"Operator" Advisory...yes, blowing the whistle.

[Tai]

I believe that every person has the same ability to do good or bad things at any given opportunity to speak or act, so this advisory is based on the recent "bad" actions of a young Barranquilla woman whose looks create abundant opportunities for her to continue to "operate" and make bad choices that victimize others.

Her name Luz Karime Gonzalez Pacheco, and she was previously associated with both the Latina Angels and I Love Latins agencies in Barranquilla. However, as a result of the stir created by her recent "work", I gather that she realizes that the Barranquilla agencies are too hot for her right now. -It's no coincidence that she now has joined an agency in Cartagena.

Last word(according to her sister) was that she had been sent away(out of town) to live with an aunt, as a result of the pain and disgrace that she'd brought upon her ex-fiance(and her family as a result of her actions in regards to said fiance), and that her actions and whereabouts were being strictly monitored as a result.

Call me king of the skeptics but I never bought this cover story either...especially given the fact that her sister, a previous covergirl for TLC(drop dead gorgeous), was also "operating", shopping the highest bidder. As a matter of fact she continued "shopping" as her fiance(whose proposal she accepted after 3 days of courtship) was here in the states working on the paperwork. -The discussion I had with Luz regarding her sister's actions, and Luz's answers represented not just a red flag, but rather a STOP sign.

The agency in Cartagena that she is now a member of is A Foreign Affair. I have added a link to her photo. There is another primary photo, but this one truly presents the incredulity of the "story" of her religious conversion.

http://www.loveme.com/cgi-bin/extraphoto.pl?32165&2&Luz

Again, I don't think she is a bad person, but she is definitely tapping into the dark side of the force right now. She was "dogged" pretty bad by a guy when she was 14(her first "serious" relationship), so her lack of conscience may be related to an emotional wound she is still carrying around with her. -This is just an offering, not an excuse for her.

She is VERY intelligent, in addition to being very sexy. She can be as sweet, attentive, and enchanting as anyone you'll ever met, effortlessly inspiring confidence and trust....then when she sees the stars in your eyes and the weakness in your knees....you're toast.

I feel strange about writing this, but as I said before this lady is "slick", so chances are she will successfully "work" several others before she is done and I'd feel worse about that.

So...Take this for what it's worth. Maybe it will prevent one of you from the same fate as her previous fiance.

Now it is possible that she'll be different at the new agency, and it's possible that one of you might be "the one" to cause her to change...but first, as the 20th Century philosopher Dirty Harry once said..."you better ask yourself one question....do you feel lucky."

Tai

ps - I hope that this does not stir up to much pain for the ex-fiance if he happens to lurk here, but as the saying goes..."evil flourishes when good men do nothing."  -I'm no saint, but I try to do the right thing.

[Diego A.]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

On my way to Cali Thursday and reading this entire string
I was thinking oh no say it isn't so because there are
actually three girls named Luz I am hoping to meet thankfully the one named isn't any of the ones I'm visiting
there are so many Luz's in Cali! thanks for finally naming
her

[Cali vet]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

I beleive this girl also appears as #1159 0n Latin Love Connection, the first agency that drops down on this (planet love) site under "latin". She is on the last page of 22 year olds.

[yc]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

Hello,

To Tai and LarryG, I believe you guys have done the right thing.  I am deeply sorry that someone was hurt for this to be brought to light, but as the saying goes... "evil flourishes when good men do nothing."  Thanks for looking out for the rest of us with noble intentions.

To LarryG, I hope this experience will not deter you from continuing to seek a latina wife.  Bad apples are everywhere, including Colombia.  For all that it is worth, your pain and for coming forth will save several others from having to go through what you did.  Much Thanks

To possibly err on the wrong side, I do not believe she is an evil person either--since I have never met her.  But as you all have stated, she is a very confused person right now.  She is operating without her moral campass on, and because of that, a very dangerous person to be involved with.

Throughout my life, I have seen a number of cases like this.  A good person becomes involved with a bad person.  The good person gets burnt(as was probably the case with her when she was 14y/o).  The good person(being her), because of the pain inflicted upon them, begin acting like the person that hurt them(inflicting pain on others... to the point of hurting people that genuinely care about them).  The good person is now the bad person, and the cycle continues, bad hurts good--good person becomes bad person.  

If she was only able to feel some compassion for the person that hurt her... like you(Larry) did when she hurt you, perhaps she would have turn out different person.

Until she can deal with her pain and anger, she will be incapable giving or receiving any kind of affection from a man.  Take it for all it's worth.

[LarryG]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

Gentlemen,
I am the ex-fiance being talked about here. I don't mind this post because it is accurrate so there is no need for me to rehash the facts. The interestesting part is that this took place over a year and after a ton of due diligence with friends and family on my part. They were as shocked by the final outcome as I was. Because of that I really believe that Luz has some deep and well hidden issues with men. Her honesty rating with me was 90% on small issues 0% on the big issues.

I don't wish Luz any harm, I believe she is more confused than anything else. Nevertheless, at best she has admitted that she has problems with men in general including on the "physical" side. Anyone who meets her, needs to take their time to see if she has changed or is just desperate to leave Barranquilla which I believe is the overwhelming reason she is joining an agency. I don't believe she even likes men and told me that if she was rich whe would have her own house with dogs not men.

She later sent me an explanation which included charges of an unhappy home. Frankly I don't buy it. Her Father and Mother and Brother are nice people. I won't comment on her sister Claudia except to say that she definetly writes many men at the same time and my buddy who is well off was a target of hers until she sent him e-mail meant for someone else after telling him that she was serious about him!!!

Those of you who visit the Latin List Know I am a frequent contributor, and here I just visit now and then. A friend let me know about this and since in the past I was warned away from a bad one in Cali, I feel it's proper to return the favor. I hope I've been fair but you guys do need to think twice(maybe three times) before getting involved with Luz or Claudia (Gonzalez Pacheco).
LarryG

[Richard Smith]

... in response to Re: "Operator" Advisory...yes,..., posted by LarryG on Jul 6, 2001

LG says:

 "I don't believe she even likes men and told me that if she was rich when would                have her own house with dogs not men".

Whenever a woman starts comparing men to dogs or animals she is real trouble.  When I was in Cali one lady said that she liked dogs better than men because dogs are easier to control.  I ended the interview immediately and called her cab.  It is tempting to dismiss these as innocent statements because they are presented in a "humorous" context.  But they are not humorous if you consider your long term well being.  They are strong evidence of a disturbed women with deep emotional issues involving men.  If she says something like this, it's not going to get any better.  Based on my experience and the experience of other men, I take all negative statements against men seriously and as a big RED FLAG.  If you hear them:  Run, don't walk.

[yc]

... in response to Re: Re:, posted by Richard Smith on Jul 6, 2001

I am not trying to be a zealot, but I am in total agreement with Richard.  This is the sign of someone with deep rooted problems.

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Re:, posted by yc on Jul 7, 2001

It's easier than one might think to get "Blinded by the Light"...so to speak. I'm not defending LarryG or anyone else...but we talk long and hard here about being careful and the amount of risk,  because after all is said and done...love/lust comes down to emotions...and when men succumb to making solely emotional choices(ie:thinking with the wrong head)...the door to potential trouble is thrown wide open.

HD

[Slim]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

X

[Cali vet]

... in response to "Operator" Advisory...yes, blo..., posted by Tai on Jul 6, 2001

Haven't heard of the agency Latina Angels. What's the scoop on that place?