I guess I check in here to see what is happening,see some stories of real experience,hear from guys I know and to repond to good questions or interseting posts.I enjoy the humor of some guys here also.
There is alot of fighting recently,which doesn't bother me too much
because I can just not read it.But there seems a lack of much interesting.
I guess most of you know my story.I am on a vacation in the US but so far its waiting asround for medical tests and appointments,not what I planned for my vacation.The medical things I think can be handled fairly easily once I see the right doctor.Thast is tommorow.Then I may trip around a little before going back.
One thing I discovered is its not much fun here without the company of a good looking chica,which no way I will find here,I don't even look.So for all the diversity of things to do and a clean nice safe envirement,I am ready to get back to latina land.
Some here seem to presume this board is all about finding a wife ASAP.
Some also presume she must be christian or,ect,ect,ect.Thats all fine if thats what you want.But different guys have different outlooks and desires in what they are looking for.
I too would like to find real love and a permanent life partner/wife.
I have an advantage living in Cali.I don't need to find someone I can bring back or be living in the US alone except for occasional trips.So I have the opportunity to take my time.Part of that will be dating alot of women,getting to know them and yes hopegfully having sex with the ones where there is mutual interset.This way I can have a woman in my life and a sexual relationship while I am trying to decide if the relationship will work long term.I tend to be sexually monagamous,even though I may date many I probably will only be having a sexual relationship with one at a time.But maybe not.Maybe more than one at a time,even though it has never been my style.But then I never lived in Cali untill recently.The problem I have with multiple relationships is it can lead to lying on the guys part,and I rarely ever tell a lie,and then its usually something like covering for someone,as in he is not here.But I might cut that out too.Lies of any kind bother me.So be carefull guys if I do not say something like "he told me to tell you he is not here." "He is not available" and if pushed on that "I won't say why."And really elabote stories like one guy wanted me to tell but fortunately I didn't have to will definetly be out.I just hate lies,so I need to not tell any myself.
So,I'm back to Cali in 2 weeks,hope to shortly thereafter have a relationship that leads to sex while I am trying to decide if it will lead to anything else.I hope no one would consider that being a whoremonger,as another guy here is being accused of,a guy who refuses to ever pay for sex and hands out no money even to girlfriends.Perks are usually limited to dinner and drinks.I'm certainly not in to chastity,or waiting untill I'm married again.You can be if you want,its your choice but don't judge others by your standards.And be carefull that choice doesn't lead to a decision or action that is too fast or unwise.
Can't resist,a story.Years ago,maybe early 70's,I worked with a lady who had married a guy,had FIVE kids with him,then he left her.She struggled for years,finally found another guy to marry her.Her daughter,about 18,had a boyfriend and wanted to move in with him.Momma was agast."What if itvdoesn't work out.?"My answer,well its easier to move on without being married.You would rather have her commited for life to something that may not work?" Momma " but who is going to want her after living with him?" My answer " Me,I'm not looking for no g-damned virgin.? End of conversation.Here is a woman who married the wrong guy and had FIVE kids with him before she found out,who is against her daughter doing a test drive.DUH DUH DUH.Talk about not smelling the roses.
OK,back to me.Actually I am a little affraid of getting hooked up permanently with a girl before I decide where I want to live.My last girlfriend had a 5 year old she could never get out of Colombia and eventally decided she just wanted to live in Cali.I don't think its Cali for me long haul.It just seems TOO limiting with the current state of security,which will probably last longer than Ineed to worry about.So even hooking up with a colombiana out of Mecellin could be a problem,someone who can't because of a kid or who doesn't want to leave Colombia.So its off to Brazil and Maybe Chile about October,when the weather gets really nice down there.Even if I find a place I really want to live thats not Colombia I may have to try and take a Colombina there to hasve the woman I want,so such issues need to be considered with the country and the woman.
And even our so called whoremonger here( I no guys who are seriously looking and will still hit the bordellos for lack of no current sexual relationship,including myself)I think is open to a long term relationship,if he finds the right woman.After all his experience he thinks thats not likely,to find someone who would be loyal and loving long term without a whole bag of other problems not coming up.Thats a little sad ,but I must admit it is more supported by reality than happy ever after with what I have seen in the last 7 months.Howerever,with a long time to lok its possible.And its been said loves comes along some times when you are not looking or had given up on it.and looking really hard or trying to forse it can get you in a whole lot of problems,as I have experienced and also watched alot of other guys experience.
One other little personal note.I am now about 61.3 years old.I don't think I look it,but even if not,time is marching on.I need to get with living the life of my dreams,nobody knows how long they have or how long they will have good health.Had a discussion with my son yesterday about that,he is 43 himself.Makes you feel old when your kid is showing grey hairs.
But,I hope to get this current little health issue handled quickly so I can get back to working out hard and show you guys(and some chicas)
a body like you thought no 61 year old would have.And its not bad now.
And how about some success stories?little Budda,I know you have one.
And lots of other guys who may have posted about it long ago.even just been married 4 years, with my girl from - - ,very happy if thats all you care to post.
Pete
