Howard's(H2O)wedding is off

[Pete Eiguren]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Funny you mentioned that..., posted by jim c on Jun 7, 2001

Jim,
Oh you are so politically incorrect---and I love it.The last woman I dated here before I went to Colombia and found my wife was 48 I think.About the second date she showed up in these shorts and T-shirt.I took a quick look and decided I didn't even want to know what she looked like with her clothes off(put it on-put it on!).
Unless I got very lucky(and I wasn't) there was no way I was going to get anyone like my Colombian wife.
This is probably the main reason guys go south.We want a nice looking woman and that is hard to find here,especially as you get older.I saw HD post below and if you are trying to find a good looking 52 year old they do exist but you will probably get hit by lightning before you find one.
Of course this is unfair and I have some women friends who are 50's and overweight and they would be appalled at my post here,but I don't think they are likely to read it.I think its just the way most guys tend to be.
And how about our looks?Well guys have an advantage here.If you have good heredity and keep your body in excellent shape(mine is 20 lbs more than excellent)I think a guy can look pretty good well into his 60's.The bod can still be good(with work) and if your face has aged a little you could be considered rugged,not pretty.I think Clint Eastwood is about 70 and still looks pretty good(and has a 30 year old latina wife).
If my wife and I ever split I would be right back down south in a heartbeat.What I would have to settle for here I can pass on.
Never saw an old woman naked,I love it.Whoops,if I live more than 20 years I may have to trade mine in.(just kidding,just kidding).
With all the problems that can be encountered by looking for younger latin women I think most of us would have to admit that it beats the hell out of what we were doing before.
I'm so bad,go ahead and flame me!

Pete

[jim c]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Old broads without c..., posted by Pete Eiguren on Jun 7, 2001

Hey Pete your not bad just honest.
    When we are in our fifties we are caught in the middle, young enough to want them pretty but condemed if we say so. AW find our attitudes insulting and act like we are pedaphiles or have never grown up. I like being a dirty old man and believe that a good wine dosn't have to come in a dusty old bottle. As for the young guys don't believe the propaganda. We are still just as dangereous and often age and treachery over comes youth and skill.
jim c

[DallasSteve]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Old broads witho..., posted by jim c on Jun 7, 2001

Forgive me if I'm not sympathetic to the plight of older women in this country.  There are a few women in their 40s and 50s that still look hot.  The rest let themselves go physically and they say we should love them for their "inner beauty".  They say men are shallow.

American women are just as shallow.  After I started losing my hair I couldn't buy a date with an attractive woman in this country.  It didn't matter that I exercised and kept myself in good physical condition.  Nada.  The competition is fierce for attractive, older women in the US.  It's simple supply and demand.

So I had to settle for a stunningly beautiful 21yo latina who signed a pre-nup.  Imagine that.  That would never happen with a beautiful American woman.  

Thank God for Colombianas and K-1 visas.

[jim c]

... in response to American Women are just as shallow as Am..., posted by DallasSteve on Jun 8, 2001

Good for you!! You deserve what you search for! Another honest man is found. jim  c

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Funny you mentioned that..., posted by jim c on Jun 7, 2001

I highly recommend you get some preserved/well taken care of over 40 women naked, in the hot tub, on the kitchen table, shower, bubble bath or any other place of choice lights on or off. My last AW GF was 52 an x ballerina...Italian, and between the French Kissing and Fantastic sex that lasted for hours and hours I really think you've been missing out.

As far as Lap Dances...a fantasy is a fantasy is a fantasy is a fantasy...here, there or on mars...LOL..unless the guy is Quasimoto...take the 700 it costs for a plane ticket and one can get a date with a 20 something right at home, believe me !!!! With all the permanance of some of the 20 yr old Calenas. Heck if one starts offering up Apartments, a not to expensive car, shopping, perks, one could easily find several one could  rotate with...LOL.

Been there done that...! And they are no different than a fantasy that ends over there. Actually it's healthier to know Exactly How the Cow Ate the Cabbage rather than living a delusion.

HD

[jim c]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Funny you mentioned ..., posted by Houndog on Jun 7, 2001

Hey HD I don't get your post I don't date the 20 year olds. Mid to late thirtys are my taste. I agree about the twenty somethings, but call me shallow the fifty year olds don't work for me. My latest is 37, a calena and an employed engineer. Never did the sugar daddy thing, I'm too cheap. Its very inexpensive to entertain in Cali for me compared to Key West and there are a thousand times more women. For the life of me, I don't understand the cow and cabbage thing. Please enlighten me I guess I skipped that class. jim c

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Funny you mentio..., posted by jim c on Jun 7, 2001

Didn't mean to get sooo Deap with the Cow&Cabbage philosophy.

I guess the Block I've been around was larger than the one some others have been around..LOL..

BTW...I forgot to mention I had a 48yr old GF from Medillin(sp?)visit me here in the states a couple of years ago..she could rumba 3 times a day..;-)...(you get that right?)and her body could rival any 35yr old AW. So between genetics and taking care of what one was given age isn't the only deciding factor in quality. Maybe you should get out more ? Try a few new things...or old things for the first time..;-)..

HD

[jim c]

... in response to e: Re: Sorry man...., posted by Houndog on Jun 7, 2001

thanks for the advice dog, but I think I will stick to the new things until I have to settle for something old, but she will be rich so I can pay for the lap dances and the electric wheelchair. Jim C

PS please explain the cows and cabbages I always enjoy your farm humor. Example "even a blind hog can find an acorn"

[Golden]

... in response to Re: e: Re: Sorry man....something old ,s..., posted by jim c on Jun 7, 2001

 I THOUGHT IT WAS....EVEN A BLIND PIG CAN FIND AN ACORN  ..WELL DAM.....LOL....HUMMM COWS AND CABBAGE......I WANT TO KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TOO....HOUNDOGGIE DOG IS OLD SCHOOL, SO HE KNOWS MORE :p .....MY PERSONAL FAVE IS ..."IF I TELL YOU A CHICKEN DIPS SNUFF, YOU CAN REACH IN HIS POCKET AND GET YOU A DIP"....  SOMEONE TOLD ME THIS ONE ...WAS FUNNY TO ME

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: e: Re: Sorry man....something ol..., posted by Golden on Jun 9, 2001

Reminds me of the saying,...Twenty Years Experience is Considerably Different than One years Experience Twenty times...

....didn't say I knew more....only the Block I've been Around could have been larger. No real way to know for sure though right  :-)...

Regards, HD

[jim c]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: e: Re: Sorry man....somethin..., posted by Houndog on Jun 9, 2001

Come on dog get out of the south forty and tell us about cows and cabbages.

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: e: Re: Sorry man....some..., posted by jim c on Jun 9, 2001

Well Jim,

I used that cliche in context so everyone could get it. I like cliches and have found they carry profound significance boiled down to simplistics. I suppose we all can overlook at times how simple life really is, looking for complicated Truths to the Universe and the Meaning of Life.

Here goes, " How the Cow Ate the Cabbage"...it walked up bent it's neck and opened it's mouth, "WE INSERT CABBAGE" it bites off a hunk and begins chewing. That's "REALITY"!! Every other supposition of how the cow eats the cabbage is "FANTASY", "IMAGINATION", "WISHFUL THINKING"...or just plain old "DENIAL".  As in, you see something right before your very eyes, but wanting it to be different to satisfy the wants of self, refuse to accept/recognize what one is seeing.

So when we give a prostitute money for sex or to be a Sugar Daddy we Know 'How the Cow Ate the Cabbage', (We INSERTED CABBAGE, Reality), but when we give a Novia (supposedly a novia) money (Perks,Apts,Cars,etc)for sex and companionship, but never throw demands for Emotional Love, Devotion, Loyalty, etc. into the game 'definatively', we can't/don't know if they are with us because of/for the money and convience or not. We cloud the issue by clouding the rules. Therefore we are INSERTING CABBAGE, but denying that's what we're doing. And then try to rationalize what we are seeing to match what WE WANT to see. But rarely do we get to have life both ways. Pay to Play and Recieve "Unconditional" Love .

So watch how you bend the rules, you just might be bending the results also. Or, Watch What you Wish for, you just might get it, or, like Buzzy said, "Many a Man has fell in love with a Dimple, but married the "whole" woman.

OR, Morals, Values and Character, don't pick a woman without them.

Deal With Reality, Fantasy Just Prolongs the Pain.

Over and Out

HD

[jim c]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: e: Re: Sorry man......., posted by Houndog on Jun 10, 2001

Thanks dog for the post it was very deep and appreciated. Jim C

[Evan]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: e: Re: Sorry man....some..., posted by jim c on Jun 9, 2001

The one that us country folk use in Wisconsin is... "slicker than calf sh!t on glass" or my personal favorite..."hornier than a two pecker billy goat"
                          Evan

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: Isn't a 46 year old guy, posted by Pete Eiguren on Jun 6, 2001

Pete,

First let me say I agree with you for the most part, and I send my condolences and best wishes for the future to H2O.

I will have to disagree however that 25-30 yr age differences are common in Colombia....although even 90 yr old men can have sex with 19 yr olds...here or there...under certian circumstances. I actively persued finding out about how big age differences "really are" on every trip I made to Colombia, talking to and asking anyone and everyone that would listen.

The answers I recieved lead me to believe...along with many personal observations...that an Older Colombian might have young girlfriends(18-25) and be their Sugar Daddy...but "Marriage" between people of 20-30 yr diffences where the woman is very young is very uncommon. Now when the women are over 30 then the picture changes slightly, with the age difference possibly widening with no ill effects.

IMO...a 40-45 yr old guy "married to" a 19-22yr old girl is agency hype ...but is not the norm or even very common. Of course there are exceptions, however exceptions don't define the rules.

Just my observations...your mileage, risk and luck may vary.

HD