Fellas:
My sister-in-law has placed her profile and photo at a couple of sites. Here is a response that she got. This guy is crazy. Too many demands. He kept on emailing her, and so she finally responded by saying that she wasn't good enough for a real man like him.
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SUBJECT: if you are truly serious..
FROM: Member No 100304
DATE: 04-May-04
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Please read my profile and if you are interested in me send recent pictures to
mcleod2@sympatico.ca
Sweetheart,
There are many reasons for me to request RECENT pictures from you.
The first is to establish that you are who you present yourself to be - to be sure you are REAL.
Two: to make sure you are not fat
Threee: to see if you are SERIOUS about establishing a relationship with ME beyound "clicking" some buttons
Four: to make sure you have the resourses to have a relationship with me and are indeed prepared.
Five: to open up the lines of communication between you and I through EMAIL because you are 12 hours ahead of me and it is nearly impossible for you to be "online" when it is conveinent for me.
Six: to see if you will complain about what you don't have and can't do or will you focus on what you do have and can do
Seven: to see if you are agreeable, flexible, understanding and if you will do as I ask.
Eight: to see if you are willing to devote some time to me, you and us rather than continuously "searching & looking" in "who's online" only to be continueously let down and disappointed by people who are, in reality, a little less than what they present themselves to be
Nine: to see if YOUR life and future is IMPORTANT enough to you to motivate you enough to actually DO SOMETHING or to see if you have decided to exist in a constant state of WANTING, and HOPING, and WAITING for Mr. Perfect to come along and solve all your emotional problems for you
And ten: to see if you are wise enough, emotionally mature enough, prepared enough, aware enough, and interested enough to recognize what well might be the best thing that ever happened to you when it presents itself to you.
In short to see if you will ACTIVLY PARTICAPE in creating, shaping, and defining this relationship.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Brian XxXXXX