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Author Topic: Best age for me?  (Read 17313 times)
el Cantante
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« Reply #15 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by jediknight on Dec 16, 2004

Great assumption, and totally agreed with you. The young ones are fun to party with, but rarely sincere and honest enough to be a good wife. Pay special attention to those with kids. Are they looking for providers for their kids or do they really care for you.
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Troy
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« Reply #16 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Best age for me?, posted by Jason on Dec 16, 2004

27 up.
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kented
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« Reply #17 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Best age for me?, posted by Jason on Dec 16, 2004

I am 57 and my wife is 31.  Age is a non issue for the women.  The only problem with girls in their early twenties is that they are not always very mature and then don't always understand completely what they want in life.  So it could change and you are with a different lady than the one you dated.

Very few ladies will eliminate you because of age but YOU need to consider how mature the young ladies you date are.

Buena suerte.  ¡Que se disfrutan!

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Chris F
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« Reply #18 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by kented on Dec 16, 2004

"The only problem with girls in their early twenties is that they are not always very mature and then don't always understand completely what they want in life. So it could change and you are with a different lady than the one you dated"

THIS IS VERY TRUE!!   Having dated young girls from Cali (under 23)  you are entering a high risk situation bringing someone younger then that here for a wife.

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Ray
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« Reply #19 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Best age for me?, posted by Jason on Dec 16, 2004

Her minimum age = (your age/2) + 7

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Jeff S
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« Reply #20 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by Ray on Dec 16, 2004

.. is over 1000 years old. It's an old Arabic tradition for determining the ideal age for a wife. Funny enough, it usually works out pretty well. Personally, I prefer the Asian (originally Chinese) zodiac for a spouse's compatability:

Ne (rat)       1900 1912 1924 1936 1948 1960 1972 1984 1996
Ushi (cow)      1901 1913 1925 1937 1949 1961 1973 1985 1997
Tora (tiger)      1902 1914 1926 1938 1950 1962 1974 1986 1998
U (rabbit)      1903 1915 1927 1939 1951 1963 1975 1987 1999
Tatsu (dragon)      1904 1916 1928 1940 1952 1964 1976 1988 2000
Mi (snake)      1905 1917 1929 1941 1953 1965 1977 1989 2001
Uma (horse)      1906 1918 1930 1942 1954 1966 1978 1990 2002
Hitsuji (sheep)      1907 1919 1940 1943 1955 1967 1979 1991 2003
Saru (monkey)      1908 1920 1941 1944 1956 1968 1980 1992 2004
Tori (rooster)      1909 1921 1942 1945 1957 1969 1981 1993 2005
Inu (dog)      1910 1922 1943 1946 1958 1970 1982 1994 2006
I (boar)      1911 1923 1944 1947 1959 1971 1983 1995 2007

Ne (rat)       Compatable: dragon & monkey   Incompatable: horse      
Ushi (cow)      Compatable: snake & rooster   Incompatable: sheep   
Tora (tiger)      Compatable: horse & dog      Incompatable: monkey   
U (rabbit)      Compatable: sheep or boar   Incompatable: rooster   
Tatsu (dragon)      Compatable: monkey or rat   Incompatable: dog   
Mi (snake)      Compatable: rooster or cow   Incompatable: boar   
Uma (horse)      Compatable: tiger or dog   Incompatable: rat   
Hitsuji (sheep)      Compatable: boar & rabbit   Incompatable: cow   
Saru (monkey)      Compatable: dragon & rat   Incompatable: tiger   
Tori (rooster)      Compatable: snake or cow   Incompatable: rabbit   
Inu (dog)      Compatable: horse or tiger   Incompatable: dragon   
I (boar)      Compatable: rabbit or sheep   Incompatable: boar   

- Jeff

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stefang
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« Reply #21 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Ray's formula..., posted by Jeff S on Dec 16, 2004

Jeff I don't like the Chinese compatability I'm a Rooster and my fiance a
Rabbit.
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Locii
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« Reply #22 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by Ray on Dec 16, 2004

What in the heck is that?  Is it some kind of mean average pulled from a sampling of successful marriages or did you make it up?  I am not being negative in asking that just critical.

I suppose functions like this could be pulled from successful marriage data.  SHould I ask what her maximum age is?

Ciao

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zack
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« Reply #23 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by Ray on Dec 16, 2004

That cracks me up. I have heard of a lot of equations for mathematical concepts and such but a formula for the minimum age your novia should be? I'm not attacking you, but where did you get that equation? I don't think a minimum age requirement can be based on one formula alone. A lot of factors come into play.
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Ray
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« Reply #24 on: December 17, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to A formula for age?, posted by zack on Dec 16, 2004

Here's one for you that predicts successful marriages. I just thought it was interesting :-)

I remember a guy in engineering school who tried to write a differential equation to describe the sex act, but he finally gave up because he said there were too many variables...LOL!

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Scientists devise formula for happy marriage

Equation predicts bliss

Chris Lackner
National Post, with files from news services
Saturday, August 09, 2003

The secret to a successful marriage can be found in a mathematical formula, according to American researchers, who believe they can use equations to predict a newlywed couple's chances for marital bliss.

Researchers at the University of Washington have devised two formulas that they say allows them to predict, with a 94% success rate, whether a new marriage will last. And all it takes is a 15-minute interview.

The formulas used to detect newlywed joy or disaster were publicly presented for the first time this week by mathematician Dr. James Murray, who spoke at the Mathematical Biology Conference at Dundee University in Scotland.

The presentation was based on a 10-year study of 700 American couples conducted by Dr. Murray and psychologist Dr. John Gottman, both from the University of Washington in Seattle.

"Positive things can be taken from [the formula]. It points out why some people are having problems and can show what action has to be taken to save the marriage," Dr. Murray said.

All the couples who participated in the experiment were initially observed by researchers during a 15-minute conversation shortly after they were married in the early 1990s.

Participants were asked to discuss contentious marital issues, such as money, sex or children. The couple's ability to discuss the issue was evaluated according to a mathematical scale that awarded positive points for good signals and negative points for bad signals.

Bad signals included rolling of the eyes, criticism or mockery of one's partner, as well as displays of coldness and negativity. Positive signs included displays of humour, positive vocal tone, smiles and affectionate gestures.

"We used an accepted psychological scoring system to award them points, such as minus three for scorn and plus two for humour," Dr. Murray said. "Then we put their points on a graph and by converting them into algebraic terms were able to make our divorce predictions.

"We didn't tell the volunteers, of course ... telling a couple their marriage is going to fail is not what they want to hear."

The results of the observations were used to develop an equation for both husbands and wives and each couple was contacted every two years to ascertain the state of their marriage. Researchers say they were able to predict the success or failure of each couple with an accuracy of almost 94%.

Other variables were taken into account during the experiment in order to determine a couple's compatibility, Dr. Murray said, including the effect an individual's contribution to the conversation had on the mood of his or her spouse.

"The key thing that comes out of it is that we have been able to calculate how people interact," Dr. Murray said.

"For example, the wife might be a conflict avoider and the husband might be volatile. That marriage would not survive."

Our society is marriage-obsessed and naturally inclined to believe in marital perfection, said Julie Rak, an English professor and popular culture expert at the University of Alberta.

Ms. Rak said people often make decisions in their lives according to a formula our culture dictates, including when to get married, when to have kids and custom-based beliefs such monogamy and the search for one ideal partner.

"We learn from a very early age that there is only one person in the world for us, which is mathematically ridiculous," Ms. Rak said.

"Marriage is not like that and people are always not predictable and change over time."

"I think we're taught that marriage is an ideal that we aspire to," she said.

"The reality is quite different. Divorce rates are much higher than they once were."

THE MATHEMATICS OF MARRIAGE:

Wife's equation

w(t+1)=a+r1*w(t)+ihw[h(t)]

w= wife, h= husband, t= time a= a constant representing the wife's state of mind when she is not with her husband. r1*w(t)= represents how easy it is to change her state of mind when she is in conversation with her husband. ihw= "influence function" -- a measure of the influence that a husband's remarks have on his wife. h(t)= the husband's "score" during their 15-minute conversation. w(t+1)=how the wife has reacted to her husband's conversation -- the higher the number then the greater the likelihood of divorce

Husband's equation

H(t+1)=b+r2*h(t)+iwh[w(t)]

b= a constant representing the husband's state of mind when he is not with his wife. r2*w(t)= represents how easy it is for him to change his state of mind when he is in conversation with his wife. iwh= "influence function" -- a measure of the influence that a wife's remarks have on her husband. w(t)= the wife's score during their 15-minute conversation. H(t+1)= how the husband has reacted to his wife's conversation -- the higher the number then the greater the likelihood of divorce

clackner@nationalpost.com
© Copyright 2003 National Post

http://www.amath.washington.edu/~swanson/NationalPost9aug03.htm
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Ray

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Pete E
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« Reply #25 on: December 18, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to w(t+1)=a+r1*w(t)+ihw[h(t)], posted by Ray on Dec 17, 2004

One of the engineers I used to work with was really into flow charts.I used to joke he probably had a diagram on the back of his bathroom door showing the required steps in taking a  sh-t.

Pete

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stefang
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« Reply #26 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to A formula for age?, posted by zack on Dec 16, 2004

I have seen that formula before and can't remember when it was started
or by who but Heat didn't make it up.
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kented
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« Reply #27 on: December 16, 2004, 05:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Best age for me?, posted by Ray on Dec 16, 2004

I didn't know that.
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