No, I'm not looking for a madam.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Re: No, I'm not looking for a madam., posted by Jefferson on Nov 13, 2002

that the woman will be just as, or possibly more, selective
than you will be. Especially if she's extremely attractive. No matter what you think you can offer, and how well you think you can take care of her, it comes down to the issue of mutual attraction and mutual interests. That is if the girl is a decent person.  

This is just a thought:

I'd rather be an average looking guy with a middle class income in Cali "digging in the dirt" and visiting the agencies going through the books, rather than being a rich guy who relies on agency management to pick out extremely beautiful girls for possible matches without knowing their full character.

I have a good relationship with Latin Best, and I've only been there once for 14 days. The way that I was able to build rapport with Luz was:

1.) I stayed at her B&B. Yeah it costs more than some places and less privacy, but Luz was able to have the chance to know me really well. She was able to see my interests and sincerity.

2.) I respected each an every girl that showed up, and made time to talk to everyone, even for girls that I did not have any interest in.

2 pennys.

Aaron

[pablo]

... in response to And always remember..., posted by Aaron on Nov 13, 2002

Good point Aaron,

Spending time with the agency staff and owners, allowing them to see what type of man you are is very worthwhile. Besides the friendship that develops between them you never know when they might make a recommendation on your behalf or introduce you to a real sweetheart.

Many of these ladies know each other and word quickly spreads among those circles whether you are a good guy or not.  If they see you as sincere, honest, caring and respectful, more women get interested.  Those men that aren't, quickly get reputations and the good catches avoid them.  

One lady that I met on my first trip that I became friends with, but not interested in as a wife, helped me out immensely on my last visit with translations, advice, and introductions.  Another lady gave me names and contact information of her friends either outside the agency or at a competing one.  

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: And always remember..., posted by pablo on Nov 14, 2002

Being a gentleman is always the best policy. And spending a little more money up front can lead to large pay offs later on.

Last night, Avianca called me saying that they had to make a change to my flight itinerary, and I would have to pay $100.00 extra.

You know what, I didn't complain one bit because in a couple of weeks, I'll be right in Cali with all the mamacitas.

Aaron

[Patrick]

... in response to Re: Re: No, I'm not looking for a madam., posted by Jefferson on Nov 13, 2002

We're your trips to Mexico and Puerto Rico just the go and hope to meet someome approach?  Sounds like you simply want some basic agency services.  I don't understand why you want them to do the picking for you though.  Why let someone else decide who the most beautiful woman is?  Their tastes may not match your's.  Look through their portfolio of women and decide for yourself who you want to meet is what I'd suggest.  As for picking the down to earth but terrific looking women- You should always rely on your own judgement as to character and you won't know until you get to know the lady really well.  Don't count on anybody else to judge the lady's character for you.