gifts

[chevy]

I know one should not send money to a woman you never met. What about sending flowers or a small gift to someone you are having
good correspondence with?

[Pete E]

... in response to gifts, posted by chevy on Nov 3, 2003

Keep it under $20 or so.

Pete

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to That would be OK., posted by Pete E on Nov 3, 2003

Pete

This subject makes me cringe.  I disagree.  I think you're too much of a nice guy.  He's never even met the girl!

Numero uno - When guys start thinking along these lines they start to drift into a fantasy world.  They start thinking they have something with a girl they've never met.  They have nothing!  This girl may be writing 17 other guys and going out at night to dance with the Colombian national futbol team.

Numero dos - Sending small gifts to a woman after you meet her makes you look romantic.  Sending gifts to a woman you've never met is going to make you look DESPERATE.  

Steve

[JSlo]

... in response to That would be OK., posted by Pete E on Nov 3, 2003

A small gift would be ok, but you can deliver a gift just as effective and the cost is $0. Get over to any of the free sites that allow you to send electronic postcards in spanish. You can also personalize them with a message. If you are really serious, I'd say a gift is in order. If you are still in the feeling out stage an electronic postcard (some are very nice) could suffice.
JSlo

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: That would be OK., posted by JSlo on Nov 4, 2003

Those are nice.My wifes family have sent them to me.It was touching and thoughtfull even if free.
Its the thought that counts.

Pete