Women 101

[Thomas]

Hey im just a guy in my 20s and alot of you guys have more experience then I do and I appreciate learning from what you fellas post. So Im going to share something. Now I dont know much but I do know this.If ANY woman American or hispanic, Black or white, crippled or crazy starts to tell you all of her problems when you first meet her she is NOT interested in you romantically. Trust me. When a woman or a man for that matter meets someone they are interested in they want to put there best foot forward. The last thing there going to want to do to someone they respect and want to be with is tell them all of there problems and appear to be weak and needy. They will only expose these things early on for 2 reasons 1. They think of you as a friend and they need some shmuck to listen to their problems or 2. You guessed it they want you to help them with there problems ie $$$ So if you meet a woman and she starts telling you how tough of a time shes having within the first couple days of knowing her get the hell out and fast!

[yc]

... in response to Women 101, posted by Thomas on Jul 20, 2001

Good post Thomas.  You are right.  I learned this one sometime back myself.  If a person is really interested in you romantically, they usually don't try to air their dirty laundry early on.  There are exceptions, but you hit the nail on the head.  I am proud someone of your age is thinking beyond that of the average twentysomethingner.  Keep on learning the realities of life and do not buy into the psychobabel being propagated today.

Best wishes,

[KADAMS]

... in response to Women 101, posted by Thomas on Jul 20, 2001

It took me 40 years to figure that out, you learned by 20? Staying focused is tough, but you have a pretty good idear about what's up.

[stezo]

... in response to Good shot, posted by KADAMS on Jul 20, 2001

No I misstated. Im not 20 im in my Twenties! Your giving me to much credit. I unfortunatly learned this one from having it happen to me not becuase I just knew it. Now that I know it its saved me alot of time because I simply move on when it happens. Also as someone else pointed out the girl maybe just insecure and thats why she tells you all her problems right out. ButI still think you wouldnt want to be with someone if thats case anyway.

[Richard Smith]

... in response to Women 101, posted by Thomas on Jul 20, 2001

Good advice.  I would just add that men take a general course in women 101 to do some work deconditioning themeselves from the brainwashing they have gotten from society with regards to women.  That is primarily the reason that men keep on making the number one mistake that I see time and time again on this board as well as society at large, and that is the mistake of throwing money at women.  For a pretty young con-actress it is so easy.  Society has already set everything up for her.  All she has do to is play the role that has already been assigned to her.  The information is slowly getting out though.  Find educators who don't give you the "just be nice" crap to get a girl, but provide you with real-world practical knowledge.  If your are in the LA area, I would recommend listening to Tom Lykis everyday.  Another good teacher is Ross Jeffries www.speed-seduction.com  Get educated and save yourself some bucks and a ton of heartache.

[Tai]

... in response to Women 101, posted by Thomas on Jul 20, 2001

Thomas, you forgot one...

3. One of her "problems" is with judgement and perception, so she doesn't realize the depth of her own issues or that she is "unloading" so much so fast.

"...get the hell out and fast!" -You got that right.

Tai

[Bueller]

... in response to Women 101, posted by Thomas on Jul 20, 2001

That´s a good point. After a couple of unpleasant  experiences meeting people like that outside the international dating venue, I´ve decided that it is nearly the height of indiscretion to share all one´s personal problems with a stranger one has just met. It seems to indicate at best that the person is not accepting personal responsibility for his problems and hopes the other person will.