Woman with kids in Cali....more sincere??

[Chris F]

I was wondering if anyone who has been to Cali could tell me if they feel the woman with children are "more sincere and honest" about meeting an American then the single woman....I know that there are some very sincere single woman there.....but after reading all these horror stories abut the woman in Cali being players ( as well as the Gringos site)....I had to ask!!!

[rippem]

... in response to Woman with kids in Cali....more sincere?..., posted by Chris F on Jun 21, 2001

You will usually find that women with children are more mature. Having a child can tend to make one "grow up" quickly.

[Pete E]

... in response to Woman with kids in Cali....more sincere?..., posted by Chris F on Jun 21, 2001

Chris,
I think that at least the women with children are more serious.Mostly they are not as much in to playing around.The downside may be that they have very little opportunity in Colombia(I am told women with children have about 0 chance of getting married)they may go for you regardles of how they really feel about you.
My wife was 33 when I met her with an 8 year old son.She was very serious and sincere and not in to any games at all.Also she is a very good person and I knew that right away.I think you can tell a good one,its the questionable ones that get a guy in trouble.
The other issue is,you have to decide where you are on the kid issue.The women that don't already have a child almost always want to have some.For me I did not want to start over with babies so accepting an older child was easier.I think this depends alot on your age also.I was 56 when I met my wife.Finding a Colombiana who doesn't have kids or doesn't want kids is very rare.Beware woman without kids who say its ok,they don't need to have kids if you don't want to.They might even believe this temorarily but the issue will come back up almost for sure.One guy posted about his wife poking holes in his condoms(maybe he was joking).

Pete

[pack]

... in response to Woman with kids in Cali....more sincere?..., posted by Chris F on Jun 21, 2001

you can have problems whether she has kids or not. i found major red flags with the calena i was dating and she had a child.