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My name is Nazanin and I'm a journalist and student in New York City.  I'm
producing a radio documentary about dating and marriage through the
internet...how does this process work?  Why did you decide to look for an
Eastern European or Russian women?  What was your experience like?

I know these are very personal issues but I'm hoping that someone will want
to tell their story...to help people understand what this process is really like.  

If you are in the New York City area...and have dated or married a woman
through agencies that connect American men with Eastern European
women...or if you've gone on a tour or are leaving for a tour...and want to talk
about it...I'd be grateful if you would respond to this post.

Sorry to take your time...thank you for reading this post...I hope to hear from
you.

-Nazanin

Sometimes it is treated fairly, but often it is treated unfairly and slanted to make the participants appear as desperate losers.  

Naturally the posters here have no idea what your agenda is, and any words of assurance you might post here would be just...words.

Hamlet

...This guy seems to be focusing on "success" stories. In deference to his listeners I hope he widens his perspective and shows the dark side of this racket. On the plus side the least he could do is try and find a couple who has been together more a few years. Anything less is smoke and mirrors.

Thanks for writing,
Naz

you go ahed an ask away.  i'll answer anythings ye wanta hear.  we git any money fer tellin our story?  things r a little tigt rite now in the nayberhod.  ya can visit ur web site if ya want-

www.mytrailerpark.com

don't ask ma brother daniel nothing, cause he suks at html...

I'm sure there's one about "California Livin".

my bride got here jusst fine butt about 15 pounds lighter than when she left Tanzania, those damn shippers didn't leave her enuff food in her damn box! that first marriage only lasted about 4 months, how an the heck were i to no she was lezbo, never said anything about this in that damn catalog!

so after that incident me starting going in person, me want to make sure woman like man and not just woman. i guess it would be okey dokey if she liked woman as long as she also liked man, no what i mean?

anyway found good women, after eleveteen visits, she can sure cook and with her three kids she better be good cook, not too pretty either but don't have to worry about her leaving my ass as i have decided not to work anymore.

hey guy from new your city, you want to know more about my experience? maybe they can make it into a movie, ya think?

 You need my CD and visa kit pronto.

  Now *thats* entertainment!

I'm not really sure why you took the time to post a fake reply.  I'm
sincere in my request....and I'm not doing this story with any
preconceived ideas about meeting women in other countries and
getting married.

I've studied marriage and I did my masters thesis on
marriage...and believe me....what you guys are doing isn't very
weird....it's just relatively new.

Anyway....thank you for responding....it gives me an idea of the
sensitivity of this issue.

-Nazanin

I didn't know that marriage was a 'college course' anywhere.

About Patrick..He is married to a Latina girl.

Dosvadanya, Karl

You're quite right, marriage is not a "college course", but as I'm
sure you know, you can pretty much study anything in graduate
school which is where I am right now.

My parents had an arranged marriage and that's where my interest
in marriage comes from.

If you would e-mail me and let me know whether or not we can
speak before you arrive in new york city, it would be a great help.

My e-mail address is nrafsanjani@nospam.com....

Thank you for responding,
Naz

Thank you for your suggestions.  Congratulations to your parents
on 50 years! That's incredible!

I actually have spent a lot of time reading the message boards.  
I've interviewed a couple of people who own companies that help
American men meet women in Eastern Europe and Russia.  But
since this is a radio piece, I need actual human voices to speak on
tape....that's why I posted here.

This topic may not be original but I think it is worthwhile and
interesting and I've actually never heard a radio piece on it.  If you
have heard one, please direct me to it if you have a moment.  

Although I'm sure it would be lovely to interview your mom and
dad, I don't think it would fit in to this piece...as my piece is quite
specific.  If you or someone you know did use an agency, or met a
woman through the internet...in Eastern Europe or Russia...and
has a successful relationship or marriage...I'd be interested in
inerviewing them.

Anyway, sorry to ramble....thanks for taking the time to post.

Naz

1) American Men who seek domestic women via the internet.
2) American Men who have married domestic women they met through the internet.
3) American Women who seek domestic men through the internet
4) American Women who married domestic men they met through the internet.
5) American Men who seek international women via the internet.
6) American Men who married international women they met through the internet.
7) American Women who seek international men through the internet.
8) American Women who have married international men through the internet.

I'll bet dimes to doughnuts that the mens and womens reasons and experiences with internet dating in these groups are basically the same (can't find the right person in my own back yard, yep it worked, no it failed, I was scammed, etc.) if the sample size is statistically valid!  Anything less is really only an attempt to create a newsworthy radio show for its viewers which is not representative of internet dating (whether you label it as domestic or international internet dating) and might as well be another onesided Jerry Springer ppv show.

If he could hook up with somebody like Maxium Magazine, as the russian ladies just might be offended if they used Playboy magazine and were just looking for the sexual angle on the story.