... in response to Time Frame, posted by Michael B on Feb 19, 2003Well, I know how anxious you guys are. I have been there, done that.
But if I may....
You guys obviously went the K-1 Visa route for some reason, right? It obviously wasn't for speed, as everyone clearly knows the fastest way to get a bride here is via the DCF method.
So, if it was because you needed/wanted the reassurance of the 90-day period, then you guys should look at this an an opportunity to get to know your prospective wife better.
If it was because you didn't have the time/money to travel repeatedly, I will tell you that you are in for a shock. The expenses/time associated with travel during the courtship process is the cheapest part of the whole deal, by a longshot.
Especially you, MichaelB, as you got engaged to the only girl you spent time with, and on your first and only trip to Colombia to boot! You are in a high risk situation, and should look at this as an opportunity to take your time.
I know, I know...you really know her better than I could possibly comprehend because you had talked to her on the phone for months, emailed each other endlessly, blah, blah blah. (which buy the way, the amount of $$ you have spent on phone bills could have no doubt paid for at least one more trip down South)