About American Women

[Troy]

... in response to About American Women, posted by Troy on May 20, 2004

Looks:

FSU- pros: taller, european features, long legs, slender
    cons: no butts, pale, ages badly
Latin- pros: tanned skin, curvy, no european flavor, naturally seductive
      cons: will fatten up, short, no european flavor
Asian- pros: smooth skin, exotic, long black hair, ages well, thin
      cons: no curves, no variety
USA-   pros: variety, physically fit when young, familiar  
            look
      cons: will fatten up

winner:   Asian.  Overall, I think Asian women have that rare combination of natural beauty, sexiness, sufficient curves, and resistance to fattening up.  runner up- latin (bubble butts)

Personality/attitude:

FSU-  pros: educated, cultured, can assimilate easier
     cons: no sense of humor, bitter, cold hearted
Latin- pros:  passionate, supportive, fun, family oriented
     cons: temper, language problems, assimilation issues
Asian- pros: assismilate easier, supportive, soft spoken
     cons: materialistic, must support her family, bland
USA-  pros: familiar culture, fun, friendly
     cons: not supportive, critical, demanding

winner- latin.  Overall, if treated with respect and if you can avoid getting her jealous, a latina will stick with you through thick and then, and will work hard to make you happy in the process.  runner up- USA (familiar culture)

Marriage Material

FSU-  pros: a nice alternative to American women in that they're similar,
     yet different (if that makes sense), will appreciate you as a
     husband
     cons: unpredicatable, will sour on you and won't
     recover
Latin- pros: family oriented, will submit to you if you
      take care of her
      cons: cheat, or even seem like you're cheating, and
      she won't forgive you, may melt into large hispanic
      cutlure in America and leave you
Asian- pros: family oriented, will not easily seek divorce
      cons: will annoy you if you're not financially stable
USA-   pros: capable of being your best friend, familiar
      cutlure makes it easier to understand them
      cons: will divorce you for no good reason, may lose
      interest in being a wife

winner- Latin.  If you can find a low maintenence, average yet appealing looking latina, you should have a good chance at a successful marriage.  If you are financially stable and can deal with inlaws, an asian wife should be just as good.  A close third, in my opinion, is an American wife.  A good selection can mean a lifetime of bliss.  The challenge is to find that rare American girl who will stick with you through it all. If fact, it's such a challenge that many of us burn out in the search. Last, FSU ladies.  For the long haul, I just don't see their value as a partner for life.

Conclusion:

If you can avoid getting mixed up with a selfish, model type latina, and you can find one who is capable of adapting to American culture, I would say a latina would be the best bet, with an asian being a very close second (surprise surprise).  The trick is not to get so wrapped up in a latin woman with a pretty face and big booty that you ignore the red flags. Avoid those who come from broken families, who do no work or who have histories of not holding jobs, and do your best to avoid any lady under the age of 26.  Let her know exactly what your fiancial outlook is, and through in a few subtle tests to weed out the green card sharks.  Lastly, allow for at least a 6 month courtship.

[Locii]

... in response to Here's the rundown..., posted by Troy on May 21, 2004

Kindof an interesting post, but there is 1 very short-sighted part:

Looks:
Latin- pros: tanned skin, curvy, no european flavor, naturally seductive
cons: will fatten up, short, no european flavor

Where are you looking?  I think this is more untrue than true.  I suppose if you are looking in central america or north coast south america, this may be true....and I guess you are referring to the latins with native mix....but there are many, many, many others.

Aside from the indigenous mixes, latins are european.  

But then your argument that all latins are tanned is not true either.  

My suggestion to those who like european looking women is to look at Argentina and southern Brasil.  Culturally, midwestern, western  and rural americans will find many similarites to southern and central south americans.

Ciao

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to Here's the rundown..., posted by Troy on May 21, 2004

Troy

Thanks for putting a lot of effort into that post.  I think you summarized the basics very well.  There are a lot of exceptions within those rules, as we all know.

Your post almost reads like you were handicapping a sporting event; comparing the teams by Offense, Defense, etc..  If so, it looks like you think Latinas win.  I don't disagree.  

I think if weight is a priority I took a pretty safe route.  Pick a Latina who already has had children, stayed thin, and had her tubes tied.  I've probably got 10 or 20 more years of thin Latina ahead of me.  Yum, yum.

Steve

[Phoenix]

... in response to Here's the rundown..., posted by Troy on May 21, 2004

Great Post Troy.

It's interesting, as you noted, that many men want taller women while many short women want especially tall men and won't even consider going out with a shorter than average guy even though he's clearly taller than she is.

This is especially true of American Black females but I was surprised as to the number of Latinas on one site who stated they wanted tall men.

Not every woman can have a tall man, it is just not possible since tall men, by definition, are in the minority.

This world is crazy.

[AnzoNevis]

... in response to About American Women, posted by Troy on May 20, 2004

Well, overall, American women don't compare well. I can't really list the pros and cons of all of them, but, as a handsome Columbian guy I know who lives here once asked-"What is it about American women? They are like computers". Very well said, I thought. The attitude of "Well, if you're nice, well educated, good looking, went to a good school (even 20 years ago), if my friends like you, you have an "approved" profession, live in a nice place, drive a nice car, are witty, smart, not more than 3 or 4 years older than me...well, then maybe I will talk to you. And then I'll help you fix those 27 things that are wrong with you". Ugh. Yea, and while we are all here just diggin' the wonderful things about the Latins, or FSUs (my favorites) or Asians, it is a real bonus that they can be a whole lot younger and hotter and more interesting than all of the domestic, shallow, grossly over-rated (by themselves) Sex in the City wanabees here. Don't get me started...

Anzo

[kented]

... in response to Re: About American Women, posted by AnzoNevis on May 20, 2004

Not a bad summation of what American women want. The basic fact is that AW can survive without us.  They are educated and can earn plenty of money without our help.  They would, for these reason, be a lot more particular.

Women from LA, FSU, or Asians recognize that we offer them a more prosperous life and that makes us a lot more attractive.  That is why all these agencies exist and why young beautiful women in these places are more interested in older gringos that younger better looking men in their own countries who speak their own language.  

The trick is finding someone in any of these locations who wants to improve our live as much as we can improve hers.  None of the traits mentioned is as important as finding someoen who wants to give as much as recieve.  This from a one time loser who is hoping #2 works out.

[Jeff S]

... in response to About American Women, posted by Troy on May 20, 2004

Basically, American women need books like this: http://msnbc.msn.com/id/3881738/ and are shocked to read what it says, when women from most other cultures don't, having learned it from their mothers. The rest is all a matter of personal taste in looks, temperment, education, etc.

- Jeff

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to About American Women, posted by Troy on May 20, 2004

I do not want an American woman for my next wife  because they just do not take care of themselves from a physical standpoint , but i do honestly believe that American women by the christian value system  that they have been raised in , will try to work through marital problems moreso then latin woman . If you will see my post enititled  TBBD , you might see what i am talking about.

Now that is not to say that an AW will not take off on you just like any woman would, but i do believe that an AW will make a better effort to stay in a marriage , even a not so good one for as long as the man is willing to work on things. A headstrong latina, not so sure

Oh, TBBD is     The Bigger Better Deal  and there are many women , not just latinas that are always looking for it.

[Heat]

... in response to About American Women, posted by Troy on May 20, 2004

American women are more like cats