Its a game we play

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by Pete E on Aug 14, 2004

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What you are describing here is nothing new pal.  How old are you?  It took you HOW long to figure this crap out?  You gentlemen cannot be this naive.  First of all, generally speaking, woman are all the same.  What you have learned in these late stages about relationships is absolutely correct Petey boy.  We ALL want a challenge whether you be a man or woman.  Young latinas are going to be attracted to youth, charm, good looks and intelligence just as American women.  The reason we are GOING South is because there is a better chance of finding a good, sincere woman not raised by MTV or influenced by frickin' Whitney Spears (or whatever the fn' cun+'s name is).  American women lack the integrity and character and care less about relationships then Latinas. Latinas are looking for a man who will stay true to this.  I'll tell ya this.  You can learn all the frickin' games you want.  They will not do you any good.  It won't matter how good you get.  It will never be about "the best playa' wins".  I thought, like most here, you were looking for a wife and companion?  So, whatever the case, whether she be American or Latina, if you do not see anything special about the woman in the first several months before you marry it will NEVER happen.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

Seems game is a loaded word here.Sorry I used that,it has alot of other meanings to some people it seems.I am not talking about learning to play a game other than to back off a little and not go crazy when I meet a hot looking woman.Let her move in the direction of me as well as me moving toward her.Thats not learning to play a fricken game as you put it,but just being smart,something that is sometimes difficult when dealing with attractive women.
I KNEW this before.Right its nothing new.What I am talking about is more of an ah ha,a gut feeling of how to do it.Feeling like I can be different than I have been before.
Been there,done that,no mas.
Choices help alot.Guys in the US can stay in the same old rut because of limited choices.Here I need to take advantage of the many choices.

Pete

[Heat]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

This guy has a ton of class, good looks all he needs is the right girl.....watchout Cali!

[JSlo]

... in response to When Pete gets rolling he'll roll all ov..., posted by Heat on Aug 14, 2004

Shut the hell up and give the guy the kind of advice he needs to hear not what you think he'd like to hear. I'd rather have 2 good friends that will give me a kick in the ass when needed than 1000 psuedo amigos like yourself. This freaking guy is 60 years old (but looks 30)and getting bs advice from you and Clay-doh.
At this point in time you are both a waste of time in the matter of self development. Notice, I said in the 'matter of self-development.' If you take it any other way it simply infers a Fruedian connection.
Chao.

[zack]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

It is rather obvious that you are new to this forum. Pete is the last guy here who deserves to be attacked like that. If you choose to give "below the belt" attacks vs constructive criticism, you would be better off saving it for people who deserve it. There are plenty of other people here who fit that category.

[JSlo]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by zack on Aug 14, 2004

I agree that Pete is a nice guy, but he deserves to be smacked against his head for his debacles and his inability to learn from past mistakes.
In a nutshell, a woman has to feel that her man can protect her (carry on the species) not just provide for her. If she thinks she stands a better chance of kicking a guys ass that threatens her then her mate, he is just an open wallet. For this reason, thugs and bad boys take their place at the head of the table. If a man can make his girl feel protected, has a good head on his shoulders, if SELF-CONFIDENT, and isn't bad to look at he will have his choice of women regardless of location. This crap ain't rocket science. If you are falling all over a woman cuz she is cute and you know you wouldn't stand a snowballs chance in hell to have her if you were in the states - it is just a matter of time. This is only one theory, it has worked well for me. I am not a thug, bad-boy or nice guy. I have a healthy self confidence without being a pu$$y, and I feel most woman do themselves a disservice if they miss the opportunity to be with me. Its called the confidence factor, if she turns me down the word is called "next." I would never allow a person (man or woman)that knows absolutely nothing about me have any effect on my self-worth. Keep plugging away, don't give in to self-doubt, and remember striking out is practice to get the one you deserve. What is the baseball adage, you strike out 7 out of 10 times and are still considered successful. Stinking thinking is the problem with most of the unsuccessful guys around here.
I am on count down, my girl will be here next week. I may post some photos but doubt it.
Peace to all

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by JSlo on Aug 14, 2004

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Good call JSL! So, I guess women no longer have the opportunity to be with you now eh?  Is this your wife or fiancee? I'd like to see some photos.  Where can we post them?

thank you

[JSlo]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we pl..., posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

She is my fiancee and will be here early next week. I will make photos available in the not too distant future. I have some great photos of the candidates along the way, some very classy ladies covering the entire spectrum of color, class, education, etc.. That would be more interesting to post but since I don't kiss and tell they will not be posted and I have less than a week to purge them from the system files.

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

coming on a little stronng here are we ?Have we heard from you before ??

All he was saying was that he was tired of being such a nice guy and believing that theses women liked him for him only. This is not the case weather you are Tom  Cruise or some older man. It is all about what can you provide me if i committ to you.

And the part about the latin woman are looking for a love relationship is a pile of crap .

They gave up that dream after the third colombiano left them for another , hotter, younger chica.

Pete just has come to the reality that 50% love is better then no love at all

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 14, 2004

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Sorry if i crushed you Kiltboy with a little heaping helping of reality. Your statement here is dumb:

"And the part about the latin woman are looking for a love relationship is a pile of crap . They gave up that dream after the third colombiano left them for another , hotter, younger chica"

If you think that there is no hope for latinas to love again then why are we wasting time and mucho dinero with them in the first place? The lack of commitment by our third world loser amigos is a positive factor in hooking up with este las chicas you la idiota.  Furthermore, this isn't "Lets Make a Deal" pal. Either she wants you or she doesn't. If Pete is willing to settle for "50% love" then he should expect half of his time spent with her to carry heartache.

Zach...what did i say that was "below the belt"? I find my comments to be nothing but constructive criticism for Pete's sake, or for anyone else who is having trouble figuring the Latina factor.

thank you

[zack]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

"How old are you? It took you HOW long to figure this crap out? ... What you have learned in these late stages about relationships is absolutely correct Petey boy."

To me, that is the equivalent of calling him an idiot.

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we play, posted by jonno on Aug 14, 2004

WHY ARE YOU HERE IN RHIS FORUM
JONNO !!!

YOU ARE JUST A FU___-KN MORAN

NO MAS

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game we pl..., posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 15, 2004

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LMFAO!!!! if nothing else i am here to teach you how to spell m-o-r-o-n (also see-"commit" and "whether")

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a game w..., posted by jonno on Aug 15, 2004

AGAIN

DO WE KNOW YOU

[jonno]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Its a ga..., posted by Kiltboy1 on Aug 15, 2004

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What is this "WE" crap? Tiene un raton en su bolsillo?  this is a public forum pal, and i sure as hell don't require YOUR approval to post.

thank you