Why people fail in cali

[Craig]

Hi again...........Maybe I'm the devil's advocate posting like "Point counter Point," like on CNN, but I can't help myself. Some of the post's knocking the ladies of Cali, calling them players, or sharks are coming from friends of mine, so I hope they won't be angry with me when I tell them I disagree with them. Sure there are players in Cali loose their numbers, and move on.  I stated this in an earlier post that I believe that you can find young attractive girls, looking to share their lives with you, if you approach the situation with reason. Some of the gentleman interviewing these girls are handing out a 20 question form, as if the girls were filling out a job application, or medical history. Frankly If I was one of them I would have thrown the paper in their face and walked out. The girls can get tired of the endless interviews with guys asking silly questions. If you want to date a girl in Cali, take her out to lunch, a movie, ask her dreams, make her laugh, hold her hand, and at the end of the night kiss her on the cheek. If you have chemistry with her, let her know how you feel with your eyes, dump the probing questions like "Do you understand life in America is not that easy" silly questions need to go. I'm telling you if you approach meeting these ladies like a job interview your gonna fail. The truth is if you approach meeting women from Colombia with 20 questions, and no passion in your eyes, your gonna fail whether in Colombia, USA, or any where else in the world. I write this letter because I'm afraid that a gringo will decide not to go to Colombia because of these negative posts. I say with all the truthfulness I can muster if you fail in Cali you need only look at yourself.........change your approach.............with all kindness .....Craig

[Pete Eiguren]

... in response to Why people fail in cali, posted by Craig on Jun 4, 2001

Craig,
Of course there are girls you have to watch out for in Cali,like here,but I think your chance of success is much greater than here.Our reward,a sweet loving lady who wants to be with you and is much younger and better looking than we are every likely to find here.
The process is more prone to making mistakes then suffering rejection,which most of us have experienced enough of.So a guy has to use a little sence and think with the big head and run at the first sign of lies or deception.One of the other challenges is not to get so caught up in the fun of the search to ever choose somebody.
Your posts are very thoughtfull,I'm glad you found us.

Pete