Letter Writing????

[Patrick]

... in response to Why?, posted by Ralph on May 21, 2001

Success is far more dependent on the man than the agency.

[Ralph]

... in response to Good advice, posted by Patrick on May 21, 2001

Hey Patrick, I have emailed you a  few times and gotten no response. If the answer is no, just tell me. I'm a big boy;-)

[Patrick]

... in response to Do you check your email;-), posted by Ralph on May 22, 2001

I've only been checking email sporatically since December, when my home system on which I run the business side of things melted down, taking hundreds of hours of programming with it.  I don't even respond to banner advertisers at the moment.  I hope to have everything restored soon and will once again start reading email once it's all done.

[Ralph]

... in response to Re: Do you check your email;-), posted by Patrick on May 23, 2001

I sent in a request for link exchange a while back. Had no idea you were having such trouble. Good luck getting it back up and running.

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Letter Writing?, posted by Ron on May 20, 2001

You weren't very clear the first time. They ALL lied to you? How sad. As for what would have happened if you went to an agency? They would have all lied to you also. Sounds to me like Sister Margret from Saint Marry's Accemedy would have lied to you.
Yeah, that's it Ron, they're all lying b*&^%$, right?.

I used to work with a guy who had been divorced thirteen (13, count em!) times and he sounded a lot like you, and it was NEVER his fault either.

[Ron]

... in response to Tell us how you feel, Ron, posted by Michael B on May 20, 2001

If you could read Michel B., and read what I wrote, I have said very clear this is what I`ve been thru.   This is what I have been thru, and there seems to be the same pattern from them, over, and over.  If you got lucky,.......that`s cool !!    But if you could read,......I have been saying that they all can`t be like this !!!, and still trying to find a nice one........but maybe you can`t understand English. If this isn`t a place to tell each other what we have been thru, then why don`t you make up stories about how you`re the "big stud" when it comes to landing Colombian women, and you can get anyone you want, or how many you got when you went down there,  and all the other crap you have to offer this site.

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Tell us how you feel, Ron, posted by Ron on May 20, 2001

I can read, write, speak and understand English quite well, with maybe an occasional spelling error. Apparently I read English much better than you, since I never wrote that I was a big stud, nor that I had more than one woman, nor that I could get anyone I wanted. In fact, I never claimed to have even been in that country, nor any other "crap".

I do know why all the women lie to you....but it won't do you any good to tell, because you won't beleive me or fifteen other guys until you figure it out for yourself. When you do get it, the women will quit lying to you.

And for telling you that, you should pay for MY trip.

[Ron]

... in response to You just TOLD us why they lie to you. Th..., posted by Michael B on May 21, 2001

I can hear your mind saying,...."if this guy would be honest  with them, then they would be honest with him".  Am I right   If not,....I`m sorry for thinking that you were thinking this. Really.    You tell me, Michael B., and get your 15 friends to vote on it, OK ?   What are the chances for having it all work out on the first time down ?? What would be the chances for having it work on the second time down    Could the same thing happen two times   Could it happen three times ?   I don`t know how many times Houndog went down before he found his wife. Can you tell us Houndog ?    Like the rest of us,...you are looking for someone that doesn`t have the additude of an American women,......but it would be interesting to hear their side of the story as they tell everyone how they did you wrong,......and it was never your fault.   To make this very clear to evryone on this board, I ask you:   "If a Latin Women tells you she has children, and you "find out" when you get there, was she lying to you ?"   Just let your answer be "YES", or "NO" !  Just one simple question for you, so everyone knows how you think, and how I think.  Simple enough, don`t you say ??    Answer this one too: "If she never told you that she was on drugs, and had breakdowns till you got there, was she lying to you ?"  Just a simple "YES", or "NO".   Just answer these two simple questions.

[pack]

... in response to Tell us how you feel, Ron, posted by Michael B on May 20, 2001

wait a minute michael give the guy a chance to tell his story. Ron , it would be better if you were a little more specific , give us more details . mikes right you just cant start calling them all liars , tell the story .

[Ron]

... in response to Re: Tell us how you feel, Ron, posted by pack on May 20, 2001

Lying to me would be like :   you have how many kids (when you get there) !!!!      Another would be:  Forgot to tell you I take drugs, and had 2 break downs !!!!!    Hows......you and the picture don`t look the same........there`s about 30 more pounds on you !!!     Hows:.....you want to bring who ?........you mean the whole family ?   And....."You mean my house isn`t big enough ?"     How`s this one???  "So I left everything in the taxi,....Don`t worry !!!.....you buy me new things!!" HEY !!!.....If you`re not "Honest & Sincere" with someone,.....then you`re lying to them !!!!!    That simple to me.  Hey Pack,........I`m still waiting for Houndog to tell me ( and us Rookies)how many thousands of dollars he wasted, before he found the right one.   He won`t tell me.   Can you be "HONEST"  Houndog  Asked him three times now.  Now that`s strange.  Also,....Houndog,......it was you who said that you had a "void" in your life !!!!.......not me.    I`m looking for someone to share in my life.  Different motives I guess, but that does make either one wrong....so you know !

[bret]

... in response to Re: Re: Tell us how you feel, Ron, posted by Ron on May 20, 2001

man, with all due respect, you gotta wise up a little bit, or you are gonna get taken for a ride in any country you happen to be in.

some women lie in every country, this one, that one! it doesn't matter.

look, in this world, you have to be the master of your own destiny. you control the details of your daily actions, not some hot babe you just met. if some women lies to you and spends your cash, and you let her, then it is your fault!

o.k., maybe the first time in life that a woman takes you for a ride, it's her fault. we were all once young, trusting and not to smart. and we have all been burned before in our lives. but you get smart or you lose again.

you gotta get tough in life. you control who spends your money, not some woman. you go on like some love sick teenage girl, "oh, she took me for this, she took me for that, i wasted all this money and no sweet girl".

well welcome to the real world!

these women don't want a softie, they want a strong man and a sensitive man, but they want it in one person! just like we want sweet AND attractive. but you have to play hard ball in life, or you will get taken every time.

i have read a few of your posts, and you sure whine a lot about what a victim you are. well, take control of the situation, 'cause in life people will always lie to you, even the ones closest to you sometimes. if you haven't figured that out, then you haven't lived long enough.

maybe you should put this columbian thing on hold for a while until you mature in life, and learn a few things about the real world, because you just might find what you think you are looking for down there, get married, and then you would really have something to whine about.

bret

[Ron]

... in response to uhh...hello??, posted by bret on May 21, 2001

Hello-o-oooo, to you too !    Rookies, aren`t wise.....don`t you know that ?  Trying to learn the ropes, as they say.  Hey Bret,.....I guess you haven`t found your Miss Right, either ?  How many times have you gone down ???In the beginning,.....I got court up in the believing what the Agencies  say about these women, that`s all.  Go to any Web site, as you`ve been and read what they tell you about them !!!    Doesn`t it sound wonderful ?   It did for me, and for you too,I guess......or you wouldn`t be here, or looking at Latin women yourself.  I know people lie, in all countries,......but it`s a "choice" someone makes to do, or not. These women,....the way they are written up,...aren`t suppose to be like this, remember ??    Are you saying that these women will lie to "wimps", and not to "Real men" ? So they will use the guys that are kind, and nice to them, if that`s a wimp to you ......and not use the ones that are tough, and in control  ?     If that is it,.....then that tells me alot about them.   I thank you for that bit of information.   The tapes I listened to from these agencies,......the women were always saying that they love a man that is tender, and shows respect, and......(well, you know what they say !).......so I`ve had the wrong approach to all of this.    I wonder why they made that tape, then ?? The Agency wouldn`t lie to us, would they ?   I have to call these agencies and tell them that.   THe women don`t really mean what they say on the tapes.    I don`t mind taken the "hits", from you guys,......I`ll be ready the next time down, that`s for sure. (smile)  Houndog !!!........how much money did you waste again ........and how many trips down ?   I`ve been waiting, and asking you, a bunch of times now.  And be "honest" with me, OK  !   You`ve been the full route in all of this....(the "goods, and the bads", the "ups & downs")!!!........so tell me the truth, if you`re going to answer.   Are you going to answer ?

[Hodajr]

... in response to Re: uhh...hello??, posted by Ron on May 21, 2001

See above "Check yourself, before you wreck yourself". Your rantings are showing that the problem is not just with the women you are meeting

Relax dude....

[Houndog]

... in response to Re: uhh...hello??, posted by Ron on May 21, 2001

When Brett & Houndog agree on something (anything) ...YOU...SHOULD Listen Closely...Carefully...even write it down..!!!

My fiancee and I are going to lunch...after she gets up off my lap...soooooooooooooooo...NONE of it was wasted..!!!!!

Houndog

[Houndog]

... in response to uhh...hello??, posted by bret on May 21, 2001

Well you finally pleasantly surprised me. I agree with your statements and perspectives.

They DO want both in the same person. Most want a smart strong guy that they feel safe with. Many women pull 'their stuff' to see if the guy is smart enough, strong enough and in control enough to make a good partner for them.

Most women don't want a victim or a wimp...they want a Man.

Houndog