sensitive subject....need honest opinions

[colman]

Hello forum, listen I know that differnt physical traits are desired/not desired by different people. I, for example prefer to date slender women but if a girl is not slender per se but catches my attention with other traits...game on!!! My question is for people from the states with different backgrounds who have been to Latin America or have dated Latin American women in general. It seems to me (I am Colombian-American 28 yr. old) that thier is a direct correlation between older women (30) being more open and attracted to a man with a hairy chest, and iversely also true that the younger (25) the women is the less attracted to a hairy chest she is. I know in general that women do not place a higher importance on physical attraction compared to  most men but I suspect Latin American women in Latin America also have thier preferences. It seems to me that European and Latin American women IN GENERAL prefer a hairy chest compared to American/Asian women who IN GENERAL do not like hairy chests. Again, I believe Latin American women are more likely to overlook this but maybe they are not....so if anyone has seen themselves in this situation please elaborate on it. NOTE: when I mean hairy chest please dont equate the missing link/gorilla type of "hairy"--lol--what I mean is more like a "T" hair pattern on the chest. Also I believe to be an open-minded person. I do have a hairy chest but am willing to use electrolysis or shave if it gets to that point. I am also a realistic person.....if I seek a slender women I am willing to initiate an excercise program with her instead of expecting her to fit into a size 6 bikini and do nothing about it----God Bless--Colman

[sb25]

... in response to sensitive subject....need honest opinion..., posted by colman on Nov 15, 2002

" missing link/gorilla type of "hairy"--lol--  "

Oh haha! Not the gorilla type but the "T Type".
I know what you mean. (not really)

[colman]

... in response to sensitive subject....need honest opinion..., posted by colman on Nov 15, 2002

Just wanted to do a survey is all. Yes it's not worth it to invest emotionally on someone if he/she doen't like a trivial physical trait on a partner--this was just a curiosity---I guess maybe I have emphasize on it more because I am younger and usually date women between 21 and 25 and because I  have learn after dating someone for a while one may feel more comfortable asking your partner to try a "different look" (longer/shorter hair) or dye hair, etc... just to sort of break with the mode. Just was curious if any one have been in that situation and how LATINAS not just Colombianas dealt with it. ---Colman

[robbysanjuan]

... in response to sensitive subject....need honest opinion..., posted by colman on Nov 15, 2002

As the self-proclaimed expert on Colombian women, please tell me you forgot to log out and some weirdo posted this on your name as a joke. If a woman anywhere likes me for hairs in a certain area, that is too weird and shallow for me. If you need more chest hair, Rogaine it, less, hit it with a Bic. That was a joke.

[elcolombiano]

... in response to sensitive subject....need honest opinion..., posted by colman on Nov 15, 2002

I do not think it is constructive to spend time worrying about how many hairs you have on your chest. There are so many more qualities a woman looks for in a man. Besides, do you really want to be with a women who's basis of deciding if she wants to get to know you better is how many hairs on your cest you have?

PS: The asian ladys probably don't feel comfortable with hairy chests (in men) because asians don't have hary chests.

[Aaron]

... in response to sensitive subject....need honest opinion..., posted by colman on Nov 15, 2002

If the girl really cares for you, she will accept you with hair or not.
Just like if I really care for a girl, I'll accept her without a BB.

YIKES!!!! I can't believe what I wrote.

Anyways, you can't generalize which women like hairy or bare chests.

Aaron