I've recently been communicating via Email/telephone with various Colombianas, mostly those from the Caribbean coast. So I'll soon be heading down to that area to visit one or more of them.
My top 3 prospects all have wonderful personalities & seem very interested in me. As luck would have it, they live in 2 different nearby cities.
I'm interested in knowing how other guys who've taken the penpal route have chosen which lady(ies) to visit.
For example, do you focus on one woman per visit, or do you try to meet more? And how do you decide which ones "rank" highest?
How do you encourage women to send more photos? I know it takes time and money for them to complete this process, but looks are an important (though not the most important) criterion.
Inevitably, the ladies ask you if you're communicating with others. If they don't ask this, they usually assume you aren't. How honest and specific are you with them on this subject? How do you "juggle" different ladies & dates?
I have a friend married to a wonderful Calena who subscribes to the "All's fair in love & war" philosophy. He told each lady on his "list" that he really liked them, and never mentioned other rivals. Interestingly, his Colombiana translator advised this strategy, as does his current wife. He worked the (agency) process really well, and is now happily married & a new stepfather.
Please share your strategies, advice & wisdom. Thanks.
