American Women M.O.B... !!!

[yc]

At the risk of sounding stupid, why is there no niche for AW?  AW have the same legitimate compliant as many SA, asian and FSU women.  There are no or few good men available.  The AW have been saying this for many years now.  Why are there no agencies for AW?  Just thought I would ask the question.

[KADAMS]

... in response to American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by yc on Jul 10, 2001

Many of the guys from countries I visit see AW's as a treat or prize. And the process is very expensive, would you spend $10,000 to marry an AW?

[JunFan68]

... in response to Monetary reasons, posted by KADAMS on Jul 11, 2001

10grand wouldn't even pay for dating an American Woman for a year these days

[Houndog]

... in response to For starters? No, posted by JunFan68 on Jul 11, 2001

Ahmen brother...at least not any of the ones I dated or would have dated.

Actually by going to Colombia and finding wonderful wife I probably saved 30-50 grand just on 'stuff' one needs to impress to date AW. At least the types I dated or would date.

HD

[HappyIdiot]

... in response to American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by yc on Jul 10, 2001

I would think that internet dating services like you see on excite or yahoo or something like match.com are filling this role.  Also, I think there are non internet services like great expectations, but I've only gotten their junk mail and not investigated it.

[buzzy]

... in response to American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by yc on Jul 10, 2001

The AW are a bunch of Queen of England types looking for the great big palaces and blue lakes in front and an ajax clean kind of guy who will not be humanlike but act like the Ken doll type of man.  A man used to be valued in this culture...now we are merely dead leaves blowing in the wind. The Queens should take off their crowns!

[denvermike]

... in response to Re: American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by buzzy on Jul 10, 2001

My Thoughts Too!

The last 20 years has seen a tremendous change in the American culture, especially the AWs.  AWs have complained bitterly for ever about how awful men are. But with the oppportunity to be liberated, what have the AWs become, they have taken on some of the worse type of behavior that we are blaimed for.  

It is amazing to me how masculinized the AWs have become. If you live and work in other cultures outside the US, and you return to the States, it is like a bucket of cold water in your face.

I dated several AWs last year.  One of them made an interesting comment to me. In any given situation, either personal or business, she said she never knows how masculine to act! So many times she over does it.

Our society is constantly being bombarded with male bashing comments in the media.  Virtually every TV show, movie, and news cast, has some negative comment about men.  We are supposed to just drop our heads and say nothing.  But if you make any negative comment about AWs, you get jumped on. It is politcally correct to bash men but not women these days.

AWs want to be able to control and manipulate their men (if don't believe it just the "Rules" book for women). But they also want you to hold the door open and be romantic all at the same time.  I think many feel they have to train you like a new puppy. But once they get you whipped they lose respect for you. It is any wonder that most of us are angry and confused.  

If you ask what they want, they will not tell you, you are supposed to know somehow. If you guess wrong, you are in the dog house again (bad puppy!). Unforuntately being a mind reader has never been my strength.

AWs have also become black belts in mouth.  They want to be able say anything without consequences. However, if we say something back were are in trouble. If you hit them, your are in jail. Guys learned long ago if you pop off to another guy, you could get clocked.  

I just wonder if the AWs of today are actually happier than the previous generations?

mike

[buzzy]

... in response to Re: Re: American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by denvermike on Jul 10, 2001

Don't talk to me about masculine women!  The last AW left me painful memories.  When she asked me to look at her tight ab muscles I was politely impressed but when she beckoned me to feel her tight biceps I figured it was a romantic invitation so I decided I'd give her a nice warm neck massage instead.  Quick as a goose she grabbed my hand and twisted it the opposite direction holding it until I was compliant.  She said she hoped it wouldn't interfere with my workout at the gym.  I told her I didn't work out in the gym but that I had lots of hard sweaty work around the house to do the next day.  She said "You don't go to the gym?"  I said "I don't have time."  "But I can build a shed, make and install a fence with posts, put on a new roof, lay a small concrete job, do some plumbing, trim the trees, paint, maintain plants, etc etc etc."  She grimaced looking surprised and disappointed and said, "You don't work out?"  I said "no."  That was our first and only date. But she did pay for her dinner!  LOL.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by buzzy on Jul 10, 2001

Yep - only in America - pay to go to a place and lift heavy weights then pay to have someone else move your furniture, mow your lawn, etc.
-- Jeff S.

[Houndog]

... in response to LOL - Only in America, posted by Jeff S on Jul 10, 2001

n/t

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by denvermike on Jul 10, 2001

I agree with you...the old double standard...that a few of us are willing to put forth the time, money and effort to leave behind.

HD

[Jeff S]

... in response to American Women M.O.B...  !!!, posted by yc on Jul 10, 2001

Can you see AW putting up with macho Latinos, Arrogant Asian men or strong willed Russian men? As George Carlin says, there's a continuing "pussification" American men going on, and these are the only ones suitable for most AW. When AW say there are no "good men" around what they mean is there aren't enough men around they can keep on a short leash. Just my 2 cents worth.
-- Jeff S.

[KADAMS]

... in response to Yeah - right, posted by Jeff S on Jul 10, 2001

George is right, and most guys know it. I really don't see anything wrong with being macho, what does AW want, a fish? Oh I forgot, they want an equal partner who wants more from her than just sex. A man to share, and reap, and kiss her feet..... I am getting all sappy..........

The woods are full of old AW's who thought the knew what they wanted.

[Houndog]

... in response to Yeah - right, posted by Jeff S on Jul 10, 2001

Is'nt it great how vocal we become after having been liberated from the "AW Beating Us Down and into Shape Syndrome"...LOL...I have'nt had to live up to a single unexpressed, unrealistic expectation(demand) since I met my wife.

Like pack said...Thank You AA..and Avianca and ACES...LOL..

HD

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Yeah - right, posted by Houndog on Jul 10, 2001

Ain't life grand! Best to you and your sweetie.
-- Jeff S.