... in response to Check this senario!!!, posted by Bear on Aug 10, 2001Well Bear, I think the guy would be better off being truthful up front about visiting other pen pals. But the key here is that he has not yet made a commitment, so he is under no moral obligation to tell her.
I think the lady has every right to visit other pen pals also if she wants to, but NOT after making the commitment by accepting his proposal of marriage, and certainly not on a fiancée visa! She can do this BEFORE she is engaged and on her own visitor visa at her own expense.
Ray
