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Hey LP,

What's it called if they . . . . . . shave??? POSB (Power of the Shaven Bush)? --smile--

Keep it clean - sorta.

- Dan

... in response to For LP re:POB . . ., posted by Dan on Dec 14, 2002

WARNING: NO ONE SHOULD POST INTO THIS THREAD UNLESS THEY HAVE AN IRREVERENT SENSE OF HUMOR!

... in response to For LP re:POB . . ., posted by Dan on Dec 14, 2002


Guys,
If you missed LP's post, here it is again.  This should be a must read for any man seeking a partner.

Lemme explain sumthin to you I learned from 4 years of being an LEO. Basically, in general, human beings suck. This includes the fairer sex. Women are capable of the most despicable acts known to man and only men who are lonely or lack confidence in dealing with them place them upon a pedestal. By doing so you often forfeit your own sense of worth, a bad move.

Now don't get me wrong, they have their place in the grand scheme of things and I like them too. I'm not saying they should be abused, or even used, but any man who waxes poetic about women in general is an ignorant fool and is just cruising for a bruising. Chicks are just people and because of their emotions, are often a mass of conflicting logic. Lol, compared to us they're continually operating in something akin to an altered state.

My experience is that the vast majority of FSU women have some form of hidden agenda, as do most women. That agenda can be overtly evil or so sugar coated it's barely perceptable. Even the sweet ones (and I've met some very sweet ones) are always looking for an angle, especially in the beginning of a relationship. That agenda may vanish if she becomes sweet on you but it lives on if she doesn't. This is true of most women and with FSU women that cultural seed was planted and took root long before some American smuck like you came along.

How Joe Smuck deals with it, how he pierces the fog of his own emotions when dealing with them, is the key to seeing what they may become in the future. In general, most of the men involved in this lack experience with woman in general or allow thier loneliness to run their brain. This seems to be what happened to you. Hopefully you've now learned a lesson.

Be extremely careful around all women. Love the one you think is right for you but never forget she's still only a woman, simply another human being who'll eat your lunch in a heartbeat. They aren't anything special, not even close. And never delude yourself into thinking a particular one is, because they all seem to be when you're just starting out with one. Yeah, I've heard they're all individuals. Hell, everyone is an individual...just like everyone else. Understand?

The fact is they're just like men, animals. Only worse. At least you know why you got involved in this. The key is to never depend on anyone for your happiness or confidence, especially someone you've placed in a position to hurt you. Thats not saying you shouldn't trust them, it's saying you shouldn't need them. Its better to have a woman around than not, but to need one is the single greatest crutch most MOB men have. And when the hidden agenda reveals itself, most no longer have a leg to stand on.

Don't feel too bad, you ain't alone. What a pal of mine calls the "Power of the Bush" has long caused problems for men. Throughout history kingdoms have fallen, wars fought, entire countries changed, all because of it. Since it comes from within ourselves the POB is one of the most potent forces in the universe. Never underestimate it or shrug it off. In fact, be afraid...be very afraid. Respecting and understanding it as well as learning to deal with it will save you mountains of grief. In some ways what just happened to you was a good thing.

In essence, wise up and consider women an enhancement to life, not a neccessity. You come first, they don't. Take care of number one in the future, never lose sight of that and you'll *probally* do ok.

... in response to hidden gem., posted by KenC on Dec 14, 2002

....for posting this. I did not get a chance to read the original. One of LP's better ones I think.

... in response to hidden gem., posted by KenC on Dec 14, 2002

I agree, it is a really good post. A healthy dose of reality.

The bottom line is that we do not get our self esteem, find fulfillment in life, have our "needs" met, etc. from other people - whether it be a woman or a man. These are things that a man and a woman must work out for themselves *by* themselves.

And when we realize that a loving God created us and has a plan for us it becomes easy - and natural. Then we understand  that we are not here to have *our* needs/wants/desires met but, rather, to meet the needs wants and desires of our fellowman - and our soulmate if God chooses to bring us one.

Unless both the man and the woman understand this reality and are committed to fulfilling it the relationship is 'stablished on shaky ground.

Happy Holidays to all!

WmGObuildingontheSolidRock

... in response to hidden gem., posted by KenC on Dec 14, 2002

Here's to the girls in the pretty red shoes,
Who steal your heart and drink your booze

... in response to Re: hidden gem., posted by Stan on Dec 14, 2002

A toast

Here's to the girls that do,
And here's to the girls that don't.
Here's to the girls that say they will
And then they say they won't.

But, the girls that we toast
From the break of day
 until well into the night
Are the girls that say they never have,
But just for you they might.

... in response to Re: Re: hidden gem., posted by robobond on Dec 15, 2002

Here's ta Swimmin
With bow-legged Women.

... in response to For LP re:POB . . ., posted by Dan on Dec 14, 2002


...spankin me? Are you spankin *me*?? Must be me, cuz I don't see anyone else around here!

The POB really refers to much more, it means everything about them. The guy I know just distilles it down to it's essence. But in answer to your question the power remains the same. Unless....nah, forget it. ;-)

... in response to lol, are you..., posted by LP on Dec 14, 2002

Now that's a thought I'll just have to ponder a bit more. --smile--

- Dan

... in response to Essence of POB . . ., posted by Dan on Dec 14, 2002

Is "Essence Of POB" in any way related to "Who Farted?"   ???

... in response to Re: Essence of POB . . ., posted by robobond on Dec 15, 2002

Is "Essence Of POB" in any way related to why we must put the toilet seat down???

... in response to Re: Re: Essence of POB . . ., posted by robobond on Dec 15, 2002

I think its more of a reference to canned tuna.