix" them when in  fact what we "should" be doing is finding a horse of a totally different color altogether...

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

Frank

Take a break. You are not yet divoced that this woman is not out of your mind. Like the young Finessea, I had been spinning my wheels. i quit looking and found a very special young lady from Ubekestain. I loved the Latin woman more, but we never know where true love will take us. take a break and enjoy life for life, not to get layed or a woman in your life.

Beattledog

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

This kid is telling Frank he lacks dating experience! Talking about being born yesterday! Frank's been around the block a few times and back, and then some.

I like what Cat Prof wrote, though, about basically not trying so hard. Believe me, a relationship shouldn't have to be so hard to get going. It should happen naturally. And this MOB scene hardly qualifies as natural. Stop focusing in making it happen and just let it happen. It will happen where you are without resorting to involvement with mail order brides, who you hook with your mail order bribes.

(Cat Prof, still waiting for the thesis. I Western Unioned you the $500 for your new hard disc, so what's the excuse now?)

... in response to Re: Re: I'm getting back on the same ole..., posted by Scaught on Jun 15, 2005

I think you need to learn how to read.  I never told him he lacked dating experience, but that my response had to do with dating experience in general, since I obviously haven't dated Russian women. Sorry if that went over your head - I imagine you're too used to reading broken English.

As far as the money goes, sorry, but I'm living up to the scammer reputation and not delivering.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I'm getting back on the same..., posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

Cat Prof: You need to reread the chapter in Moby Dick that takes place in The Spouter Inn-- remember the phrase "thoroughly besmoked"-- that's how clear your English is. I'd give you the chapter number, but that one's in my other house. It's fairly early in the book, just before setting sail.

English literature-- everything you write the teacher says it's great! It's the lowest standard in academia.

... in response to Thorough Thoreau Melville Twitman , posted by Scaught on Jun 15, 2005

It's chapter three.  I believe it describes your understanding quite perfectly.  But it's pointless to argue because you are mentally ill.  

"English literature-- everything you write the teacher says it's great! It's the lowest standard in academia."

I'm sorry, but I didn't know "academia" applied to rural highschools. I can't think of other places where "everything you write the teacher says it's great." Also, considering your illiterate use of punctuation, I doubt that you made it any further, which is why you resent someone else's education with such ferocity.

Maybe next time you beat the shit out of a woman you'll get to take classes in prison?

... in response to Re: Thorough Thoreau Melville Twitman , posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

Where's your thesis? You really need to be completely exposed for what you are. We'll just let your own words beat the shit out of you. You don't dare to let us read your thesis because Prof Cat Girl is a Scaredy Cat.

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

Well, I'm glad you're back!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Does this mean you're staying?...for a while anyhow.  Just stay and contribute when you want to, or have the urge.  If you haven't noticed, nobody answers my posts, so, at least you've got some "action".

... in response to Re: Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Globetrotter on Jun 15, 2005

Hey, I took a manjor blow but I'm no kid. Like a friend once told as a 19 year old when I had my heartbroken & I was whining about NEVER finding someone else "so are you turning gay now?". That pretty much changed my mind right there. It's embarrassing & humiliating but I know I think SOMEONE out there MIGHT learn something from my situation. Even if ONLY ONE person gets something out it & I help him avoid the pain I'm going through it will have been worth all the pain & humiliation of posting here. By the way the barbs & stones I get thrown here are NOTHING compared to the pain she put me through. This is a walk in the park man.

... in response to Re: Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Globetrotter on Jun 15, 2005

Why doesn't anyone answer your posts?

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I'm getting back on the hors..., posted by Felinessa on Jun 15, 2005

No clue, or maybe too "logical" but don't know.  Glad you're back Ms. "F".

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

well, why not take a vacation to cancun, etc, have a few drinks and chill before you get back on any horse.  Tooo soooooon bud, chill for a while and gain some perpective then move on, women will be there when and if you decide.
Robert D.

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Robert D on Jun 15, 2005

actually that IS what I'm planning on doing. Palace resorts sound very nice in Cancun. Already got someone to "accompany" me as well & it has NOTHING to do with marriage.

... in response to You psychic ..., posted by Frank O on Jun 15, 2005

if you want some tips on Cancun let me know.  I have been going to that region each year for the last 20 years.  There are some interesting places and things to do that are non-tourist, and if you are going with a lady some rather romantic places that are overlooked often.  
Robert D.

... in response to Re: You psychic ..., posted by Robert D on Jun 15, 2005

I"ll do that I've been wanting to go I WAS supposed to go with Diana but you know how that turned out. I'm thinking whether to spend my $5K in Cancun or go ahead & start planning for my next Ukraine trip.

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Robert D on Jun 15, 2005

Hey Frank.............everyone has advice for you...me too!

You seem like a really nice guy caught in a whirlpool.  From a 50 plus year old dude, you are barely scratching the surface, and have much to learn about life and it's pitfalls, and you've learned the hard way from this encounter.  Just keep the "shiny side up" (from a car guy), be more careful next time, watch for every red flag that shows it's ugly face, and talk to and be nice to Jack, who can tell you much about a chick before you meet them...from him or his people, then follow your heart.

Also, you have many friends here.

PS:  I have a brother who can sing the Who's...The Real Me, better than Daltry ever did!

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Frank I think that before you even think about doing this again you had better get your house in order.  I am talking about your mental and emotional well being.  Chances are if you jump back in right now you will end up in a similar situation.

I see this same impulsivness that makes you want to "get back on the horse" so soon as being the same thing that made you propose to and marry this girl after only knowing her for a couple of weeks

One other thing, I believe there is a matter of divorce or anullment you might want to clear up.

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

NT

... in response to So can anyone recommend 3 agencies? NT, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

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... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Frank: Why???

Scaught

... in response to Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Scaught on Jun 14, 2005

Cause..........anything can work, and is possible, and one should probably stay out of Lugansk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Come on man...you could have done well if you had chosen more wisely.....just like Frank.

... in response to Re: Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Globetrotter on Jun 14, 2005

There are so many more desirable women who would never pull these stunts right here in the USA, IMHO.

I am stunned that anyone that came perilously close to being in Folsom Prison (the abuse card was just a matter of time) would get back on the same diseased horse. That horse needs to be euthanized.

Frank's in the music scene. Certainly there are women around that are far above the one he married.

Scaught

... in response to Re: Re: I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Globetrotter on Jun 14, 2005

NT

... in response to Ihate to agree but you are right. NT, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Thanks Frank. Why not talk to Jack...get the skinny from him as to what he or his people think, and then act accordingly?

... in response to Re: Ihate to agree but you are right. NT, posted by Globetrotter on Jun 14, 2005

they are busy on a tour in St. Petersburg. Will get started upon their return.

... in response to I'm getting back on the horse, posted by Frank O on Jun 14, 2005

Atta Boy Frank! Take what you have learned and turn it into a positve expirience. Time heals...

... in response to Re: getting back on the horse, posted by Rags on Jun 14, 2005

Time heals... yup, it's been five whole minutes.