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Title: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: Go2Rus on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
Fellow readers:  I am still torn as to whether to present the second part of my story of Zoya which is very graphic.  Please help me decide by your votes in one of the two slots below.

Rex



Title: What is exactly the....
Post by: LP on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

...point of posting the details? I'm far from a prude, but what will we all get from reading it? What are you trying to "do" for us? Or are you trying to do something for yourself? What will we learn from it? Like the man said, I doubt you've done anything the rest of us haven't.

I don't get it. It serves no legitimate purpose and I can see how it would further erode any respect from those people on the "outside". The trolls will have a field day and I can't say I blame them.

I *am* puzzled as to why a guy would reveal he needs drugs to get it up and other such details. Seems kinda pointless. As for pissing in the street, seems you wasted a good oppurtunity to take Yoey's advice and cure any foot problems.

Besides, as I've stated before, my experience (a fair amount, since we're "bragging" here) is that these women do not measure up to A/W in this department. They look great, but they sure are lacking in technique.

Go ahead and have at it, but I fail to see the point.



Title: Re: What is exactly the....
Post by: ron on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to What is exactly the...., posted by LP on Nov 10, 2001

a small sample of how two men can have a great difference of opinion.

in my opinion the women from the fsu are far more creative and wanting to please "in this department" as compared to AW.

i respect your view but all i can say is we differ in thoughts here greatly. in fact this was the first thing i noticed about these women, is how they go out of their way to please their man.

and as so many of these women are slim, trim, tight, compared to the average aw, well, i am just amazed that an am could find aw more gifted "in this department"



Title: Desire to please....
Post by: LP on November 13, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: What is exactly the...., posted by ron on Nov 12, 2001

...is not the same as technique or experience. All the desire in the world is not gonna do it if she lacks experience or has failed to learn what "he" needs.

Crudely put, sex is like picking your nose. The more you do it the better you become *if* you desire to learn. Desire to please is not the same as desire to learn. I suspect many R/Ws lack of performance is directly related to Russian men and how they treated the woman in the past.

I do agree that they are much easier on the eyes and that counts for something. But it's like being with a youngster. They are wonderful to look at and the "low timeness" of their assets is great, but when the time comes they don't perform so well because they don't know what they're doing.

If you add the desire to please to experience there is no doubt the future bodes well, however. Once they get it together, they will beat an A/W handily. Call it an investment....



Title: Re: Desire to please....
Post by: ron on November 13, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Desire to please...., posted by LP on Nov 13, 2001

i guess i must consider myself a lucky man in that the russian women i have got to know well could all perform quite well and quite simply every russian women i have been with has exceeded the performance of every american woman i have had

but i don't want to get into a battle with you as you have with yoe.

you have had better experiences with american women, i have had better experience with russian women so it must be the individual man who decides which was best for him



Title: Question for Rex
Post by: KenC on November 11, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to What is exactly the...., posted by LP on Nov 10, 2001

Rex,
LP posts:
"Besides, as I've stated before, my experience (a fair amount, since we're "bragging" here) is that these women do not measure up to A/W in this department. They look great, but they sure are lacking in technique."

Does this coincide with your opinion?
KenC



Title: If I was hanging around,,,,,
Post by: yoe on November 11, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Question for Rex, posted by KenC on Nov 11, 2001

$1.50 hookers-------I mahy have the same feelings as LP. Here in the USofA, theses cracheads are a little more ---shall we say enthusiatic? I would say crack out but I did not want to belittle any of LP's dates. So you get what you look for. Many of you have seen my wife-----and of course many in the USofA have seen us together-------trust me boys----even the American women cannot help but make positive comments. Today is our anniversery by the way.
Some of get lucky and some of us just make good choices----and there is LP............:)
Joe


Title: I am always on your miiiiiiiiiiind,
Post by: yoe on November 11, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to What is exactly the...., posted by LP on Nov 10, 2001

I am always on youuuuuuur mind.
new version of Waylon Jennings song
it feels good to be loved......don't feel bad because I have better posts.......I am just a more 'in-tune' kind of guy-practical, understanding, compassionat and honest-people respect that- in contrast of the agressive, demeaning, self-centered, childish poop that 'some' people scoop out of their butt!!!!!!!!!:)
But don't take it personally          sport
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoJoe


Title: there's Yoe!
Post by: Jack on November 11, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to I am always on your miiiiiiiiiiind,, posted by yoe on Nov 11, 2001

Yo Yoe, kinda wondered what had happened to you past week, you've been a very quite boy. Things must be busy around the old office, which is very good with todays situation with the economy and all.

So I see LP posted something, that will usually get you going.

Take it easy, see ya!



Title: Rex, Was Your Poll Sincere or Not???
Post by: Dan on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Please note, I am not commenting one way or another on YOUR decision to write more explicitly. I think you ought to do exactly as your conscience tells you to.

My question stems from what I perceive as a clear bias on your part. It seems to me from all your follow-up responses, that you quite strongly want to write your story in all it's gory detail, inclusive of sexual detail. If my perception is accurate, then I feel compelled to ask - why did you ask for the poll in the first place??

I am reminded of a Steven Covey poster that said something like "Most people ask a question NOT with the intent to understand, but with the intent to respond" - sort of like using the questions as a foil to promote your pre-established agenda.

**If** OTOH, your poll was offered with sincerity, then you now have something of an obligation to consider the results with any future posts - don't you think???

- Dan



Title: Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: Charles on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

There once was a poster named Rex
Who had outdated organs of Sex.
When charged with Exposure
He replied with Composure.
De Viagra Non Curat Lex.


Title: Well that could be Charles, but when Tania
Post by: Go2Rus on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Charles on Nov 10, 2001

chomped down on mine she said it was a lot stiffer than anything you had ever provided.  Want to keep upping the ante?

Rex



Title: Re: Never been to St. Petersburg
Post by: Charles on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Well that could be Charles, but when Tan..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 10, 2001

Sorry Rex, never been to St. Petersburg, so I can't say what any Tania thought about you following a Viagra lift.  My wife is from the Crimea, so try again.  AND FWIW, I am quite content with my sex life - it's far more exciting and meaningful than anything you have described to date.  I just don't feel the need to broadcast it across the net.


Title: Re: Well that could be Charles, but when Tania
Post by: ron on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Well that could be Charles, but when Tan..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 10, 2001

you seem a bit uptight and edgey rex

majority of guys don't want to hear about your sex trip but it is evident you want to tell it, to bad as the report started out so good.

and for the record, i think viagra is wonderful, nothing like a little boster every now and then



Title: Start your story with an "R" rating. N/T
Post by: slimjimco on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

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Title: OK I can see that some people would say yes and some no. But let's
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

be logical and be honest about our reasoning.  Below under my "final preparations," post,  I clearly stated my rules, repeated here:  

"I have chosen to report many details here, but this route necessitates that I not give any information that could be used to identify the particular ladies. This means that I will not tell the exact ages, heights and weights, I will not tell the specific jobs they have, I will not show pictures, and I will not use their actual first names. In some places, I use XXX to eliminate these details."

Now, for those of you who are on your 'high horse' worrying about how I am not 'protecting the dignity of the lady' and other such terms;  would someone please advise me how lady number one is ever going to be offended by anything???


Also, I clearly stated earlier, that those who did not wish to read the materials, should not read the materials.  So given that no lady is ever going to be offended and you are never going to read it, can you all please state the real reasons you are opposed?

Rex



Title: Re: OK I can see that some people would say yes and some no. But let's
Post by: Oatmeal on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to OK I can see that some people would say ..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

I would not say that I am opposed but I just feel that unless there is a specific point about such graphic details that it is not necessary to go into such detail.  (Try to remain a gentleman throughout)  I feel that we should try to keep this board somewhat dignified.  

But,  if you feel that there is some specific reason for posting those details then go ahead.  In my personal experience, the actual sexual experiences I have had in the FSU really don't differ that much from any here in the USA (from a physical point of view)  The biggest difference is in the hearts and attitudes of women from the FSU.  Their perceptions, hearts, and attitudes are IMHO much superior to women here in the USA.

Not to mention their outer beauty.



Title: It is not a matter of us stating why we oppose. It is why do you feel the need to expose n/t
Post by: Dalton Brooks on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to OK I can see that some people would say ..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

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Title: Please check your dictionary. I am not exposing anybody since
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to It is not a matter of us stating why we ..., posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 9, 2001

nobody knows who I am talking about.  How can a spy, for instance, be exposed if he is never known to anybody?

But, more to the point, I was hoping to open a very helpful dialog amonst us fellows to compare notes to determine if others were running into the same problems (or not problems) as other guys concerning sexual issues with these ladies.  I firmly believe we all (men and women) need to bring these issues out into the open and discuss them.  I do not find it the least bit 'lurid' as some do.

I certainly don't think we should attend, for instance, a Little League game and start discussing these issues with random people sitting next to us.  But this is not a Little League group, at least I thought not.

Rex



Title: Protecting Privacy
Post by: Bob S. on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Please check your dictionary.   I am not..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

Are you saying you are not using her real name?  That there is no way anyone here can use any of the details you give to track her down to know who she is and where to find her?

If she is not an exhibitionist, you are honor-bound to protect her privacy.  But if you are taking pains to do just that (not revealing her true name, not revealing the actual agency or dating website you used to contact her, etc.), then that changes things.



Title: Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: Zink on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

He was the last guy I read that posted like this. And my vote is keep it tasteful. There are other websites if you want to write about "drug induced mokey sex"(interesting term).

And one question. How did you handle writing to 100 women at approximately the same time? I get bogged down writing only 2 or 3 a day.



Title: I want to read about the "climax" of his report
Post by: Scaught on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Zink on Nov 9, 2001

n/t


Title: Zink, who is the 'He' you refer to in your message? Please reread
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Zink on Nov 9, 2001

my various reports below.  I thought I clearly stated that I had responses from 100 ladies, but then it got narrowed down quickly to 50 and narrowed further to 30.

OK,so 30 is still a large number, and you are right; it is a real ball buster.

Here is how I managed it.  First, I told the ladies I would only write once a week.

Second, I know how to use a word processor.  It is not that hard to write a nice generalized letter that covers weather, what you are doing on daily basis, what your hobbies are etc.,  Then you read each of their letters and carefully answer their questions at the beginning of this general letter.  If you do it carefully, as I did, not a single lady will ever know she got an 80% general letter.

And why are you repeating the 'drug induced monkey sex' idea.  When have I not been anything but gracious to you in your pursuit?

Rex



Title: Not important.
Post by: Zink on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Zink, who is the 'He' you refer to in yo..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

I don't have much time today. Screwed up my headline this morning. Yes, you have been gracious. Just tickled my warped sense of humour about the monkey sex comment somebody else made. Write what you want. But don't be surprised if some people get offended.

Thanks for the answer about the letters. I always write personalized letters but after awhile I do tend to repeat the same things over and over a dozen times. And most of the correspondences I've had lasted an average of 2-3 letters.

Got to run again.



Title: Re: Sex: such controversy
Post by: JohnG on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

I don't understand why everyone gets crazy here when you talk about sex. I say post what you want. We can choose to read it or not. Your reports have been great, and you have insight to offer. If you choose to post elsewhere instead, let us know.

My recommendation would be to post it here, and begin the post with a note alerting the reader that explicit information is to follow, so don't read it if you are offended by frank talk.

The Russians are certainly much less hung up about such matters.



Title: Thanks John, Actually I did warn in a prior message for persons
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by JohnG on Nov 9, 2001

not to read if they would be offended by the S word.  But I will try to remember to put that at the head of each report in the future.

But have you noticed how viciously I have been attacked so far, when I haven't even reported on any sex yet?  Wierd how this is such a hot button with people.  Must be that Victorian suppression still at work.

Rex



Title: Re: Thanks John, Actually I did warn in a prior message for persons
Post by: JohnG on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Thanks John, Actually I did warn in a pr..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

I agree with you Rex. It's strange to me to find such attacks occuring among adults. It's so strange, I really wonder whether such opposers REALLY feel that way, Whatever.


Title: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy
Post by: Quasimoto on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by JohnG on Nov 9, 2001

Yeah, they are less hung up about it, but they also are more insulted when you talk about THEM!

Steve



Title: Just who are the "Them" that are going to be insulted?? n/t
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by Quasimoto on Nov 9, 2001

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Title: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy
Post by: KenC on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by JohnG on Nov 9, 2001

Rex,
I agree with John.  Although I think it is not our decision to make, but YOUR'S.  If you can take the heat from the Puritanical posters here, go for it.  

Two ironies come to mind.  The first is that the guys that have not "experienced" RW should be full of questions regarding sex and sexual attitudes, morals and yes, even techniques of RW.  The irony part comes in when you take into consideration that this IS a message board aimed at information in pursuing RW for dating and marriage.  Now if sex isn't included under that subject, then I must be very messed up.  The second irony is that women (including Rusisan women) are usually much more graphic and detailed in their conversations regarding sexual encounters.  Just imagine what Zoya's friends must have heard.  LOL

With the warning that John suggested, I see nothing wrong with your posts as long as you don't start sending out email contact information.  Just keep in mind that there are a lot of guys that read these posts that NEVER post themselves and that you will forever be branded as a pervert by some others that do post here.
KenC



Title: Ken, you are absolutely right. That night Zoya called her sister to
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by KenC on Nov 9, 2001

advise her where she would be.  She told me that her sister said, "Oh no, does the guy know what he is in for?"  And first thing in the morning she called her sister to report on the events.

Later she told me that other of her friends were 'greatly jealous' of her.

And thanks for your overall support.  Glad to know there are some who have broken out of the Puritanical yoke.



Title: Re: Ken, you are absolutely right. That night Zoya called her sister to
Post by: Quasimoto on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Ken, you are absolutely right.  That nig..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

You know, I would confess I would like to read it. But not here! I just think the time and place are inappropriate. But if it was posted on wsbill's website, I guarantee I would go there. It is not sex, or raunch, or intimate details that offend me. I would probably get a little aroused quite frankly. It is just that I try not to offend, especially women!

Steve



Title: Steve, thanks for your honest answer. Sorry that I got a little carried
Post by: Go2Rus on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Ken, you are absolutely right.  That..., posted by Quasimoto on Nov 10, 2001

away with some of my other comments toward you.  :-))

Rex



Title: Re: Ken, you are absolutely right. That night Zoya called her sister to
Post by: KenC on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Ken, you are absolutely right.  That nig..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

Rex,
I am sorry to say you are in a "no win" situation here with the dies hard Puritan types who hide behind the banner of being gentlemen when in reality they are just afraid to have an open discussion regarding sex for fear that it might expose some of their short comings.
KenC


Title: Thanks Ken, that was as I expected. But you know the 'players'
Post by: Go2Rus on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Ken, you are absolutely right.  That..., posted by KenC on Nov 10, 2001

here better than I due to your longer time here.

This is very frustrating, because I was really hoping to get a dialog going about some of these issues.

Rex



Title: Re: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy
Post by: Dalton Brooks on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by KenC on Nov 9, 2001

I think that everyone forgets that there are two people involved here and if go2rus has talked with Zoya and she has agreed that she wants her sexual adventures posted on the Internet, then it would be his decission to write about it and our decission to read or not. But I think it is wrong for anyone to post private material about another person without her consent.

I do not need to read about someone's sexual excapades, but I understand that some men do and for those men, it maybe interesting reading. Personally I think it is a lack of total respect for the other person be it man or woman to post private matters on the Internet.

I have been involved with more than one RW and each of them have been very open in our private matters, but I know that each of them consider it to be private.

Dalton



Title: Dalton, how can I ask 'Zoya' about this??? n/t
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 9, 2001

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Title: Zoya who?
Post by: KenC on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 9, 2001

Dalton,
I agree with you, IF Rex specified exactly who Zoya was.  As long as the woman remains unidentified, I don't see the harm to her.
KenC


Title: I am with John and Ken on this one n/t
Post by: thesearch on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by KenC on Nov 9, 2001

sdf


Title: Re: Re: Sex: such controversy
Post by: Zink on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: such controversy, posted by JohnG on Nov 9, 2001

The Russians I know aren't prudish about talking about sex. But they are private people who believe that what they say and do in private will stay private. If the ladies I know thought some guy was writing sex stories on the internet about them they'd make sure he never had sex again!


Title: Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: Dalton Brooks on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

I don't think we need to read about the sexual adventures of a man that has to take Viagra and then make his lady wait until it kicks in to have a sexual adventure.

I could probablu gaurantee that you didn't do anything that most of us have not already done in our lives and I am quit certain that any respectable women would not want her private endeavors discussed or written about on the Internet.

I am happy that you feel you have something to brag about, but I would not be bragging about urinating in public and having to down Viagra to get it up.

Dalton



Title: Dalton, could you please quote my passage where I "bragged about
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 8, 2001

urinating in public?"

And also please quote my passage where I "had to take Viagra."

And also please quote my passage where I "had to take Viagra to get it up."

And how can you "guarantee that I didn't do something most of you have not already done?"

Rex




Title: Re: Dalton, could you please quote my passage where I "bragged about
Post by: Dalton Brooks on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Dalton, could you please quote my passag..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

I walk outside and note that it
seems pretty deserted across the street at the Circus building (no circus
tonight) and there are even some construction areas off to the left. So I
walk over there and start to pee between two parked cars. Then some
people approach from the left and I zip it up. But they cross the street
before they get to me, so I unzip and finish the job.


I got the viagra down and locked
papers with other ladies’ names, etc., away in a cabinet. This all frazzled
me quite a bit and I was wondering if I would really be able to pull off a
sexual encounter given my general state of ‘jet lag’ and associated
tiredness. It was probably around 9 PM by now.

I am sort of stalling for time (for the viagra) but also am still trying to get
somewhat organized in the apartment, where I am going to put glasses,
watch, etc. At one point, I can’t determine where a pair of jeans are. I
don’t need them, but it bugs me that they have seemed to disappear into
thin air. Zoya is now starting to laugh some and asks me if this is part of
my foreplay routine, i.e. making the lady wait for me.



Title: Dalton, thanks for your try, but I still don't see the part where I "Bragged" or
Post by: Go2Rus on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Dalton, could you please quote my pa..., posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 10, 2001

stated that I "had" to take viagra.


Title: Re: Please post all that slezy stuff on my msg board
Post by: wsbill on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 8, 2001

So, Patrick won't have to delete it here.  

My message board isn't being use.

Let's just be atleast tasteful.



Title: Bill: how did I know that you would be the one to want to read this n/t
Post by: Dalton Brooks on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Please post all that slezy stuff on ..., posted by wsbill on Nov 8, 2001

l.


Title: Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... nationality doesn't really matter
Post by: wsbill on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Bill: how did I know that you would be t..., posted by Dalton Brooks on Nov 8, 2001

But, this isn't an endorsment for hurting someone or using them for your gain.  

If we didn't have sex.... we would be here!



Title: Re: Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... nationality doesn't really matter
Post by: Quasimoto on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... nation..., posted by wsbill on Nov 9, 2001

Bill,

Your parents had sex, and that is why YOU are here - on this earth - at this time. I want you to ask your mother about her sexual encounter with your father or whom ever, and the lurid details leading up to your conception. I am certain they were not thinking of you specifically at that moment, but I will bet there are some good details. Share!

Some are conceived between satin sheets in the passionate embrass of two young lovers, while others are conceived in the back seat of a Chevy, and still others are conceived while the two lean against the outhouse beyond the reach of the porch lite.

Steve



Title: Steve, you asked wsbill if he wished to
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... na..., posted by Quasimoto on Nov 9, 2001

post "the lurid details leading up to your conception."

Could you please explain to us how you figure that the love making process between man and woman that lead to conception is at all 'lurid.'

Do you have some serious issues here about intimacy and sex.  You somehow think it is dirty?  Have you sought help?

Rex



Title: Re: Steve, you asked wsbill if he wished to
Post by: Quasimoto on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Steve, you asked wsbill if he wished to, posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

My point is that he would be offended if this information was passed around with such trivial treatment and approach!

Steve



Title: Re: Steve, you asked wsbill if he wished to
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Steve, you asked wsbill if he wished to, posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

this is not an issue as to if Steve has seeked help?


Title: Re: Re: You don't know my mother....although
Post by: wsbill on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... na..., posted by Quasimoto on Nov 9, 2001

You might.   Asking your parents one thing, but asking or telling your buddies is another.

Sort of like my lady.  I have to kinda wonder about her and where she's been.

When we had a roll in the hay on my last visit.  She asked me if "I had came yet" in PERFECT english...  Her english is hit or miss at best. But to say something like that in perfect english.  Does that present a red flag in your mind?



Title: Re: Re: Re: You don't know my mother....although
Post by: Quasimoto on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re:  You don't know my mother....alt..., posted by wsbill on Nov 9, 2001

I would say she has been studying English under some rather "weighty" and excitable circumstances. What concentration!

Steve



Title: WOW, didn't any of you Puritans catch what he just said right here
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re:  You don't know my mother....alt..., posted by wsbill on Nov 9, 2001

for public consumption??  Why has there not been a public outcry?


Title: Re: Re: Should say....typo.....
Post by: wsbill on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: I'm just a red blooded Guy... nation..., posted by wsbill on Nov 9, 2001

we wouldn't be here!



Title: Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: Charles on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

I agree with Bob.  It doesn't reflect very well on you and how would your lady feel if you were describing intimate details for the entire world to review and comment about.  That being said, I have no interest in hearing about such matters.


Title: Just who is this 'lady' you are referring to???? n/t
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vo..., posted by Charles on Nov 8, 2001

1


Title: Question for you...
Post by: Ryan on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Just who is this 'lady' you are referrin..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

Do these women know that you take Viagra?


Title: Re: Just who is this 'lady' you are referring to???? n/t
Post by: Charles on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Just who is this 'lady' you are referrin..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

The one you banged after doping up with Viagra, that's who.  We all got to read about her.  Do you think these women, particularly in large cities like St. P., are totally ignorant.  Russian women talk with each other all the time, just like all the guys on this board, including all their friends in America.  They even have their own websites just like this one.  While no guarantee, I wouldn't want to to take a chance that intimate details of a relationship are spread all over the internet, even if you use a different name.  From reading your post I'm sure she could figure that who she was talking about.


Title: LOL! and just what are the chances? Get real n/t
Post by: KenC on November 11, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Just who is this 'lady' you are refe..., posted by Charles on Nov 10, 2001

n/t


Title: Guys and Gentlemen
Post by: Bob S. on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Guys of course like to brag about their chicks, but a gentleman will always try to protect the dignity of a lady.  Just something you might want to keep in mind as you write up your adventure stories.  It's fairly clear where you're going, but does it show post-coital respect to her if you go into graphic details about wild drug-induced monkey sex with some chick you just met and banged like a drum?

Besides, anything more than PG-13 is subject to censorship by the forum god anyway (i.e. Patrick).  This is a free public forum afterall.  I would advise you keep it tasteful (but entertaining!).



Title: Bob, I am confused. How is the dignity of the 'actual' lady not being
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

protected?


Title: How is the dignity...
Post by: Bob S. on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Bob, I am confused.  How is the dignity ..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

If you use an intimate moment with her for _our_ voyeuristic entertainment, it strips her of her privacy and dignity.  Not everyone wants their private life spread all over the media.  If she's a stripper or prostitute who uses her sexuality for entertainment and commerce, she might appreciate the publicity. ;-)  But if she is a lady you have any respect for, the gentlemanly thing to do would be to NOT drag her before an audience and boast "Look at this hot piece of tail I just banged!"  How do you think she would feel if she knew you took what she thought was an intimate expression of affection for you and turned it into a story for exhibition and our amusement?

Of course I am making the assumption you are a gentleman and not some nekulturny dewd that sends in letters to Penthouse boasting about what a screamer his last girlfriend was.



Title: Re: Guys and Gentlemen
Post by: Ryan on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

drug-induced monkey sex........Way Funny.....

Pissing in the streets?  The poor guy has some real issues....  Must be the big "V" god I just am not ready for getting old...



Title: Ryan, could you please explain how the fact that I
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Ryan on Nov 8, 2001

pee in street one time in my life lead you to determine that I had 'real issues.'  What would you have done if you were in the EXACT same circumstances as I described?

Rex



Title: Yes as a manor of fact I can....
Post by: Ryan on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Ryan, could you please explain how the f..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

It is my feeling that we should all be on our best manors.  There was a post someplace on this board talking about how we are all in a way ambassadors, and I agree with this.  Why would you even tell us about this little happening?  I myself would be embarrasses to tell people that I was pissing on the streets in Russia.  Yes I understand that when you have to go you have to go.  You didn’t talk about going in to the store and asking if they had a facility, if they said no I bet if you handed them one dollar you would find a bathroom.  Did you tell your girlfriend you were with what you did?  Did you not feel that you had to go before you friend went into the grocery, or is it like your mom has to ask you if you need to go like when you were a child?  Plain and simple it is not right and you should act in a much more mature manor.   At the least I would leave stuff like that out of your story.


Title: Question for you Ryan
Post by: thesearch on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Ryan on Nov 8, 2001

Now I certainly do not condone urinating  in public and would personally avoid it.

But let me ask you this. If you had a weak bladder, had to urinate and there simply was not a bathroom that you could use period - you would urinate on yourself in this situation?

I do not think that it is possible to judge someone relative to this issue unless you were in his shoes and thus have total perspective on the situation.



Title: Re: Question for you Ryan
Post by: Ryan on November 12, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Question for you Ryan, posted by thesearch on Nov 8, 2001

Yes I understand that when you have to go you have to go.  There are other options to pissing in the streets.  Ask someone in the grocery or talk with your girlfriend, slip someone some change etc.  It is not really that he did it, but why would he write about it here I feel that it is just indicative of the guys’ persona talking about scoring, pissing in the streets, needing to take a pill to boost his masculinity, issues about being on time or else like it is all just me, me, me…


Title: "drug-induced monkey sex" ?!? - If THAT Doesn't Conjure Up . . .
Post by: Dan on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Guys and Gentlemen, posted by Bob S. on Nov 8, 2001

some crazy imagery, I cannot imagine what would!! LOL

Cheers,

- Dan



Title: Well
Post by: thesearch on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

It looks like many do not want to know. So, here is an idea - just post if you think you found her or not and about meeting her etc. --- then  finish your report as you wish and do not post it but make it available for those interested at another site to e-mailed to those interested.


Title: Yes, I am an adult over 18 years of age
Post by: BubbaGump on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Just don't get explicit in front of the children.


Title: Re: Sex: Comment versus voting for me
Post by: thesearch on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Rex, here is how I view it. I did not put myself under either category as I am in between these and not at either extreme.

To me, it is not appropriate to describe sexual acts relative to specifics. However, as long as you leave the ladies anonymous you can discuss what you discover about these ladies. What are their views on sex, do these ladies in your experience hop in the sack easily, in other words how  promiscuous are they, are they different sexually than AW you have been with etc., how often was sex involved etc. These are important things to know I think if we are trying to understand these ladies and what to expect. Of course all women are going to be different.

If you were promiscuous, there will be those that will accuse you of going on a sex tour. Some men, if they find a woman they are interested in will want to know if they are compatible sexually others will not. If you do want to find this out, if you can not afford a second trip this would be your only time to discover your capability in this area.

If there are guys who do not want to know about these things then you have done the correct thing with instructing them to not read your subsequent posts.

Do not worry about what anyone says as long as you speak in generalities.



Title: Re: Sex: To report or not to report - vote on it
Post by: micha1 on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

sure why not,  you say it is very graphic,  you mean that you will make it graphic, right


Title: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: Go2Rus on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

1


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: Benjamin on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

No more please


Title: Re: No Rex, please ......Quasimoto
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

no vote


Title: Re: No Rex, please ......zink
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

no vote


Title: Re: No Rex, please .......Dalton
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

no vote


Title: Re: No Rex, please ......Charles
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

no vote


Title: Re: No Rex, please ......BobS.
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

no vote


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: Richard on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Personaly, I feel certain things are better kept private.


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.n/t
Post by: Oatmeal on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

.


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more. n/t
Post by: Goofpod on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

.


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: Ryan on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

n/t


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: CFonde on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Rex,

  Great report so far, but I have to side with the other gentlemen on this one. As it is, your story with Zoya is right on the edge,...to go any further would simply be too much information in my opinion. Besides, you've got 49 other women to tell us about. 50 women on one trip!? My gawd man, you're a one-man social tour! (lol)



Title: Please reread my reports. No where did I state that I met with
Post by: Go2Rus on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: No Rex, please tell no more., posted by CFonde on Nov 8, 2001

50 women.


Title: Re: Please reread my reports. No where did I state that I met with
Post by: CFonde on November 10, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Please reread my reports.  No where did ..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 9, 2001

Haven't had time or the inclination to re-read all of your reports, but message #55177 states:

3)" My question to them about the 4 day blocks also allowed me to start
‘weeding out’ some of the 50 ladies on my list."

  I never said I thought you actually MET with 50 women, but as detailed as you've been thus far, I'm sure you will enlighten us as to how you actually did the "weeding out" process of these 50 women.



Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: mdante99 on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Some things are better left private.

Mark



Title: Have some decency and taste /nt
Post by: BarryM on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

nt


Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: WilliamMGi on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

Better to keep the details to yourself.



Title: Re: No Rex, please tell no more.
Post by: ron on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to No Rex, please tell no more., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

my vote would be to keep the report clean

sex is, or should be, a private matter

why mess up a good report by going into things so personal and private.



Title: Yes Rex, tell us all.
Post by: Go2Rus on November 08, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Sex: To report or not to report - vote o..., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

1


Title: a vote " for " the search
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Yes Rex, tell us all., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

a vote for yes.


Title: a vote " for " from kenc
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Yes Rex, tell us all., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

a vote for.


Title: a vote " for " from micha1
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Yes Rex, tell us all., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

a vote yes


Title: a vote " for " from bubbagump
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Yes Rex, tell us all., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

a vote yes


Title: a vote " for " from JohnG
Post by: ron on November 09, 2001, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Yes Rex, tell us all., posted by Go2Rus on Nov 8, 2001

1 vote yes