starting over

[doombug]

... in response to Pete, posted by cabocancun on Dec 18, 2004

"It seems that most of the gringos date the same 50 hotties,how could a guy avoid taking this path?"

I'd suggest carrying a vaginal test kit.  The gringo could request a sample after he's conducted the interview of his prosepective bride.

JUST KIDDING!!

[Pete E]

... in response to Pete, posted by cabocancun on Dec 18, 2004

You might be surprised.I don't think Calipro ever goes to agencies.I do,but do not go for the absolute best looking young girls.At my age if I can find a nice looking 30 something who cares about me and is also a good person we might be able to get something good going.
I hesitate to say be realistic because what is realistic in Cali is a whole lot better than what is in the US.Is it realistic for a guy 61,me,who thinks he looks 50,to date 28 year olds?Its worth a try,I will meet them,but In actually prefer them to be 35 or so.
The bigger issue than age can be kids.Many guys who come here just don't want a woman with kids.That rules alot of them out.Most of them I would say.And those that don't have kids usually want them.But many guyscoming through here,40 something,never married,want awoman with no kidsbut want to have kids.That pretty much has them shopping the early 20'sgirls.Thats OK,it can just take time to find one you are compatable with.
BUT,I would have to say the number one mistake guys make is spending their precious time chasing girlswho don't seem very interested in them.If they are interested in you they will let you know.Otherwise its excuses and cancelled dates and kisseson the cheek and the next thing they know they are on a plane home with nada.
Got to run.My 40 year old proffesional ,no kids,doesn't want any  just showed up.And she is hot for me.

Pete

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: Pete, posted by Pete E on Dec 18, 2004

Loved your last sentence! You rule, Pete!

[kented]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by utopiacowboy on Dec 18, 2004

I can think over about a thousand places I'd be less likely to go to find a wife than Cali.  And they're all in the US.

I know your wife is from Medellin and that seems like the best place in Colombia becasue it hasn't been wrecked by too many gringos (YET!!!)

[pablo]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by utopiacowboy on Dec 18, 2004


From my viewpoint's it's simple.  Cali has the large amount of agencies and a high percentage of posters at P-L have been there at one time or another.  

No offense to you Heat or to Cali, but I'm with Cowboy, I'd rather go to a place less traveled by Norteamericanos.  He's a little partial to Medellin anyway as you know he met his wife there.  I’m sure there are still lots of fish in Cali but you should see the size and number of the trout here in Medellin.

[Heat]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by utopiacowboy on Dec 18, 2004

Ok, let's hear your reason Sir.

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Why not Cali?, posted by Heat on Dec 18, 2004

Take a look at the post from El Cantante right below yours. That's pretty much it. I'm not saying it's not a good place to meet hot young chicas - it is. The poster seems to be a guy who is looking for a wife and to me, Cali is not a place I would go for that purpose. Sure there are many exceptions to the rule but it's still possible to find a good wife in many US cities too. These just are not places where I would look.

[el Cantante]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by utopiacowboy on Dec 18, 2004

Cali is probably the last place in Colombia, in my opinion, to look for a wife, but the best place to have fun with the girls.

[Chris F]

... in response to Re: Re: starting over, posted by el Cantante on Dec 18, 2004

n/t

[Pete E]

... in response to starting over, posted by rj556 on Dec 18, 2004

I live in Cali.You can mail me at peiguren@aol.com
This can be a minefield of possible errors for a new guy who is smitten with the charm of these ladies.You need to go slow,keep your head and understand if you get used you participated in it,at least from the standpoint of being niave.And usually ignoring alot of red flags.And there are lots of ladies willing to give you your next lesson.There are good sincere ones too but even those you need to know how to proceed with.
Reminds me of a guy pitching I saw an investment seminar."You think education is expensive? Try ignorance."

Good luck

Pete

[doombug]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by Pete E on Dec 18, 2004

"You think education is expensive? Try ignorance."

Now THAT is a powerful and very relative little quote.

I've got a reason to finally buy a PDA:  To quickly jot down and save snippets such as those when they arise.

[Chris F]

... in response to Re: starting over, posted by Pete E on Dec 18, 2004

Pete you posted:

"And usually ignoring alot of red flags.And there are lots of ladies willing to give you your next lesson."

"There are good sincere ones too but even those you need to know how to proceed with."

I agree with you Pete. Many ladies willing to take advantage of you.......who needs that?