Relationships with Latin women

[HappyInBrazil]

... in response to Relationships with Latin women, posted by lswote on Sep 18, 2002

Maybe this is the dating style "see ya" thing, or maybe she is a bit overwhelmed and needs some time to sort out where she is at.

If the relationship is promising, can you give her a little time, or do you figure that it's over?

[mudd]

... in response to Relationships with Latin women, posted by lswote on Sep 18, 2002

she sounds like a "flake" no offence. its a little hard to backtrack after going "full steam ahead". I have a friend who was dating a Cuban girl from LA. after two months of dating, she decided that she didn’t want to move more than 20 minutes away from her parents. she is 30 years old, still lives at home and lived 15 of those years in Cuba. nice girl, but why waste two months and a lot of feelings, time and money dating a guy from San Diego.my firend was taken totaly by suprise and needless to say,he was not too happy.my advice, leave her alone for a while and see what happens. if she doesnt come around, move on. i would be a little worried though about a girl, who all of a sudden changes her mind on the relationship and wont talk about it. i think something else is going on and you may not know it. good luck

[Canadian]

... in response to Relationships with Latin women, posted by lswote on Sep 18, 2002

One thing that you MUST remember is although they are Colombian women, They are still women and will do things that you may never understand.   Good Luck....Canadian.

[wizard]

... in response to Relationships with Latin women, posted by lswote on Sep 18, 2002

Think about it... Have you ever known a woman to tell you exactly what was on her mind???  Latin, American or otherwise... Unless of course it's your "soon to be ex-wife" that's cussing as she throws a plate at you... Ok, I exaggerate, but you get the point... Women rely more on their emotions than men do... When something doesn't FEEL right to women they will threw on the brakes so fast it will make your head spin, while men will try to rationalize and explain the way they feel... Especially early in a relationship... It's pretty obvious that if she did have any interest in you that it slipped away... It was probably the "things are going too fast" pressure that turned her off... If you are truly interested in this woman then back off for awhile, send her some flowers in a week, call her in two weeks and don't smother her... If she is just scared and does have feelings for you she may come around... Try it her way to gain her trust... Or, lick your wounds, climb back up on the horse and find another lady... It's not like you have alot of time invested with this woman... Play the field... This was your first trip south...