Reality Check: for a-westerngirl?

[Zebson]

New and just had to add my thoughts, after reading some of the past several dozen comments back and forth with this rise getter WG. Well your attention getting sceme worked on quite a few. I just have one thing to relate.

Excuse me, but anybody who has ever had a serious relationship for any length of time with any human being regardless of sex, should have already waken up to the clear reality that when true love is at work, there are very few boundries least of all age, money and often times physical appeareance believe it or not...Only those who show some bizarre prescription toward material inclinations, lack of maturity or overtly intense physical attachment tend not to be moved emotionally by the essence of someone they are drawn too on many status quo society trend driven wavelengths. Love has very few, if any boundries and speaks far beyond the essence of petty nuancies of idealism of some tuvwxyz generational critique. Find true love once or twice in your life and even if your burnt through the process, you will come out a better more aware human being...Hence the saying....Better to have loved..etc. Try it WG.

Go carefully..

[Dave H]

... in response to Reality Check: for a-westerngirl?, posted by Zebson on Jan 27, 2001

N/T

[Mars]

... in response to Reality Check: for a-westerngirl?, posted by Zebson on Jan 27, 2001

Well Said.

[greg]

... in response to Re: Reality Check: for a-westerngirl?, posted by Mars on Jan 27, 2001

Hi! I am curious to how you can stand the flaming from the Posters. What is it about this Planet-Love forum that continue to bring you back under different names? Why don't you formally introduce yourself and share your story with the board, so that you can come and go in peace. Maybe we can help you with advice after your no longer posting as a mysterious Troll. It would be nice to have you as a young Asian lady be a part of this forum, I'm sure that we could learn things from You about your culture. You really sound like a nice intelligent young lady, this board can really help you grow up fast :-). greg

[Dave H]

... in response to Asian or Western girl, posted by greg on Jan 27, 2001

Hi Greg,

I agree! Whatevergirl is all right. I like her too and would like to get to know her better. Everyone has a different opinion about some things. That is OK. She is just too hung up on this age difference thing. Intellectually she is not going to get it. It is a numbers game. She has the formula in her head, but it doesn't apply in the real world. She needs to relax and go with the flow, get to know people that are not in the "normal" stream of life. We don't fit the typical mold. Eventually she will realize that age is only a number, beauty is only on the surface, and her friends will only be there as long as she can do something for them. Naturally her parents are going to be concerned with whoever she dates. As a parent, I just want someone that is going to treat my kids well and be committed to their relationship. I don't think WG gives her "Rents" enough credit. It is better to have a poor man that loves you, is there for you, and treats you well, than a rich man that beats you and takes you on trips to Europe. If you can have wealth and love Great! But, I wouldn't make wealth, present or potential, a focus in searching for a mate. Look at the Gabor sisters. They have been married more than all of us on the Board combined. ) If it is a choice between the two, I say go for love. Rich guys can go broke and poor guys can win the lottery. I know many unhappy "rich" ladies. One of my friends (AW) got the courage to leave an abusive marriage several years ago. She gave up "everything" (7 bedroom house, Mercedes, trips around the world, country club,...) just to get out. She now teaches severly learning diabled children and is trying to start a retreat for troubled teenage girls, with her brother (retired military). She has a lot to share about life, love, and material possessions. I have never seen her happier! )

WG, I am 43. I must admit that I have enjoyed being a "boytoy" for women in their 20's. I even had a 19 year-old girlfriend a few years ago. I didn't look at it that way, and would like to think I was more too them than a "toy." Money was not the key, as I spent very little on them. Age, race, income, and religion are not an issue for me and evidently not for them.

Dave H.

[greg]

... in response to East meets West!, posted by Dave H on Jan 27, 2001

Dave!! Since when has a Chinese Asian female posted at Planet-Love? As recently as Asian Girl? I don't like seeing all the Posters joining on the Band wagon Attacking her just becuz they don't agree with her opinions. I think it's great having at least one Chinese Asian participating on PL, without trying to flame her off the board. Hopefully Asian girl will step forward with a formal Introduction, so she can feel welcome here, as I said..It would be great to have a Asian Female as a regular participator, we could learn from each other, especailly her Culture. BTW, she sure made this board lively. :-o greg

[Dave H]

... in response to Dave H, Voice of Reason, posted by greg on Jan 27, 2001

Greg,

Let's not forget that Westerngrrl does not represent a Chinese Asian point of view. She represents a Chinese Canadian point of view. Her culture appears to be very western, with probably a bit of Chinese tradition here and there. I don't have a problem with that. I just wouldn't go to Bejing or Hong Kong and expect their "culture" or opinions to be even close. Yes, she has made the board come alive. )

Dave H.

[greg]

... in response to Reason is my middle name! ), posted by Dave H on Jan 28, 2001

Yep!!! You are absolutely correct. But, I'm sure that she can continue to make things interesting on this dull board hahaha. I'm glad that she decided to come out and give a formal introduction. I really felt sorry for her having everyone gang up on her, so now things should be better for her on PL. :-o greg

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Reason is my middle name! )Dave, posted by greg on Jan 28, 2001

Hey Greg,

I really didn't hear anything new from my fiancee about shots. I think it was cc that posted the info. She also said MMR (measles, mumps, rubella), DT (diptheria, tetanus), DPT (for infants, P -pertusis or whooping cough), Polio, Hepatitus A, and Hepatitis B. I will let you know if I find anything else.

Dave H.

[Dave H]

... in response to Dave H, Voice of Reason, posted by greg on Jan 27, 2001

Hi Greg,

Please don't think that I was attacking WG. I acually enjoy her posts. When I attack, there is no doubt. Unfortunately not much of it remains in the archieves. However WG has been around before at least once and more like 2 or 3 times. If she was Mistress, I had  a lot of fun with her. I am only disappointed that she didn't email me. The talk about whips and chains was getting a little too hot for the board. ;o) Now that girl knew how to have fun!

I don't join bandwagons, I play my own drum and march to a different beat. When everyone was attacking Houndog, I got my butt spanked for defending him. I just say what I feel is right. Sometimes it gets me into trouble. Hey, once I told my Fire Chief to bl*w me. I got 2 months on day shift for that. It was well worth it. I got to spend 5 days a week in the same building pissing him off. The guys voted me day shift union and benevolent association representative. )

Dave H.

[Ray]

... in response to Dave H, Voice of Reason, posted by greg on Jan 27, 2001

If I'm not mistaken, Asian Girl was the one who posted a bunch of obnoxious flame messsages that Patrick had to delete.

T.R.O.L.L.

Ray

[hakim]

... in response to Greg, posted by Ray on Jan 27, 2001

my frind
if you are free please contact me.
hakim

[hakim]

... in response to Greg, posted by Ray on Jan 27, 2001

my frind
if you are free please contact me.
hakim

[greg]

... in response to Greg, posted by Ray on Jan 27, 2001

Okey!! Thanks, I didn't know. Hope she consider her ways, there's hope for everyone. I remember this Guy gave Mag-Anak Hell; everyone was at his Mercy, no Moderator could prevent him from Posting..He changed, he's even a regular poster on Planet-Love. He turned out to be very valuable participator, given the chance maybe Asian girl can do the same. I think it's great having a regular Chinese Asian female on Board. Of course it's up to Asian girl. After all she keep returning, must be something here for her?? :-o greg