Oprah & the talking heads....

[Hoda]

Fellas,

Would any of you guys who are currently married and/or engaged appear on one of these shows to discuss the who, what, where, why & how of your relationship with a non-american woman?

- I presented this scenario to Stivalis, to which she replied, with a BIG HELL NO!!! Mike was right in saying that there are many similarities in women everywhere. However....I SAID, HOWEVER! There are those differences, BIG DIFFERENCES, which drive us south for a lifemate.

Peace...Hoda

[FenixRises]

... in response to Oprah & the talking heads...., posted by Hoda on Dec 3, 2001

Hi Hoda,
This is a very interesting idea. I think peoples' response says a lot about thier mind set. While I said nothing about the specific intent for my first trip to Cali, upon returning I told all my friends and family where I went (to a marriage agency), why I went (to find a woman to marry) and the results of my trip (tentative success). The response from my friends and family where all positive. I think this is because my friends and family trust my judgement. I think it is also because in my own mind I had a very positive and upfront attitude about the whole experience. I would not allow anyone to disparage my fiance or me for the choice I made. Even when told, a long time very liberal AW  friend of 20+ years, illicited no snide comments. IMO this is a topic that should be openly discused with the people you know. I would be happy to appear on any talk show to discuss my views about this subject. I am very happy about my decision and it's results (getting married in Jan 2002).
One example I give when people ask why a Colobiana, is simple. I ask how many pair of tennies (sneakers, jogging shoes, etc.) she owns when talking to a woman or how many pairs of tennies his girlfriend, wife, sister, etc. owns when talking to a guy. When I get the answer I simply say Maria does not own one pair and wouldn't wear them if she recieved them for free. "Nuff said!"
Fred

[Tai]

... in response to Oprah & the talking heads...., posted by Hoda on Dec 3, 2001

Hoda,

Of course you know that before that show started...Michael Buffer would have to come out on stage and say "Let's Get Ready To RUMBLLLLE!"

I think that the only way that a guy would make it out of the studio alive, would be if he was so "UTT BUGLY" that no woman in the studio could imagine him finding a woman here.

ALSO....the "comebacks" to any disparaging remarks would have to be so RUTHLESS that the other members of the verbal "lynch mob" would start thinking twice about trying to "clown" you on national television....this, of course would require SUBSTANCIAL preparation.

Hoda...being from NYC, I know that you can probably throw down some "SNAPS" with the best of  'em.

Tai

[Urobi]

... in response to Re: Oprah & the talking heads...., posted by Tai on Dec 3, 2001

I think even considering the thought of going on any tv show on any US network shows that you are very nieve concerning them.

Men period are eaten alive on all talk shows and most other tv shows in general nowadays. The guys who show up for the talk shows you see are all usually ignorant idiots, or they were tricked into being on the show for some other reason.

If you go on any talk show as a man, you will be degraded to a 6 year old "what a sorry little boy" status and then portrayed as someone who needs to be properly directed/changed by all the females (and sad excuses for men) in the audience who will all claim to have all the answers to make you "right". You will be chastised and booed until you give in and worship them and their views of who they want you to be.

Then when you have broken down on national TV (oh you will be broken down if you even considered going on one of these shows), you will shed a few tears caught on camera and they will then cut to commercial and get out the next guy to degrade.

If you want to take part in a show like this especially for something as misunderstood as the MOB idea, say goodbye to all the dignity of your manhood that you wanted to have for the rest of your life.

If you want to get out the truth to the MOB ideas, produce your own video and market it through this site and the internet and newspapers, forget about talk shows period because if you do one you are guaranteed to be used to degrade the whole MOB scene.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Re: Oprah & the talking heads......, posted by Urobi on Dec 5, 2001

Exellent potrayal of how Hoda would unnecessarily suffer abuse on Oprah !!!!

I love him like a brother, but going on the Oprah show with his girl, is walking into a trap. Him and his girl would be mad for days, years, afterwords. It isn't worth it.

=0)
Aaron

[Hoda]

... in response to This is truth !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..., posted by Aaron on Dec 5, 2001


Me & Stivalis gave going on ANY SHOW...A BIG HELL NO!!! They have similar programs in S.A. If you ever saw Laura in America, these guys are dumber than a bag of rocks. Every guy who shows up, gets B-slapped. I mean he really gets SLAPPED!!!! By his wife, his three girlfriends, his mama..LOL! Going on any of these shows is pure SUICIDE!!!! Trust me Aaron, going public was never in the cards...

If there was a way, I could SET THEM UP!!!! Man, would I have fun SNAPPIN & PLAYIN THE DOZENS on those gorilla biscuits that make up those audiences. I would have a crew of 30 fellas rippin them, as they would try to gang up on me. Aaron, by the time we got through. They would be calling the abuse hotline! Of course, I would have my burner with me, because I know some of the women, would try and bum rush the stage after I cut them too short to s***.....lmao!!!!

Peace...Hoda

[Aaron]

... in response to Whoa!!!! Hold the phone...LOL!, posted by Hoda on Dec 6, 2001

It would be really cool to split the audience. About 20 to 30 guys, decent men and even some ho strollers in the mix, in favor of our position; against the rest of those big mamas with the hair weaves, tint, and fake Fendi gold rim glasses.

It would be out of control then. And of course, our gilrs would be coming on stage looking sharp, and very elegant, and happy to be with us.

Aaron

[Hoda]

... in response to I got a plan,........... check this out, posted by Aaron on Dec 6, 2001

Let's get our ladies first. Or maybe some subs, so our ladies won't have to be bothered!! But you know what? Since the fricken program is taped, we'll probaly end on the cutting room floor. But just close your eyes and picture the RUCKUS that would take place.....

ROTFLMAO.....Hoda

Fake Fendi......Good one brah....lol

[Aaron]

... in response to Sounds like a plan.......Stan....lol, posted by Hoda on Dec 6, 2001

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[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Oprah & the talking heads...., posted by Tai on Dec 3, 2001

Tai,

Don't think it didn't cross my mind. Have you seen some of them "Gorilla biscuits" that make up part of her audience? Oooo, I got some goodies for the loud ones with the big hard hairstyles. The fine ones would be the most difficult. But once I break down that facade & reveal their "if you don't have the cash, you ain't getting none of this azz" ways. I'd beat 'em like a bad child...lol

Don't get me started....lmao

p.s. SNAPS, DOZENS, whatever they want, they will get SERVED!!

[Aaron]

... in response to And ya know I would.....lol, posted by Hoda on Dec 3, 2001

Don't forget about the "my man left me for a hoochie mama...all men are dogs" mentality.

Or you can parallel it with the "I just need my man, even though he it ain't right" mentality.

Last but not least, the "I don't know how to cook, but I can sure put in a weave" attitude.

Chao,
Aaron

[Hoda]

... in response to Ya'll are just rambling...talk'in trash...., posted by Aaron on Dec 3, 2001

Good one Aaron....

With all those "hair Weaves" in the audience, that's why there are so many mane-less & tail-less horses in the country....lmao!!! Truer words could not have been spoken in regards, to the many women wanting, some multi-parole violating, drug-slinging ganster over a "Nice-Guy". When I keep seeing women making that choice & THEN COMPLAINING ABOUT IT!!!! I'm ready to slap the taste from their mouths!!! I was thisclose from opening up a chapter of NGA "Nice-Guys Anonymous". It would have been for guys, sick & tired of being kicked to the curb in favor of the thugs...

Oh yeah, let's not forget the "all men are dogs" bunch. Dogs come in both genders baby!!! All too often, it becomes a vicious cycle. A person gets dogged out, then becomes a dog, & takes it out on the next person.

Peace...Hoda

[hilton]

... in response to Weavey....Weavey.....WEEE-VY....LOL, posted by Hoda on Dec 4, 2001

Hoda,

Remember, in the united states, women divorce men twice as fast as men divorce women.

This could be due to the 'naked lady effect'; meaning that her sense of dating/marrying a good man was blinded by the fact that she fulfilled her own thinking and stereotype about what nice guy should be and how they should act.  This, in turn, causes her to be stripped of her 'unconscious' dignity, which leaves her feeling naked.

At this point, she now runs, as a last alternative, to the guy that treated her like a queen.

But little do she know, that people like me, are determined to not be bothered by her type.  

And, finding a wife in Colombia is pretty much, to her surprise, the 'only' alternative!

Peace,

Hilton

[cdrab]

... in response to Oprah & the talking heads...., posted by Hoda on Dec 3, 2001

When pigs fly.
when hell freezes over. etc. etc. etc.
when Hoda finally gets married(LOL)

[Hoda]

... in response to That would be the day., posted by cdrab on Dec 3, 2001

n/t