Easiest and Cheapest Way to find girls

[mck]

I think there is nothing wrong with traveling to the country and bringing the girl over on a K1, however I think there are other ways that are cheaper and easier. Many of the websites have girls that are already living in the states that you can write to. I think corresponding with these girls and flying to the city they live in is far cheaper then flying to an agency and staying for a week. The other option I would use is correspond with a girl who has a tourist visa and have her visit you , rather then you fly down and visit her. Another option is to find a girl that already lives in your city threw latino friends or meet them in latino night clubs. I have two friends that did this and both have been happily married for five or more years. There is also a section of Miami beach that currently has about 10,000 Argentinans that are living on expired tourist visas that would love to get married. Maybe you can do just as well staying a week in Miami beach as you could visiting any other countries. My novia is coming to live with me on Monday, but if I had to do the entire process over again. These are the strategies I would use.

[Pete E]

... in response to Easiest and Cheapest Way to find girls, posted by mck on May 31, 2002

The cheapest way to meet a latina?Well if you live in California like me you could go down to your local latin bar.You could meet some young California born Mexican girls with attitudes honed in the gangs thay belong to.A Mexican Friend of mine's 14 year old daughter is going through this right now.She is a totally out of control loser,who not so long ago was a nice little girl and A student.She will probably get strait in prison or die.While you are at the latin club you could meet some young Mexican guys,who would be real glad to see you.They will be looking for someone to kick the s--t out of and you are it.
So cheap ain't always good.
All latinas are not alike.California latinas are worse than most american women,who are plenty bad enough.Its not genetic background,its attitude.And to get the real good attitude,unless you get real lucky,you need to get the h--l out of the US.
Cheaper yet,and less risky,a latin porno magizine,if you have some time on your hands.
Now how about quality,not cheap?If you are a serious guy looking for a traditional latin wife with an attitude you won't find here I say hop a plane.Cheap its not,but getting married and having a family is not cheap.Its about the life a person chooses to live.
I know people get tired of hearing about Colombia,but I really believe thats where the odds are most in a guys favor.If you have lots of time to hang out and speak spanish you could meet a girl somewhere else.For a guy with 2 weeks vacation I would say go with the overwhelming odds,Colombia.Yes the Colombiana you meet will not have a visa,you will have to step up to get her one.If you find the right girl,which is almost a certainty if you are smart and persistent,its worth it.

Pete

[outwest77]

... in response to Easiest and Cheapest Way to find girls, posted by mck on May 31, 2002

If that girl got married and she was in the country on an already expired visa, i think the ins would deport her

[Hoda]

... in response to Easiest and Cheapest Way to find girls, posted by mck on May 31, 2002

Many of the websites have girls that are already living in the states that you can write to. I think corresponding with these girls and flying to the city they live in is far cheaper then flying to an agency and staying for a week.
- How much cheaper? It won't be that much cheaper. You still have to pay for the hotel & food, for a week. No doubt the corresponding would be cheaper. But you're still talking about AW & American prices!!!

The other option I would use is correspond with a girl who has a tourist visa and have her visit you , rather then you fly down and visit her.
- Small & limited market, depending on the country! Plus, it'll take some work, to get a lady to visit you first. Plus, you might have to foot her hotel bill, if she refuses to stay at your place.

Another option is to find a girl that already lives in your city threw latino friends or meet them in latino night clubs. I have two friends that did this and both have been happily married for five or more years.
- This is great, when you have the "hook-up"! Some guys don't have or don't know of these night clubs. Best of luck to your friends. Maybe they can post about how they met? Were these AM who met Latin AW?

There is also a section of Miami beach that currently has about 10,000 Argentinans that are living on expired tourist visas that would love to get married.
- I'm gonna have to take you taak on this one. What's the male to female breakdown on this number you have? How many of them are single? Yes, I'm being picky, because you telling guys info they CAN'T USE! Not to mention, the serious IMMIGRATION ISSUES that'll face them. Example: So you wanna marry this woman who's visa has expired? How long have you known her, etc, etc, etc! You see the potential problems that could/would arise?

Maybe you can do just as well staying a week in Miami beach as you could visiting any other countries.
- Maybe so, maybe no! Maybe guys can post about such a comparison.

My novia is coming to live with me on Monday, but if I had to do the entire process over again. These are the strategies I would use.
- Focus on your lady, forget about "do-overs or the wudda, cudda, shudders...lol". Stay focused on her to maintain a good "Karma"...lol

Good Luck...

[Cali vet]

... in response to Cheaper? / Easier? Questions, not a flam..., posted by Hoda on May 31, 2002

Mck overlooked the cheapest option which is go to a local bar, pick up a girl and teach her Spanish.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Cheaper? / Easier? Questions, not a ..., posted by Cali vet on May 31, 2002

http://www.womenbehindbars.com/tn/h/hispanic.html

No expenses at all except stamps and driving there for conjugal visits.

-- Jeff S.

[mck]

... in response to Naw - Here's the cheapest of all..., posted by Jeff S on May 31, 2002

HMMM that is a good idea

[mck]

... in response to Cheaper? / Easier? Questions, not a flam..., posted by Hoda on May 31, 2002

Yes, the process takes time. The best way in these situations is to correspond by phone using a phone card. Yes it costs some money but it really doesn't cost that much and far less then going to an agency. You always have the girl stay at your place or stay at the girls place. I have never ever had a girl tell me-I want to stay at a hotel instead of your place. Yes you have to pick up the airplane bill but it is generally maybe a couple hundred depending on where they are coming from and the time of year they travel. Depending on the country, some countries have many many girls with tourist visas, such as Costa Rica or Mexico and even many girls from Bogota have tourist visas I have spoken to. In terms of the legal ramifacations of getting married to a girl with an expired visa. It is really pretty easy. You pay $1000 fine to INS and another $1500 to do an AOS. As long as the girl entered on a valid visa then you can marry them even if they are out of status. As a matter a fact, even if they are 11 years out of status you can still marry them. My two friends that married latin women they met here were both American and both married girls with expired visas. I have really never had a problem convincing girls to visit me after about a month or two of talking on the phone and it really does not take that much work to convince them to come up here to visit.