When I 1st began my Quest for a Latina spouse, a close lady friend from Panama suggested that if I wasn't interested in continuing a recently begun relationship, that I simply stop calling/writing the lady. She reasoned that it would save face for the lady vs. a rejection call/letter.
I've usually followed that advice in relationships of brief duration, although at times it felt cold and cruel. On the other side, the LW have generally followed the same pattern w/me. Rarely did a women I liked directly inform me that she wasn't interested. She simply didn't return my calls/letters.
The 2 or 3 worst among them actually lied & gave me to believe that they were still interested, but didn't have time to see me, causing me to waste some time waiting for them to free up their schedules to see me.
If the woman seemed really hooked on me, I've tried to let her down gently.
However, my strategy recently backfired with KE, a Bqlla. lady. After she stopped returning my early Emails, I dropped her down the list. But I called & met her during my 1st visit to BQ. She was charming, but overweight. I tried calling her once more before I left, but didn't reach her. I never tried emailing her again.
During my 2nd trip in Dec., I looked KE up again. She'd lost many pounds, & looked great. I was smitten. But the next date she told me she'd lost interest in me romantically because I'd dropped her w/o any communication. She felt this was rude. I apologized, but the damage was done.
At the moment, we're still communicating, & she shows flickers of renewed interest.
How do you end relationships/correspondence with LW?
