Honduras agency, a go or a no-go??

[hombrecaliente]

Guys,

More and more I am playing with the thought of going down to Honduras to get a partner. On the net I saw an agency which looked decent to me.
I emailed that agency there and asked some questions.....most questions were not answered.
I asked the guy for refs (just 2 or 3)to back up his "success-stories".
He didn't gave me one. In fact he didn't even told me WHY he didn't gave me a reference.

Peronaly I think he is BS-ing me.

Suggestions,anyone???

Colombia is still out there...but personaly I would rather go to another country.
But the question is WHICH other country? Was thinking of Venezuela,(been there before)but also there situation gets more and more unstable every day,besides that the number of agencies are very small and mostly orientated for hispanic men (Spain and other latinos)as I found out.

HC.

[Hamlet]

... in response to Honduras agency, a go or a no-go??, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 22, 2002

Hombre,

Nicaraguans are very nice people.  They are humble and warm.  There are many attracive Nica women.  Despite the terrorist activities of the US against their country in the 80s, they like Northamericans.

They are not overly eager to leave, which is good and bad.  It is good because they are less likely to be green card sharks, but bad because they are less willing to move here.  Naturally that depends on the individual.

Unfortunately, I don't know of any agencies there, although the host family I stayed with while in Spanish school ended up acting like an agency and in three weeks fixed me up with five dates, three of which would have made great wives.

One of my Spanish teachers wanted to marry me, but she wasn't what I was looking for.  I observed that maybe half the female teachers were on the prowl.  So if you want to improve your language skills you can always attend class ($175/week includes room and board) and scope the teachers, while getting your host family to fix you up after hours.  

If you go to either of the three locations where Nicaraguan Spanish Schools has their classes, you will be in small, safe and beautiful towns (none are in Managua).

Hamlet

[NW Jim]

... in response to Honduras agency, a go or a no-go??, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 22, 2002

Hombre,
Out of curiosity what is the name of the agency and in what city? There are only a couple that I know of. TLC and a few others also run occasional tours there.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Honduras agency, a go or a no-go?? , posted by NW Jim on Aug 22, 2002

NW JIm,

it was also a tour...arranged every second month.
City is San pedro de Sula (at the carribic coast).
agency was Latin women international.
This is their link

http://www.latinwomenintl.com/

HC.

[lex]

... in response to Re: Re: Honduras agency, a go or a no-go..., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

jkjk

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Re: Honduras agency, a go or a no-go..., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

Guy that runs it is a Cuban/American, a Marielito (one who left Cuba during the 1980 Jimmy Carter boat lift). I've never been there nor met him in person, but I've had a few emails with him and he seemed "on the up and up" to me. I've know a few (OK, like 3 or 4) women from Honduras here in the US and (at least to MY taste) the most beautiful woman I've ever met was one of them....if you like their physical features to be "Indian and hourglass" it's the place to go.

But somebody posted that most of them don't speak any English and don't have much education, and I think that's probably going to prove true, it IS a very poor country and doesn't have hardly any gringo tourism. It's really up to you.......if I were still looking, I'd give this agency a try.

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Honduras agency, a go or a n..., posted by Michael B on Aug 23, 2002

don't give a sh+t were he's from...as long as I don't get any refs I wont do business with them. It's very easy to brag on your site "oo look how good we are yadda yadda yadda yadda blablablablabla...etc" Proof that to me with some guys that married with a hondurena before.
period.

HC.

[burbuja2]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Honduras agency, a go or a n..., posted by Michael B on Aug 23, 2002

There is some gringo tourism, but its pretty much restricted to people going to Roitan (a Honduran island) for deep sea diving.  San Pedro is where they make their connection.

[Pete E]

... in response to Honduras agency, a go or a no-go??, posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 22, 2002

It seems to me that guys who go to out of the way low probability places like Honduras better have alot of time to spend looking and better speak spanish.If you have the time to fight the odds without getting discouraged and giving up go for it.Otherwise why not go where success is much more likely and there are lots of girls and agencies,Colombia?Are the Honduran girls prettier?I don't think its even close.Speak more english?Nope.Unspoiled,well I will give you that one.But you can find those in Colombia too.About 90% of agencies girls are unspoiled because guys are chasing the other 10%.

Pete

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to How much time do you have?, posted by Pete E on Aug 22, 2002

Pete

"About 90% of agencies girls are unspoiled because guys are chasing the other 10%."

So true.  I was chasing the other 10%.  One conclusion I drew in Colombia is that if you are willing to accept a woman with children you open up a lot of beautiful, older women who will really love you and not use you like many of the younger girls.  But the beautiful, older women usually have children.

My fiancee has 2 children.  I wasn't going to meet her, but a friend of mine was going to Cali with me and he was taken by her photo.  He didn't want to join the agency because he's engaged to a babe from Ukraine.  He just likes to travel.

So I set up an interview with her just so he could see her.  She wasn't really my target because of the children.  But she's very beautiful and she has that spark.  We've talked almost every day since I met her in April.

Guys are always hitting on her.  I saw it in Cali, and again when we went to Aruba in July.  Yesterday she went to the agency to talk to Maritza about the visa interview (at my suggestion).  A gringo in the agency saw her and wanted to steal her away.  No such luck.  ;-)

Steve

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Unspoiled agency girls, posted by DallasSteve2 on Aug 23, 2002

Guys,
thanks for all the info.
But for me personal (I am 35) a woman WITH kid(s) is a NO-GO area. sorry no discussion about this.
It's just the way I feel. If she is going to have a kid.....it's mine,and nobody elses kid.

HC.

[Rick Johnson]

... in response to women with kids...a no-go area for me., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

hombre: I think Pete has given you some good advice about this in an earlier post. Let me add the following: Shouting your aversion to kids may severely limit your options with women period, let alone Latin women. I would suggest you tone down this attitude as you meet women because the first hint of a guy not liking kids is usually a major negative from the female perspective. Whether you truly like or dislike children is not the issue here. You come across as if you don't like them and women will easily sniff this out.

The maternal instinct is one of the stronger immutable laws of nature. Only women who are genetic mutants don't have this instinct. Therefore, my friend, always be aware that most women will be strongly motivated in everything they do to act upon and satisfy this deeply-rooted inclination. No cultural brainwashing or marketing gimmicks can alter it. Take a good look at the women you know who never had children. Observation and experience tells us that they are for the most part profoundly frustrated and disappointed. They mistakenly believed that they could find happiness in work, careers, etc. Conversely, look at women who have had children and satisfied their maternal instinct. They've lost that negative "edge" of frustration so common and are usually far easier to get along with. In short, they make better companions.

Rick

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: women with kids...a no-go area for m..., posted by Rick Johnson on Aug 25, 2002

rick:
I never said that I never want kids...just NOT now.
Also latin women (in fact all women) tend to love their kids MORE then their husbands. That's why I refuse to take a woman who allready has kids which are not mine.

And I can easely fling out women who only want to use me to get a kid (see my story of the 36 yo colombiana).
First 5-6 years I want to enjoy my life with her,no kids.
No matter what you tell me ok? This is MY opinion.

I have my mind set on this. I think you are discriminating people who just NOT seem to have that "breather" instinct.
Well I don't.

I could just be as happy without or with kids. That's my point. I don't let my life being guided with that thought.
And if some 36 yo Colombiana had some high demands in the past,(it's obvious,most women at that age DO have kids you know)well Rick it's NOT my fault that she's 36 and wants kids NOW,or is it??

HC.

PS: I asked her some questions last week,untill now no answers,so that's the end of it. NO biggie. Now I am corresponding with a 26 yo...which is more up my alley in fact.

[Pete E]

... in response to women with kids...a no-go area for me., posted by hombrecaliente on Aug 23, 2002

You don't have to go for a woman with kids.At 35 you can be looking at the 25 year olds,most will not have kids but will definetly want them.What I was saying was look deep in the books for the unspoiled jewel who also looks much better than her photo.There are hundreds of them.
For me I didn't want to have more babies but a woman with a kid was OK.That was actually tougher,even women with kids wanted more.And all of them without kids wanted them.

Pete

[hombrecaliente]

... in response to Re: women with kids...a no-go area for m..., posted by Pete E on Aug 24, 2002

Pete,,
you said"most of them do not have kids"....

OO boy....in DR I saw girls of 18 with 2 kids...and in fact MOST of them (at the age of 20) got kids.

I want to enjoy my life. Due to circumtances I wasn't able to travel for 7 years,social life down the hole...all that cr@p. NOw I am BACK...gotta get some chatching up here and trust me I will ENJOY!!!(dude if yu think i was in jail you are wrong....;-)

I will REFUSE to take a woman with kids. period.
First 5-7 years I want to travel,enjoy life....so NO kiddos.
Because when you have those your life is OVER!!!!!!!

NO KIDS...NOW...and maybe one in about 5-7 years.
I am nearly 36,....but am very youing at heart. Kids mean prison. And I don't like prison.

I am looking for a life mate who loves me and respects me. I am not looking for a mother!;-)
So that cr@zy colombian woman who nagged my ezz off to get kids real quick....she can forget about that.

I know JUST what I want....and it aint kids!

HC.